A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[ayclobes]

thanks ladies!

 

[lexi374]

Patiently please dont feel like you cant post on here when you are down, we are all here to support each other!

 

[Ladyfog]

Patiently, thank you for thinking of us all but these threads are the place to share to the good and the bad times with people that really do care about you. Please don't feel you have to hide your true feelings on here One day hopefully sooner than you think you'll be sharing happy news with us, but for the time being, let us all be here for you.

Hi Inoue - welcome Hope we can offer you support and for the next few days!

Marie - glad your test went OK. Good luck with the results and loving the PMA about spending time as a couple

NTAT - Good luck with the scan on Tuesday. Hope you finally get a way forwards. In answer to your questions, the kicks started off feeling like flutters in my tummy about 16 weeks but now feel like dull thumps - like I'm being flicked from the inside! I get more flicks after I've eaten as she gets full of energy!

Ayc - to you!

Wookie, there's still a good chance that it's just bad luck after 2 MCs. If the Drs don't think testing is necessary yet, then maybe just crack on with TTC when you feel ready?

Sorry if I've missed anyone! Hope you're all doing OK and have a good weekend.

It was the first anniversary of my first miscarriage on Wednesday an a year today I would have been at the hospital taking my first tablet for the medical management. I can't believe how quickly the year has gone, but also how far I feel I've come. I'm just very very grateful I have a healthy baby girl squiggling away in my tummy.

 

[lexi374]

Phew just got a pregnant 1-2 on my other digi, relieved as that was saying not pregnant on wednesday!

 

[wookie130]

Lexi!!! Whoohoo!!! Yay for the digi! Are you going to get beta hcg levels done? Huge congrats, and I'm praying this is your sticky bean!

Lady- Those anniversaries suck, don't they? Valentine's day was the due date of my first miscarried baby. You're so blessed to finally feel those little flutters and kicks after all of that, you know? I suppose as you think of what today means to you, your current successful pregnancy is definitely one of the gifts received by you from your angels.

 

[lexi374]

Thanks wookie, um they dont really do that as standard in the uk, they just kind of leave you to get on with it, im hoping for early scans though!

 

[BeachChica]

Hi girls :wave: just popping in for a quick hello! Hope everyone is doing well.

Lexi - so happy for you!!! Why are they being difficult about the progesterone?

Inoue - welcome!

Wookie - Dr.'s typically don't like to start the testing until after 3 MC's, I guess they feel like the first 2 are "normal"

Lady - those anniversaries do suck!!!

Ayc - FX for you!!! Dreams are a good sign!!!

Patiently - you def should post here for support! I wouldn't let your OH know you are upset though, maybe he is just feeling pressure from all the TTC and will relax some if he thinks you have

 

[Ladyfog]

Phew just got a pregnant 1-2 on my other digi, relieved as that was saying not pregnant on wednesday!

Yay!!!

 

[patiently]

Thanks for your support ladies i know this is definately the right place to offload but sometimes my negativity isn't beneficial to anyone including myself...

Lexi yay!!! so thrilled!! thats fantastic hope this is your sticky baby...

Lady those anniversary's are hard aren't they but like you said look at how far you've come...so even though you will still feel sad about your loss you still have something very positive to look forward to...and before you know it you will be meeting the little lady

Beach how are things on your side? hope all is well as can be x

To everyone else hello x

 

[lexi374]

Hi girls :wave: just popping in for a quick hello! Hope everyone is doing well.

Lexi - so happy for you!!! Why are they being difficult about the progesterone?

Inoue - welcome!

Wookie - Dr.'s typically don't like to start the testing until after 3 MC's, I guess they feel like the first 2 are "normal"

Lady - those anniversaries do suck!!!

Ayc - FX for you!!! Dreams are a good sign!!!

Patiently - you def should post here for support! I wouldn't let your OH know you are upset though, maybe he is just feeling pressure from all the TTC and will relax some if he thinks you have

Arghh!! I dunno! They dont really believe in progesterone to help here in uk as nothing proven and this treatment 'is outside the NHS!'

