A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[patiently]

Wow congrats Tweak sooooo happy for you! i knew it! so happy!! im doing a dance right now to celebrate..hehe! hope all is well and even though its early a bfp is a bfp! so im jumping for joy..sending tons of sticky baby dust your way...whoop whoop!

Lady im so sorry for your colleague at work...hope she also gets her bfp and baby beore the year is up...ttc is so hard sometimes...but i really do wish you all the best when announcing your baby...im sure everyone will be supportive and having suffered a loss also im sure your colleague will be happy for you...

Hi to everyone else! x

 

[justwaiting]

Lady - Thanks for asking, My scan went great. Baby measured 2 days ahead, beautiful hb that we got to hear for the first time. He/she was jumping all over the place while they tried to get the measurments. Risk is 1:18000 which is great. I am now in the 2nd tri and so happy about it, never ever even imagined this day since all this happened. Now nothing until 16wks with the midwife and 20wks scan 4 wks later. I miss the constant reassurance already!!!

 

[NewToAllThis]

everyone

JW - glad your scan went well. 2nd tri already - thats fab!

Marieh - welcome hun

Patiently - hey hun, how are you doing?

Ayclobes - so sorry hun, hope you are doing ok.

Lady - not long til your anomaly scan. Can't wait for you to go public and hear what everyone says. I'm sure they'll all understand why you kept it a secret for so long.

Hello to everyone else - I do read all posts but by the time I get to here, I've forgotten who's where in their cycle etc....
Still waiting for AF. My body is totally out of whack. Got nearly positive OPK on CD8, didn't test the next day and only managed to DTD once.
Not actively TTC, don't feel I can.
Waiting for scan appointment to check my ovaries and uterus. No new yet.

 

[marieh2008]

Good Morning Ladies im on the 2ww wait i keep getting all sorts of syptoms i keep telling my self its pms. But i hope and pray is a little bean in there. I feel like im going crazy i really do. I don't know what you think to this but I thought about keep a pms diary so that every 2ww i can look and say see its pms not pregnant?

Is it so wrong to hope and wish so hard when you have lost something so precious already?

I know its too early to syptoms of pregnancy but why is it so bad this month ive never had it this bad before? Sorry my OH doesn't understand at all.

Its al disappearing so i guess that means im not pregnant AF is due around the 7th of feb. I've thought about charting but i can't face doing all that I became so obessed it made me ill. Hope you all get your bfp's. I guess we all have to remember that world doesnt stop when ttc and also that there is only around a 20% chance each month.

 

[marieh2008]

everyone

JW - glad your scan went well. 2nd tri already - thats fab!

Marieh - welcome hun

Patiently - hey hun, how are you doing?

Ayclobes - so sorry hun, hope you are doing ok.

Lady - not long til your anomaly scan. Can't wait for you to go public and hear what everyone says. I'm sure they'll all understand why you kept it a secret for so long.

Hello to everyone else - I do read all posts but by the time I get to here, I've forgotten who's where in their cycle etc....
Still waiting for AF. My body is totally out of whack. Got nearly positive OPK on CD8, didn't test the next day and only managed to DTD once.
Not actively TTC, don't feel I can.
Waiting for scan appointment to check my ovaries and uterus. No new yet.

Good luck with your scan

 

[lexi374]

NSN Told ya!!!

JW yay for a great scan!

NTAT i hope you get your appointment through soon and you can properly try again.

Patiently hows things with your sister at the mo?

Tweak i hope all is good with you!

Lady not long til you are half way! Thanks for still staying on here and supporting everyone, thats really great of you, i for one appreciate it.

Marie any symptoms?

Ayc, pink, beach, florida, RM, August, AJ and anyone i missed hi how are you all??

Afm i ovulated somewhere between sun and tues, im gonna call it mon. Opks had lines sun but not as dark as the control, then were gone on mon! So super short surge!

Anyway hopefully weve got it covered, we BD every day last week missed mon and did tues am. So im in the tww.

Finally got hold of DHs gp about the SA test, she said yes it means only 2% are normal but because count and motility are high it more than makes up for it, and no they def would not be cause of miscarriages! I dunno ive read conflicting info on that 1.

I saw my gp today and asked her the same ? and she thought it could be a possiblity, as there would be alot of abnormal sperm and she said it depends where the abnormality is and whether they were still able to penetrate the egg or not. She did say she wasnt sure as she was not a fertilty expert but would try and find out for me... so the jurys still out on that 1.

I went to see her regarding the info on nk cells and letter from Prof Quenby, she said she could not prescribe me steroids as she would be struck off!! But she could do the progesterone! Shes going to ring the professor i think and try and sort it out! So i have prog to take from 7dpo for 7 days then test if negative will bleed and on to next cycle if positive carry on, and hopefully start steroids?!

