A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[Neversaynever]

Lexi... you got a BFP sending you for stickyness

Patiently...I'm so sorry your OH is being so difficult I encountered the same issues every time and it made me so mad...hurt and upset. In the end we had a massive argument and we talked it out. We both wanted a baby badly..we both had to make changes and we both had to compromise. I hope you manage to find some sort of an agreement that gets you your BFP also...I don't think opk's work well/or are accurate when taking clomid

Marie...sorry you're getting a raw deal too...the times I've gotten pregnant is when I've thrown the towel in and gone with bodily signs. I guess you having PCOS makes it more difficult though

Wookie...sorry you have found yourself in here too...lots of lovely ladies to support you. Sorry for your losses it doesn't get easier but you have to have the hope

Beach...I personally believe that if your losses follow the same pattern, there is an issue but no necessarily a chromosome issue if that makes sense? A girl from work has a three yr old boy. Last year she had three losses...never got past 6 weeks. She had the testing done, takes 75mg of baby aspirin due to them finding she had higher end of normal clotting issue and she's now 17 weeks along. Also IVF won't change things...unless you do the PGD and people are so divided on that too. Yes it can pick up things such as translocations but one of the random chromosome issues it won't. Anyway...don't give up hun

Lady...tiny cute bump and love the scan pic goes to show that even 6mm fluid can mean sod all

Just...looking good

Tweak..happy 6 weeks

to anyone I've missed..sorry

AFM...all ok with me

XxX

 

[BeachChica]

Thanks NSN! Were you ever given a reason for your losses? It gives me hope when I see people with multiple losses have success in the end. I am hoping my specialist has some other guidance for me. I did not think the IVF was a good option at this point either. I just wish I would have had the tissue analysis from this last MC

 

[lexi374]

Thanks ladies! It means a lot!

Have had a nightmare day trying to get hold of theses steroids, my gp is such a pain in the arse!

Anyway to cut along story short DH was in birmingham today for a meeting, so he managed to go to coventry after and get the prescription from Prof Quenby herself as gp was not co-operating. She has spoke to my gp and i will get the cyclogest from her tomorrow. I have 4 weeks of Prednisolone, then Quenby said i should be able to get them from EPAU! We will see i guess.

I was so sure i was out, Ive never had a bfp this late before, now im stressing over the fact ov was late, and then the egg has been floating around for like 2 weeks before it implants. No symptoms. Arggh this is all just 1 big worry will just have to hope and pray as always.

 

[Neversaynever]

Lexi....deep breaths babe all will be ok

Beach...I was due for testing on the 10th of January...I had an oopsie moment of rudies and caught before testing and straight after third loss which was early

XxX

 

[patiently]

Lexi i knew it i really do think im psychic...i really do!! do you remember that i said i had a feeling that this will be your month...CONGRATULATIONS!!! im so happy for you!!! dont worry ok...take it one day at a time...so happy for you!!

Hi NSN glad all is well with you...

Marieh2008 hope you are feeling ok today...

AFM my younger sister had a scan today and the baby is so cute in the little pic..but i had to leave urgently and i just broke down on my own in my car...i just feel so lost like im not the person i was before we started ttc...everyone is getting pregnant apart from me! sorry for the rant just feeling so so so so so low...my OH wants us to just stop ttc next month but i cant...i am not ready to throw the towel in and im even considering using clomid again without him knowing...i know that is so bad...but when i talk about it he just says stop fussing over it...it should just happen by itself...and i feel even worst after...it should just happen but for me its taking so long...just fed up!

 

[lexi374]

Patiently i do remember what you said. it was one of my first thoughts this morning when i saw that line! You are def psychic!

Im sorry you are having such a shit time of it, ive felt like you do now so many times, and when it takes a while to get pregnant it makes it even worse. PMA you WILL get there!!

I duno what the answer is with oh...Do you need to tell him when you take clomid? Maybe you are telling him to much, try and pretend to go with the flow even if you are still keeping a check on things.

Afm I text my oldest friend to tell her today, im godmother to her daughter, and she said she peed on a stick today too and its positive! She was worrying about how to tell me! So thats 2 of my close friends that are pregnanat, i said to dh earlier they will have their babies and we will still be stuck on groundhog day! Pal is so hard!

to all x

 

[FloridaGirl21]

Lexi congrats

Patiently, hun

 

[justwaiting]

OMG lexi I'm so excited for you. I hope this is it I have everything crossed. PMA lady!!!!

 

[justwaiting]

Patiently I'm so sorry your having a shit time. Maybe have a ntnp month and pick it back up the month after if you don't get your bfp.
I really hope things get better for you soon

 

[marieh2008]

Hi Ladies hope your all well. Im going to the docs today for my first smear ewwwwwww. I have releaised that we need to enjoy our time together it will happen at some point I just need to keep loosing weight. But last week was totm light buts still had a gain of 3lbs weigh in is sat and still 2lbs of that remain and I have done everything im meant to so im a bit confused. Im full of cold runny nose bad head driving me crazy. Hope all you pregnant ladies get on ok and have lovely bubbas. All us ttc ladies let hope it happens soon and lots of baby dust to you.

 

[Ladyfog]

Hi, Just a quick post as I really need to get to work!

Congratulations Lexi!! And yay to Prof Quenby for getting the steroids sorted when your Dr was being crap! There's no reason why this won't be your rainbow - just take each step at a time and you'll be getting fat like me in no time!!

JW - wow 15 weeks!

