A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[patiently]

Lexi im so sorry your temp dropped hun! maybe an implantation dip? if not then i am really sorry but you still could only be a few weeks away from your BFP! just one more AF and your bfp could be here! hope next month is your month!! sending special baby dust to you x

Ladyfog glad your first day back at work was good aww you have a little bump now?? aww thats so cute!!! not long to go before the big reveal to everyone then!!! Aww wishing you all the best hun!

Ayclobes good luck bd hope you get your bfp really quickly!

Tweak i still have the hot flashes and i took my last clomid pill eleven days ago! lol! its a pain at night time! will you be using opks? are you feeling more optimistic with clomid? Hope this is your lucky clomid cycle hun!! FC

Beach im so so sorry for your loss...it really is a positive thing that your dr has said that it probably is down to bad luck...which means your chances of having a healthy pregnancy next time are good! sending lots of hugs your way hun...x x x x

My OH and i did get to bd on friday and saturday and sunday i had to pull out all the stops and seduce him!! lol...but even though i wanted to bd today in case i havent ovulated yet...i am so tired so we decided to skip today and will bd again tomorrow hopefully...The reason why i dont know if i have ovulated is because my temp is doing funny things. I dont actually get a good 2 hours sleep before im temping and sometimes i temp at different times because im working shifts...so i dont know...yesterday and today have been having intense cramping so think i may have ovulated yesterday...hmm not sure ill see what my temp says tomorrow morning and if i havent ovulated aww well we tried this month...

How is everyone else doing???

Sending lots of baby dust across the thread!

 

[lexi374]

Nah not implantation im 10/11 dpo and only have 10/11 lp so thats me done this month! Arrgghhh its such a pain!

Sounds like you got plenty BD in, in the end! Youve done all you can fingers crossed for you xx

 

[patiently]

Lexi- hun im sorry! dont worry though you could have a bfp in the next couple of weeks really hope next month is your month!! FC and hugs x x x and lots and lots of baby dust

 

[justwaiting]

Welcome back beach, Sorry you had such a sad start to the new year. I hope it is just bad luck and next time it will be your rainbow.
Can you ask what they'll do differently next time to try help?

sorry about the temp drop lexi, time to relax have a wine or 5 and prepare for more bding in a week or so, I know it's frusterating and your doing everything right, doesn't matter how perfectly you time it some months it's just doesn't happen and thats the worst part. it will happen for you.

good luck everyone else.

afm - time to start weaning of the progesterone very scared but a positive sign I guess. Symptoms all opver the place but there no the less.

 

[BeachChica]

Just waiting - When I went to the specialist last week and they discovered that there was no HB, he said that he wouldn't know what else to do different next time or anything else to test. He hasn't seen anything that would cause this to keep happening and just feels like it's "bad luck". He is going to meet with me again after I get my test results back from the MC tissue so maybe he will think of something else then.

In addition, I went back to my regular OB office for my D&C last week because my specialist no longer performs surgeries (and they had performed the others). A new doctor there actually met with me for the D&C and performed the procedure. She is fairly young but was very interested in my genetic testing and said that she had done quite a few studies in genetics. She was going to look over all of my paperwork from thhe specialist and I thought it might be helpful to have a fresh set of eyes looking over all of my labs. Maybe she will think of something else.

I'm really frustrated at this point. Did you do anything different this time? Or has anyone else been able to find a reason for their recurring miscarriages?

 

[ayclobes]

Beach - I am sorry, i don't know what to tell you. I've lost 4 angels also, the first 3 were super early 4-5wks and my last one (11/23/11) was at 9w+4 (hb stopped at 6w4d)..we're ttc this month..yes i know they say to wait but we chose not to. my dr said if my af is normal for me than it is ok with her. I got my +opk at cd10..here's the https://i913.photobucket.com/albums/ac338/ashyy_bby/op2.jpg

 

[BeachChica]

That's great ayclobes!!! Sending lots of this month. Did you have any testing done for your losses?

 

[ayclobes]

The first 3? no. They were gonna test this last one b/c i had to have a d&c.

