A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[notoptimistic]

Sooper - how long was your luteal phase?

 

[Sooperhans]

Thank you Never, thank you Lexi - here's to next month!! I feel annoyed and irritated by the whole fecking situation. Just want a good result, for you and me and the other ladies here!

Ok I'm ordering pre-seed tonight and I have a stock of tests ready....after spending £40 in about a week, I've found some £2 jobs in Wilkos - they look a bit more primitive but will hopefully do the job!

Notoptimistic, 20 day luteal phase, there should be a link to my chart in my signature below xx

 

[Emmediva]

Memebug6 -- I am so sorry to hear you may be having a mc right now , we are all here for you

Myangelavery -- How could they be so incompetent regarding your losses?! It's a shame to hear such diregard!!

Beach -- I hope you are feeling better...

Kat -- Hope you are doing good!! We are all rooting you on!

Sooperhans -- So sorry AF got you, I am headed to join you too, my temp dove this morning and I got a sigh... so I am just waiting for the to get me

 

[Sooperhans]

Thanks Emme and sorry that yours is on its way too Come on next month!! In a few days we'll all feel a bit more positive and get working towards our bfp around the corner...xx

 

[Nicki123]

Jayeriches, I was so sorry to read your story. But it sounds like your new Dr is a great find and just the person to have on board on your ttc journey. Fx for you.

Memebug, I was also really sad to read about your 3rd mc but you will find great support with these ladies on BnB.

Sorry to all those ladies who didn't get their BFP this month, it's so tough when you do everything right. Even though part of me wants to get on with ttc again, part of me is dreading the stress and disappointment it brings...

 

[Emmediva]

Thanks Emme and sorry that yours is on its way too Come on next month!! In a few days we'll all feel a bit more positive and get working towards our bfp around the corner...xx

Yes Soop, and so it will start again...
When will I ovulate? When? When? Is that EWCM? I think it is?! Is it stretchy, hmm I'll call it stretchy. Is that Ovulation pain or gas? is that a positive OPK?! It looks as dark as the control line. In fact in this light, I think would dare say it is as dark. Wait maybe my urine was too concentrated? Or maybe it wasn't concentrated as much? Am I barely going to get the surge, is this THE surge, or is it on it's way out? Argggggggg!!! It's enough to make you go crazy!!!
So.... If I don't spontaneously combust before this month is up, I'll have a chance to get pregnant.
You know I just noticed your signature? You had mc's at the same time I did! December 2011 & February 2012.

Thanks Nicki, it is stressful, but what else can we do to get that dream baby we all desire?

 

[thurl30]

Hi everyone, hope you are all doing ok,

Also, hello to the people who have just joined the thread, I'm sorry to hear about your losses xx

Meme I'm so sorry to hear about what you're going through at the moment, I am very similar to you because I can't get past 6 weeks either, everyone in this group is here to talk to xx

I am a bit fed up with my cycle now, I am on CD55 today however my boobs have started to hurt today yay!! (TMI I know but I want to shout it from the rooftops!!) This means that AF should be here within a week ) I joined slimming world tonight, I have put on so much weight since my miscarriage in December, but now I am going to think positive, and adopt a new healthy me.

Keep going everyone, we will all get there xx

 

[Sooperhans]

Haha yes you're right Emme...if I read back there are pages and pages where I'm like "does this mean this?"...so much for my "implantation dip" and spotting, and the lightheaded giddy I've been feeling and interpreting as a symptom....Pah. So here's to not self combusting and a bfp with Jan DDs Then we can have something happier in common than mc dates hun xxxx

 

[Sooperhans]

Well done Thurl on your step to weightloss and hang in there on your super long cycle xx

 

[Little J]

hey ladies-

I am going thru my 2nd MC as we speak
I just wish we knew why this kept happening....
My Dr. had me take another blood test today bc she wants to see if my blood has a specific protein that is RH-. If thats the case, then it proves that my body is treating my baby as a foreign object and its causing my MC's (so my babies never stood a chance) there is medication to fix that tho in that indeed is the case, which it will cuase my body to make antibodies to prevent that from happening again, if that isnt the case, then i am not sure why this keeps happening

I am trying to think of how i can keep my self positive, its just so hard when all you can think about it "whats wrong with me?!"

 

[jayeriches]

Thanks Nikki

Soop/Emm: Sorry your af showed...kmfx that May will be the month for you guys. Emm--your post made me lol because that is actually how I feel...Is that a real line? Maybe it's just the glare from my glasses? Should I test again? Did I drink too much water before I decided to test?...it's so stressful, but super glad I am not the only one who does that.

Hi Thur: Hooray for achy boobs! I have put on quite a bit of weight after each loss this one was the worse because I stopped talking to everyone and going anywhere but my desk at work. I spent all my free time in bed with Mr. Food and Mrs. Television. I would love to lose 20lbs (of the embarrassing total gained) before I get my bfp but if I get a bfp first I'll definitely take it.

You ladies are awesome...thank you for having me in your group.