Patiently - my heart really does go out to you at the moment Maybe it is worth just taking a step back for a month - to give yourself a rest if nothing else. It may make OH realise that he does want to try after all. I was thinking about you this morning, wondering whether you just need to talk it all out and work out what's bothering OH. If you can talk it through (like NSN did with her DH) then maybe you can work it all out? You WILL get your baby, but I'm sorry it's all a bit shit for you at the moment

Hope all the pregnant ladies are doing well and lots of to anyone that needs it.

My little lady says hello - she's kicking away after I've just had some breakfast!

 

[patiently]

Marieh...hope you are ok and your test wasnt too uncomfortable for you...when will you get the results? hope you feel better soon and baby dust to you too

Ladyfog thank you for your message and having me in your thoughts...i think i will take a step back next month well if i ever ovulate this cycle...i thought i o'd two days ago as i had a big thermal jump but today it went back down a little. I guess tomorrow mornings temp will give me more of an insight...and you're 20 weeks already time seems to be flying by...you just announced your pregnancy and you're already half way...wow! just hope i will be joining you ladies soon...i think the majority of women who have posted on here are actually expecting now...have you announced it at work yet?

Lexi how are you feeling? hope all is well...

Florida how are you getting on...?

To everyone else hello and hope you have a great evening...x

 

[FloridaGirl21]

patiently, I'm well. Had a scan yesterday and saw the babies, they're well. Thanks for asking

 

[marieh2008]

Hi Ladies im ok it wasn't too bad actually. They will ring if there is anything unexpected. Im trying to learn to relax and ttc not going that well yet lol, Enjoy being a couple while its just us.I know how you feel ive had miscarriages at beginning and later stages to my son born at 23weeks 5 days was a still birth. So my heart really does hurt but I had a breakdown after loosing him not just caused by that so im trying to relax.

Floridagirl - glad your scann went well.

Glad everyone is ok, Lots of baby dust to everyone who needs it.

 

[Inoue]

Hi ladies! May I join? Im 24 and had 2 losses (last D&C was oct '11) and were now trying again. Im 6doo at the moment and hoping for a bfp in few days . Its nice to see peoples sigs with babies now half way up the scale... Hope thats me one day! Lol. X

 

[NewToAllThis]

Lexi - Congrats hun. Made up for you. Sorry you're worrying, a normal part of PAL to be honest and nothing anyone says will change it. Just take comfort in the fact that miracles do happen

Florida - amazing news regarding your scan. Been thinking of you and your twins lately

Patiently - you remind me of me!! We seem to be having the same struggles. I'm here if you want to talk. Don't post much at the moment as not much positive to talk about but if you need someone, I'm happy to lend an ear

Lady - what does it feel like being kicked by your little lady?

Inoue - come join us, you're most welcome. Sorry for your losses

AFM - Not much going on. Scan on Tuesday has been put back til Friday. Just need some answers!

 

[ayclobes]

I'm 11dpo, and i've been having constant dreams about getting my bfp for the past few days..one dream i took a digi and it said "little bit pregnant" hmmm. i had these dreams in oct, and sure enough i was pregnant! we will see..af is due 2/19-2/23

 

[lexi374]

Florida yay for a great scan!

Patiently big hun have posted in your journal.

Welcome Inoue sorry you find yourself here but i hope we can support you.

Marie glad your test wasnt too bad.

Ayc i hope your dream is right!

Jw wow time is flying for you, you will be feeling kicks next!

Lady aww your little lady kicking you .

Tweak all ok?

Beach how are you hun?

Ntat sorry your scan was put back but hopefully you are going to get some answers very soon.

Pink how are you?

Nsn hope you had a fab trip!!

Wookie

AJ where are you?

To anyone i forgot im so sorry

AFM went to gp yest to get the prog, and she was even being difficult about that, after she had agreed to give it to me! Anyway she has given me 2 weeks and said ill have to get the rest from the hospital!

Wanna go to sleep and wake up in 2nd tri! Wouldnt that be nice?!

Not feeling confident about this 1 but hey ho.... fx x

 

[patiently]

Ayclobes i hope your dreams are real!! FXed for you hun!!!

Lexi sorry your dr is being a pain..i know its hard but try and be positive...you have every chance that this little one will be sticky and before you know it you'll be in the 2nd trimester!! Take it one day at a time hun x

NTAT thank you so much for your message its tough isnt it...but were here to help each other so if you ever want to talk feel free ok...i was also thinking of limiting my posts on here due to my negative thoughts and think i will stop posting on here as i dont want to bring anyone else down so i have decided that i will only put negative thoughts in my journal if i can help it! I hope AF comes so you can resume ttc also and hope your scan can give you some answers...x

Inoue welcome...sorry for your losses..i am also 24 and have suffered the loss of two so you're not alone...hopefully your a few days away from your sticky bfp sending baby dust your way GL x

Florida glad the babies are well...i was just about to say your little girls but you dont even know the sex yet...are you hoping for girls or boys or both?

 

[wookie130]

Patiently- That completely sucks about your OH. I wish I could offer some advice, but I can't, so instead I'll give you a

I need to call my OB clinic, as they want me to have my last beta done on Monday, to see if it's 5 or below yet. I'm sure it is...it wasn't high to begin with, and I stopped bleeding last Sunday/Monday. So, I'm waiting for AF. I'm really struggling with the question of whether I should start bugging them about testing, even though I've only had two mc's. Sometimes I feel that I should pressure them, and other times I feel that perhaps I'm just unlucky.

I have been taking matters into my own hands, and added a B-50 vitamin complex to my prenatal. This means I'm getting 1200 mcg of folic acid...I'm not too worried, as the B vits are water soluble, which includes folic acid. So I'm probably peeing the excess folic acid out, huh? Oh, I've also added one baby aspirin a day...can't hurt, can it?