 

[BeachChica]

Oh ok. So you should probably be getting those results back soon.

 

[ayclobes]

I haven't hears anything yet..they said it could take 2-12wks or longer

 

[justwaiting]

Good luck Ayclobes!

Beach, they found nothing wrong with my bloods either just my uterine scars on the scans. My Dr thought that progesterone might be my problem and the results of my first bloods showed my progesterone was on the low side so she put me on it. my progesterone has stayed fairly steady since then and I'm now being weaned of the progesterone. I don't know if this is why so far I'm still pregnant (I previously never had a living baby past 6wks) have your drs talked progesterone at all? other than that I'm doing nothing different just hoping it'll be ok!
this new lady sounds lovely, maybe she can shed some light and give some fresh ideas, i think sometimes when it doesn't make sense the dr's stop trying or don't know what else to do. your lucky you have a dr who can admit he is out of ideas!

 

[Ladyfog]

JW, good luck coming off the progesterone, it must be a nervous time for you. Still you're 10 weeks now (yay!) so your placenta is probably doing a bit of work by now so I'm sure you'll be fine. Do you come off it gradually over the next few weeks?

Beach - I hope you get some answers of there is something wrong. It is good you're getting a fresh pair of eyes. I have done everything the exactly the same each pregnancy, I really think my MCs were down to bad luck, so afraid I'm not much help. Are there any lifestyle changes you can make that could affect things, like smoking or drinking you could avoid? Not saying you have done anything wrong before, but I anything you can do to help could make you feel more in control and could make the difference?

Good luck AYC - glad you got a +OPK. lots of to you! Does it normally take you long to get pregnant?

Hi everyone else! Any testers this week? How are the other pregnant ladies doing?

AFM, everything just seems to be ticking along at the moment. Still haven't done any of my exercise DVDs as I've just been too tired before work and too tired when I get home! Going to have a go this weekend I think and then try to do it a few times next week as it'll be my second week back.

 

[ayclobes]

Lady - idk about how long it takes to get pregnant..but based on the last times i m/c..i ended up pregnant like the month later, but lost that one too..im thinking it was b/c i had issues with progesterone though. sept was the first month i got pregnant and had no idea..until i tested the day af was due..imagine my shock. we'll still ttc this month though. i got a + on my cheapie opk, but not my digi one..im thinking its b/c i got my surge on the digi already though. i *should* o by this weekend!

 

[FloridaGirl21]

ladies!! Just checking in on everyone.. Hope you're all well xx

 

[Neversaynever]

Ah ladies I am sorry I haven't beeen in here...I thought I had updated

All ok with my scan on Wednesday and they put me forward to 8 weeks...another scan in two weeks which will be the clincher

Lady...how was your first week back?

Beach...so sorry life is so damn cruel and hopefully there will be a reason for this loss

JW....brill that you are weaning off the prog

Lexi...did the hag come?

Patiently...how many DPO are you? Glad you managed some BD

AJ...you ok?

Florida...glad all is good for you

Tweak...on the countdown yet to TWW yet?

Acyl....I was supposed be having testing dine for RMC this month but couldn't resist a rudie and now look

to everyone I have missed

and and happy weekend

XxX

 

[ayclobes]

i have a question about o'ing lol. I got my first LH surge with the CB digi on 1/11 and my cheapie opk was most deff positive on 1/12.. i took both of them just a couple minutes ago..and both negative..that means i have or will be o'ing soon? right? the only time we've bd'd was 1/11 annnnd i put one of those instead cup things in overnight..my odd's are good right? We had been planning on bd'ing tomorrow and sunday..but im gonna suck up it and tell dh i wana bd tonight..even though it'll be hell getting up at 5am for work at 6am..oh well.

the photos:
Taken 1/11/12
https://i913.photobucket.com/albums/ac338/ashyy_bby/americas%20next%20top%20mommy/op2.jpg

Taken 1/12/12https://i913.photobucket.com/albums/ac338/ashyy_bby/americas%20next%20top%20mommy/opk2.jpg

 

[NewToAllThis]

Ayclobes - the can live for a couple of days so the 11th BD session will keep you in the running but if you can get some in tonight, even better. Good luck hun.