I think in most cases its been shown that it cant hurt and may help, but my gp obviously wants nothing to do with/doesnt believe in it, and is just being particularly difficult!

How are you anyway?

 

[lexi374]

Wow lady a cantaloupe!! Lol! We just bought 1 of those today! Shes getting big!

 

[marieh2008]

Hi Everyone

Im trying to not to think and hope that maybe im wong and my hcg will come up as being pregnant but i doubt it. Full of cold again headaches on and off each day for a week now. Im out tonight for a meal with OH. Were both looking forward to it. But annoyed ive lost 16lbs and jeans that fit me before dieting wont fit around my lower abdomen seriously great how annoying.

Lots of baby dust to your all and glue to those who need their little bean to stick. Hopefully I will be joining you soon.

 

[BeachChica]

Arghh!! I dunno! They dont really believe in progesterone to help here in uk as nothing proven and this treatment 'is outside the NHS!'

I think in most cases its been shown that it cant hurt and may help, but my gp obviously wants nothing to do with/doesnt believe in it, and is just being particularly difficult!

How are you anyway?

Lexi - My doctor mentioned that there are conflicting reports about its benefits (thats why most insurance won't cover it) but he still prescribed it because if your progesterone is low, it can help. I think the only negative thing is that it can keep a bad pregnancy going that your body would normally abort. I still had a MC while on it so I am not really sure about that part of it but with the 3 MC's you've had you'd think they would prescribe it just in case. Is there another OB you can go to? Maybe another doctor in the same practice that may have a difference outlook on it?

 

[Inoue]

Thanks for thr welcome!

Congrats to Lexi!! Love it when the digitals come up with the reading

 

[ayclobes]

I just edited a test i took yesterday..and low and behold a faint + hpt! ahhhh.

 

[patiently]

wow ayclobes congrats hun!!! so happy for you! Happy and Healthy 9 months hope this is your sticky baby...x

 

[Neversaynever]

Ayc...post the pic

Lexi... on the digi and the ticker

Lady..thise anniversaries are tough...it was my first loss on the 17th...and my second baby should have been due in just over three weeks. Being pregnant cushions the losses but it still hurts

Patiently...hope today is a better day post away on here too ok?

Beach...how are you doing?

Inoue...I remember you from last year at some point...sorry you find yoursekf here too but the ladies are really nice and supportive in here

Marie..hope there's some HCG in your beta

to everyone I've missed...so tired and jetlagged

XxX

 

[lexi374]

Arghh!! I dunno! They dont really believe in progesterone to help here in uk as nothing proven and this treatment 'is outside the NHS!'

I think in most cases its been shown that it cant hurt and may help, but my gp obviously wants nothing to do with/doesnt believe in it, and is just being particularly difficult!

How are you anyway?

Lexi - My doctor mentioned that there are conflicting reports about its benefits (thats why most insurance won't cover it) but he still prescribed it because if your progesterone is low, it can help. I think the only negative thing is that it can keep a bad pregnancy going that your body would normally abort. I still had a MC while on it so I am not really sure about that part of it but with the 3 MC's you've had you'd think they would prescribe it just in case. Is there another OB you can go to? Maybe another doctor in the same practice that may have a difference outlook on it?

I think most gps here would not be too keen, they are just general practitioners though so know a little bit of eerything but not specialized in anything iykwiim.

Hopefully i'll have better luck when i see someone at the hospital!

Do you have any meds to take for your next pregnancy?

NSN thanks hun, and as for tickers.... well never put 1 up before..... but what will be will be.
What time is your scan? Be sure to show us a pic.

AYC yay congratulations!!

Patiently are you ok??

Hi to all, hope you had a good weekend x

 

[Neversaynever]

Whether you have a ticker or not...it won't change the outcome good for you on being positive

Scan is at 11:30 although for some reason it's changed to being back at the materity hospital rather than the local scanning places

XxX

 

[marieh2008]

Thanks Ladies looks like feb is a great month for most of you. How long does it take for a beta to come back in the uk. Had it done midday thursday so would of been sent at 2pmish. Thanks

AYc Congratulations