Cracked a filling midweek so had a trip to the dentist too!! Im glad its friday, just waiting for DH to come home with chinses now! Have a good weekend everyone x

 

[patiently]

Hi lexi was wondering where you was...my little sister had a scan last week as she had some bleeding...i felt so bad that i doubted her pregnancy and i prayed so hard that all will be fine and it is...so i am thrilled for her...she saw the baby bouncing in the scan and has another on the 15th feb! im excited for her but so so so fed up with my own situation so its really hard and shes been staying with us for the week now...i want her to be around but its so hard and i cant just tell her to leave...just really wish i had my little baby right now...aww im a little low today just want to get our baby plans on the road now...its been almost two years that we've been ttc now..such a long time and i feel constantly like time is running out! I hope this will be our month...PLEASE GOD! Its getting so hard hearing about everyone being pregnant and all the photo uploads of fb...argh sorry ladies rant over

Lexi for some reason i think this will be your bfp month...i just have this feeling...when you said you think you o'd i had a feeling that you are going to get your bfp...and you covered all bases too! FXed hun!

AFM im on c12 and still negative opks...have twinges on both sides but dont think im ovulating just yet, i brought softcups and conceive plus this month but OH is really reluctant to use either so i cant be bothered to fight this month...i have had enough stress and i just want to take it easy...we'll see what happens...Fxed..

How is everyone else?

 

[FloridaGirl21]

aww patiently I know how you feel We were TTC 21 months before this bfp.. I used soft cups and preseed (among other things) the month we conceived so FXed for you hun! Keeping you in my prayers

hope the Clomid isn't treating you too bad either

 

[Neversaynever]

ladies

I'm sorry I haven't been around much..head has been up my own ass

Just wanting to chuck you all some

Had another scan today and all is looking good...still sinking in that this MIGHT just be our rainbow baby

XXX

 

[marieh2008]

NSN Told ya!!!

JW yay for a great scan!

NTAT i hope you get your appointment through soon and you can properly try again.

Patiently hows things with your sister at the mo?

Tweak i hope all is good with you!

Lady not long til you are half way! Thanks for still staying on here and supporting everyone, thats really great of you, i for one appreciate it.

Marie any symptoms?

Ayc, pink, beach, florida, RM, August, AJ and anyone i missed hi how are you all??

Afm i ovulated somewhere between sun and tues, im gonna call it mon. Opks had lines sun but not as dark as the control, then were gone on mon! So super short surge!

Anyway hopefully weve got it covered, we BD every day last week missed mon and did tues am. So im in the tww.

Finally got hold of DHs gp about the SA test, she said yes it means only 2% are normal but because count and motility are high it more than makes up for it, and no they def would not be cause of miscarriages! I dunno ive read conflicting info on that 1.

I saw my gp today and asked her the same ? and she thought it could be a possiblity, as there would be alot of abnormal sperm and she said it depends where the abnormality is and whether they were still able to penetrate the egg or not. She did say she wasnt sure as she was not a fertilty expert but would try and find out for me... so the jurys still out on that 1.

I went to see her regarding the info on nk cells and letter from Prof Quenby, she said she could not prescribe me steroids as she would be struck off!! But she could do the progesterone! Shes going to ring the professor i think and try and sort it out! So i have prog to take from 7dpo for 7 days then test if negative will bleed and on to next cycle if positive carry on, and hopefully start steroids?!

Cracked a filling midweek so had a trip to the dentist too!! Im glad its friday, just waiting for DH to come home with chinses now! Have a good weekend everyone x

I'm not sure as most things have calmed down 8dpo. I've still got indigestion and breasts things odd pain and ratty beyound belief tired out. Gassy not sure if my smells better or not had a cold for ages so ive no idea. Oh yea and my pee smells a little werid and i keep going like mad i mean even in the night a few times constantly hungry. I darent test so i will just wait and see.

I can't see how it could i pray and hope but ive been dissapointed so many times

 

[marieh2008]

ladies

I'm sorry I haven't been around much..head has been up my own ass

Just wanting to chuck you all some

Had another scan today and all is looking good...still sinking in that this MIGHT just be our rainbow baby

XXX

Good luck glad your scan went well. My friend is due the exact same day.

 

[marieh2008]

Hi everyone,

Just to say have a nice weekend. Im not pregnant Af isn't due till weekend and now i have no syptoms of anything at all. A little tender when i wipe i know tmi but thats it. Gps cant find any infection

 

[Tweak0605]

Hi ladies! :wave:

I haven't been around so much either. I've been EXHAUSTED when I get home from work. Mostly posting in my own journal. But now that I'm up so early I could catch up a bit.

Everything is going fine, so far. HCG came back at 284 yesterday, up from 42 on Tuesday. Doctor was more than happy with that number since it's doubling at a rate of 26 hours. He also gave in and prescribed me progesterone. He didn't think I needed it, but it makes me feel 10x better he did give me it. It's the reason I think I m/c'd both times before, so I wanted to do everything possible to keep this baby. And we have an ultrasound on the 21st! I just keep praying everything goes smoothly!