Hi to everyone - sorry I'm not commenting on everyone. Had a bad day today.
(copied from my journal - sorry for those two are reading twice)
A woman from work disappeared mid morning, only to return with her son or daughters (not sure as I didn't stick around long enough) scan pic. She was showing everyone and announcing that "its a boy!".
I can take all the baby talk in the world and I tolerate lots of it in my job but scan pics I can't look at them.
I have never had one with a live baby on it and it just brings it all home to me.
I'm sat here in tears over it - today was ruined for me by this.
I left my desk and skulked away to the toilets. It didn't go un-noticed as the girl I sat next to followed me and asked if I was ok. (I had locked myself in the cubicle by then). I told her I just needed a few minutes alone.

The guy I sit opposite had also emailed me asking if I was ok so I was touched by their kindness but the day wasn't the same after that.

I block out whats happened to me and bury it to the deepest corner of my mind (not sure if that's the right thing to do or not, but its how I cope) and it just takes a little something to bring it right out again.

I'll be ok tomorrow - I just feel that I'm not coping right now

 

[Ladyfog]

Ah New, so sorry you've had a crap day. I think we all cope by picking ourselves up and looking forward as it's the only way we can move towards our goals of having healthy pregnancies. The problem is the pain is still there and comes flooding back when something like what happened to you happens. I know I would have reacted the same in your situation.

A good night's sleep will help, and the knowledge that it will be you with that scan picture one day, hopefully in the not distant future.

AYC - I understand it's recommended to BD for the 3 days following a +ve OPK, but New's right, those little swimmers can survive for a while.

Hi Florida thanks for popping in! Any news?

Hi NSN - So glad oopsie's hanging in there!

AFM, I am absolutely exhausted, reckon I'll be off to bed in a minute! Work's been so busy, but it means the week has flown by! Only a week or so until my heart scan now . I'm still feeling a bit icky, mainly when I'm tired and nipples are still tender so I'm pretty sure everything's ticking along but I'm nervous about what they're going to find. I've been quite achey as I think my ligaments are stretching as my bump grows. DH said he could see a little bump the other day but I think it depends on how windy I am!!

I hope you all have lovely weekends and wake up happy tomorrow

 

[patiently]

NTAT im so sorry today has been so hard on you hun! It really does hit you hard when it comes back and I think we all try to bury those feelings and we manage to do it quite well but every now and then we get a reminder of what couldve been...or what is happening for others (i know how you feel as my little sister is expecting and fact be told has been with her boyfriend for just over a month now so two weeks when she got pregnant she hasnt even told her dr yet!!!) but feel free to vent on here becase this is the one place where we all understand what you are feeling and support you...thats what were here for to support one another...I hope you have a better day tomorrow and in the near future that you will be showing us your scan pics! loads of hugs your way x x x

Ayclobes i think you should try and bd again today...are you charting...i had a positive opk on cd14 but ff says according to my temps that i ovulated on cd18 though i believe it was cd17....but i would say to try and bd for three days after your positive opk...whilst saying that im sure that because you bd on the 11th im sure you will still be covered...Good luck hun...hope this is your sticky bfp month!!!

NSN how are you doing? how are your symptoms now? Hope all is well hun x

Florida how are you? Happy 6 weeks!!!

AFM im supposedly 4dpo today but i really feel its 5dpo as i think i o'd on cd 17 and not cd18...its a good thing that i was temping this month as i wouldve probably stopped bd after cd 16 and thought i was covered but my temp didnt rise until cd17...so? I actually feel cramping like AF and tbh im trying not to symptom spot and its probably not pregnancy related but i feel really nauseous!!! today whilst food shopping i felt wretched! hoping its all bfp related though...will be testing on 10dpo i think...FC ladies hope this is our month!!!

Hi to everyone else x

 

[ayclobes]

Thanks ladies! Today was my 3rd day of +opks! I don't temp..but I do put my + in on ff. I should o by the 16th I think..plan to bd tomorrow and Sunday..and possibly Monday..we shall see. Af is due around jan. 30th