A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[Neversaynever]

Ah ha I stayed team

Answers to some of your questions:-

I didn't 'feel' that this would be THE one, my symptoms disappeared for days on end and often thought it was over...only felt more confident after the 12 week scan and I use my doppler twice a day but didn't purchase it until after a scan at 11 weeks and heard it at 11+4 but still don't believe it's going to happen at times

We all put pressure on ourselves without realising...I know it's hard knowing this is the last chance for you for a 2012 baby and I just hope you get your wishes. I also wished hat nobody needed this thread too

I'm glad you all talk about different stuff too..sometimes you just need to

Wookie...glad you're going with hubby to a support group...he will realise that your emotions and actions ARE completely normal

I'll post my scan pic in a separate post in a spoiler so you don't have to see

XxX

 

[Neversaynever]

My scan pic so please don't be offended or feel you have to look

Spoiler

Has its legs over its head crazy kid already!
https://i1211.photobucket.com/albums/cc433/whateverwagon/4f388cc3.jpg

XxX

 

[Nicki123]

I have my fingers crossed for all of you ladies hoping for your 2012 babies. And so lovely to hear from Neversaynever with such good news, who I see started off this thread some time ago... Gives us all hope.

 

[Sooperhans]

Never, your pic is amazing!! Love it! Thank you for posting and sharing and thanks for sharing how you felt at different points, it really helps to hear thoughts and feelings from someone who's been there xxx

 

[thurl30]

Hi Nicki, thanks for your message, I’m glad to hear it gets better, one of the hardest things is that I have a work colleague who is 3 weeks ahead of where I was with my first pregnancy, she doesn’t know that I was even pregnant and I am a manager so I just have to keep a lid on it, it’s so hard because I have to see her every day. Good luck with your health plan, that’s exactly what me and my DH are starting from tomorrow, just had our healthy supermarket shop delivered tonight xx

Thanks lolala, sorry to hear about your situation but I agree, our time will come xx

Lexi what is soy isoflavones? I have an appointment with a gp next Friday for something not pregnancy related, but I am going to ask her about PCOS, I have never really given it much thought but I have this niggling feeling that I could have it xx

Never congatulations on your pregnancy, it’s really encouraging to hear about it and it’s great news to hear everything is going well xx

Sorry if I missed anyone out, I was getting a bit lost xx

Sending lots of luck to everyone hoping for a 2012 baby xx

 

[Emmediva]

Neversaynever, huge congratulations!!! Loved seeing the pic of your lil one, hopefully we will all be there soon!! Lots of baby to all you ladies!!

 

[FloridaGirl21]

lexi, they're doing well.. Two boys on the way, 19weeks but measuring 26 now

How are you hun??

Hope patiently is okay xx

 

[patiently]

NSN such a cute pic, would you mind us saying what we think or you'd rather we keep our thoughts to ourselves? Congrats tho very happy for you.

Florida twin boys!!!! ahhh i am so thrilled for you. You must be over the moon! Do you know if they will be identical? Happy 19 weeks!

Sooper GL for tomorrow! Baby dust to you!!

Lexi im sure that you are going to have your 2012 baby! Good luck hun really hope that this is your cycle.

AFM i keep telling myself to stay away from here but its so hard and i miss catching up with everyone. I do think i am going to make an effort to come back at a later date though because i think im just making myself more and more upset not being in the race with you ladies. Sorry if i have offended anyone... Good luck to all those ttc and h&h 9 months to all those pregnant ladies...xxx

 

[KatM]

Emmediva,
FXed for you!!! Wow, they must be testing you for everything. Good!!!

NSN,
Congrats again and lovely, lovely pic. Thank you for sharing. I don't think I will feel confidant until after 1st trimester. It's good to know there wasn't just this automatic knowing and that your symptoms fluctuated.

Patiently,
Do what you need to do for yourself, but I love hearing from you.

 

[BeachChica]

NSN - great pic!!! Oh I want to guess too!!!

 

[Sooperhans]

Bfn ladies....feeling really shaky and so not the start to the day that I want

I'll try again on Sun then that's it x

 

[lexi374]

Soop big hun theres nothing worse than staring at a blank white space...... if you dont mind i will still hold out a little hope for you as your temp is still up. Do you have any symptoms at all?

 

[lexi374]

Let's welcome Soy to this cycle! 39 BFP's so far!

Is the name of the huge thread thurl.

Its supposed to be natures clomid, it tricks your body into producing more estrogen, you take it for 5 days at the beginning of your cycle, starting from day 1 up to day 5, so the last day you would take it is day 9. I think 3-7 is most popular.

They say its about half the strength of clomid so people take between 80-200mg, ive only ever taken between 80-120mg as i ov on my own, i think less is more sometimes. I take the 1s from tesco in a yellow pot each tablet is 40mg.

Maybe ask some ?s on the thread??

Sorry i dont know much about pcos, i hope your doc can help you. x

 

[lexi374]

Patiently do what is right for you hun, we will all be here waiting when you return.

Beach i heard you absorb the prog better with suppositories compared to oral too.

Emme what symptoms do you have?

Is anyone else testing soon??

 

[lexi374]

Nsn beautiful pics, i have no idea boy or girl but i know you think you know...
But you may be wrong...

Anyway beautiful healthy baby and thats all that matters. x

Afm 5dpo and started prog this morning. x

 

[Sooperhans]

Thanks hun x 5 BFNS in about a week is soul destroying

Well all the symptoms could also be the prog I think...sore bbs, still bit lightheaded, tired, emotional...and very hungry. If it's another bfn then I've just turned into a pig!

Argh I want today to be over. That soy sounds promising if you can take it. My thyroid condition means I have to give soy a bit of a swerve. X

 

[lexi374]

I know hun i thought that the 1st month i took it and eventually it turned into a bfp was shocked, last month though my temps dropped on it and i didnt have sore boobs...... i dont wannna give you false hope but im gonna remain optimistic for you. x

 

[Neversaynever]

Sooper...massive that nasty blank white space is gut wrenching here for hugs and support

Kat...seriously...I thought so many times it was over and it wasn't. You just have to try and get through each day as best as you can

Lexi... and hoping this'll be your month

Nicki...thank you and good luck to you

Patiently...good to see you here. I totally understand you feeling envious of not being able to be trying like the others...so whatever you need to do to get through these months...it won't be long...I promise

Ladies guess away I really don't mind...I'll even put your guesses in the front page of my journal if you like?

I'm also going to find that thoughts from a mother poem and put it on the front page of his thread for us all to remember that we are normal in our feelings and emotions

Tell me to sod off from posting in here if you want..I won't be offended. Also if anyone wants to ask questions...feel free

XxX

 

[Neversaynever]

Poem is on the front page

XxX

 

[Sooperhans]

Thank you Lexi and Never, it's lovely knowing there is support here xxx

Please keep posting! I want to hear your updates and I have no idea as to the sex but they will be beautiful either way

Patiently, hope you are ok xx Also Florida 2 boys is amazing xx Hope everyone else is having a good day xx