 

[Myangelavery]

Jaye- i feel like you that everyone u know has their kids and having kids ....i feel like im late in the game also. I have wanted babies forever! Just try to keep your head up and keep trying!!! I could totally lose weight and have been told it may help with my b pressure but id rather just get preg again lol!!! Soop- i have used preseed soy isos and softcups! I got pg with first use of softcups no luck with pre seed but it is a great lube just dont use as much as they say! Its slippery. I have still have some spotting from my mc but am very excited to get back into ttc mode. Hopefully soon ill be symptom spotting with you ladies )))

 

[Myangelavery]

O and soy isos(isoflavones) i heard work like clomid if taken at the right time in your cycle but be careful they gave me a gallbladder attack from the estrogen boost.

 

[BeachChica]

Meme & LittleJ - welcome and so sorry for your losses.

Soop - That damn witch showed... NO!!!!! Well keep the temping because it will definitely help get you on your way to your BFP!!! Now that you have a month of history in there FF will show your fertile days. I don't think your LP is usually 20 days, that was probably the progesterone. How long are your cycles usually? You could probably subtract about 20 days from that and get your typical length. I am going to guess that it's about 11-12 days for you.

I have been on a TTC break since my last MC in January. And I really frowned at my doctor when she told me to take a 6 month break, now I really feel like my body needed it. This is the first month that my temps have actually started to stabilize. Last year I was in and out of pregnancies and my body was all over the place. So those ladies that are giving it a little break or not having success right away, I just wanted to let you know that I know it's hard to wait but your body may very well need a break. I will be back to TTC next month.

AFM - I am still sick. Yesterday I really felt like crap and had a headache. Today its more of a persistent cough and feeling a little better overall. I hope it goes away soon. I am so ready for the weekend.

 

[Memebug6]

Thank you everybody for your support, it really means alot. It's hard to talk to people about this, when they haven't experienced it. I feel bad for my husband because he has no idea what to say to me the past few days. He is sad of course, but isn't experiencing what I am. Hopefully the dr will find out what is happening soon. I feel pressure from my family to have kids, we have been trying for a few years to only end with mc's. I have a HUGE family and I seem to be the only one who can't stay pregnant. Everybody else is fertile mertile but me!

 

[kmp]

Beach, I will be joining you ttc next month, I think I will be oing end of may! How about you?

Meme, I feel the same way! There are about 14 kids under the age of 8 at all my family gatherings!! Even my brother who is 3 yrs younger than me and his 20 yr old fiance have a baby! Here I thought I was being responsible getting a few degrees, a career, and a stable marriage...We should've all got knocked up at age 16!!!

 

[patiently]

Hi everyone sorry for my absence I don't even know where to start I am just going to give a quick update and will post in more detail later. I had bloods taken and my hcg went from 958 to 145 I was happy and thought all was ok. Then I had the worst pain I have ever felt in my life. Was taken to hospital and after a scan saw my tube has ruptured. Within the hour I had surgery to remove it. I just feel numb. Such a huge drop in number but the scan showed the same size pregnancy sac. The dr said that the mtx works on the placenta but the pregnancy sac should shrink and eventually be reabsorbed but mine didn't. I think my levels would've gone down in a week or two instead I'm in hospital with one tube. Words can't even express how I'm feeling. Now how are we going to have our baby its going to take us forever to conceive with one tube! I can't even cry because my stomach is too sore. I know I said a quick update and its now an essay but I'm just writing on my phone so will be able to comment properly when I get in.

 

[Neversaynever]

Oh shit patiently I know you're feeling crappy right now and understandably so...but let me tell you...people still get pregnant with one tube and all is ok. YOU will also get pregnant with you rainbow baby too...have the hope

To the two ladies that ate starting back in on the fruit loop crazy train of trying again next month...it's hard...we all know that and I just want to wish you lots of luck and

Seems like there's been a lot of sadness and you all need something to cheer you up..each other along with a sticky BFP

XxX

 

[BeachChica]

Kmp - I should probably O aournd mid-May. Its hard to tell because I have been Oing somewhere around CD12-CD17

Patiently - OMgosh. When it rains it pours doesn't it!!!??? Like NSN said, there are lots of ladies on here that still get pregnant with 1 tube. Give your body a break and you will be back to TTC again in no time!!!

Soop - what did you decide on the bloodwork?

 

[Emmediva]

Patiently, I am so sorry you had to endure that, it's hard as it is having recurrent mc's but having a tube removed like Neversaynever & BeachChica said, there are others who have one tube and were able to get get pregnant so just let your body heal and try again. Sending you lots of positive thoughts.
AFM... I am waiting on AF but it still has not shown... instead, how about my temp skyrocketted this morning?! I have no idea what my body is up to now took another test this morning and I really didn't see anything, so I'll prob test tomorrow morning again if the does not show... How about I played with FF, and took the OPK test results off, and this made my OV date move to CD17, so this would make it 12dpo for me instead of 15dpo!!! I am going to spontanously combust!!!