Hope you all are well

 

[lexi374]

Hi lexi was wondering where you was...my little sister had a scan last week as she had some bleeding...i felt so bad that i doubted her pregnancy and i prayed so hard that all will be fine and it is...so i am thrilled for her...she saw the baby bouncing in the scan and has another on the 15th feb! im excited for her but so so so fed up with my own situation so its really hard and shes been staying with us for the week now...i want her to be around but its so hard and i cant just tell her to leave...just really wish i had my little baby right now...aww im a little low today just want to get our baby plans on the road now...its been almost two years that we've been ttc now..such a long time and i feel constantly like time is running out! I hope this will be our month...PLEASE GOD! Its getting so hard hearing about everyone being pregnant and all the photo uploads of fb...argh sorry ladies rant over

Lexi for some reason i think this will be your bfp month...i just have this feeling...when you said you think you o'd i had a feeling that you are going to get your bfp...and you covered all bases too! FXed hun!

AFM im on c12 and still negative opks...have twinges on both sides but dont think im ovulating just yet, i brought softcups and conceive plus this month but OH is really reluctant to use either so i cant be bothered to fight this month...i have had enough stress and i just want to take it easy...we'll see what happens...Fxed..

How is everyone else?

Well i hope you turn out to have psychic powers and you are right lol!!

Im going to try and chill a bit this tww cos last month i felt a bit obsessive and kept looking at my temp chart and comparing previous months!
Ill start the prog on mon so that will put pay to that cos it will make temps high anyway.

It must be very hard to have your sister staying with you, even though you love her very much its still a reminder she has got something that you want and have been trying very hard to get.

How far along is she now?

You are allowed to feel down, we all do from time to time, its become a stressful process for all of us. Try and do something fun with OH to take your mind off things. fx for this month x

 

[patiently]

Tweak glad all is good...

Lexi i totally understand about obsessing in the tww...month after month i try to refrain myself...

My sister is almost 12 weeks now...hence why she is having another scan soon...today is a year since i lost my first baby...and im still not pg huff...im trying not to think about it but its on my mind...i think i will do some retail therapy today...

I really hope I am psychic and you get your bfp...FXed for us!!

 

[ayclobes]

hey ladies, sorry i've been a bit mia, been catching up on homework, working quite a bit and trying not to think about ttc. I've been keeping myself busy so i wont have time to bd just to make a baby lol. I've been back at my diet and am down 15lbs since january..so this is good!

 

[marieh2008]

hey ladies, sorry i've been a bit mia, been catching up on homework, working quite a bit and trying not to think about ttc. I've been keeping myself busy so i wont have time to bd just to make a baby lol. I've been back at my diet and am down 15lbs since january..so this is good!

Well done. Are you a member of a slimming club im a member of weight watchers online here in the uk and ive lost just over 15lbs since jan too great feeling isnt it. Hope it helps with ttc and just for me in general.

 

[marieh2008]

Hi guys, im feeling really low today. I don't know but I guess i was convinced that i was pregnant must of been pms but it was worse than ever. We did once in fertile week day before ovulation i think. Why i thought that would be enough I don't know. Some really close friends are expecting number 2 and while I am very pleased for them I guess im selfish wondering when it will be my turn.

Hope everyone is well. x

 

[patiently]

Hun im so sorry you're having a down day...it does get hard doesnt it and nature can be so cruel by having AF symptoms that are similar to PG symptoms...where are you in your cycle? has AF showed up...if not then try not to worry you're not out until she does...FXed for you hun hope you get your bfp really soon...

Still no positive opk and im cd14. this time last month it was positive but i didnt ovulate until cd 18 so maybe i still have time...i hope ovulation is just around the corner!! my OH has said he doesnt want to bd everyday!!! can you believe it...so we have been trying every other day until my positive opk...then we will try everyday...i hope we get our bfp this cycle!! how is everyone else doing?

 

[marieh2008]

Hun im so sorry you're having a down day...it does get hard doesnt it and nature can be so cruel by having AF symptoms that are similar to PG symptoms...where are you in your cycle? has AF showed up...if not then try not to worry you're not out until she does...FXed for you hun hope you get your bfp really soon...

Still no positive opk and im cd14. this time last month it was positive but i didnt ovulate until cd 18 so maybe i still have time...i hope ovulation is just around the corner!! my OH has said he doesnt want to bd everyday!!! can you believe it...so we have been trying every other day until my positive opk...then we will try everyday...i hope we get our bfp this cycle!! how is everyone else doing?

NO AF isnt here but I just know that Im not as much I as want to be I have prayed that I am. But I dont have nay syptoms bar a little back ache now and then and constant going to the loo. Been checked for infections. I hope you get your OPK this month. Hope we both get our BFP very soon. Some people say I would like a baby in summer or winter me I wouldnt mind girl or boy born when ever I would love it just the same. Just hope that I will be blessed with a baby very soon and that everyone on here will.