monro84
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Hello everyone I am usually more of a lurker but I believe that I definitely fit in to this group. I have no children and been pregnant 5 times and had (at least I believe) 7 losses.
I was ready he was not. I got off BC 7/10 had my firt bfp 12/10 but it was a b/o and had a D&C 2/11. He was now
ready.
We officially started TTC 2/11. I had lost my job 5/11 and we decided to hold off on it but got a bfp 6/11 anyways but that was a chem (I was only a few days late). We decided to start again after that. Had another chem. the beginning of 8/11 and he decided he wanted to stop until I had a full time job, but had another bfp at the end of 8/11. I was not hopful at the rate I was going, but the test started to get darker and darker very quickly. I started getting my hopes up and so did he. I started spotting and cramping a little so called the ob at 4:30 they said they were closing soon (@5) and if I wanted to I shold go to the hospital. I want was 5 wks and 1 day.
The took my temp and drew my blood temp was low fever and blood was 15k!!! They sent me in for a ultrasound the tech (same one that was working at ob at time of my B/O) kept asking if I was on fertility drugs but would not tell me why. Went back to room and NP asked same question I told her I was only on vitamin E, baby asprin, prenatel, and b complex. I asked if there was more then one (I actually had a feeling that there was). She said we don't need to worry about that and just hope for a healty baby. The next day I went to hospital and requested the Ultasounds. In the radioligest report it said there was 3 fluid filled sacs and 1 had a yolk and they all measured about the same!!!
At 6 wks 1 day I had a stabing cramp on my right side a few inches across from my belly button. I went to the bathroom and pushed and something came out and I started bleeding really bad. I called the ob and got in and had an ultrasound. They detected 1 hb and 1 baby. They did not mention anything about a twin or anthing else. The dr said the hb was 100 and a little low and to come back in a week. On the ultasound pics I could see that there was another sac (the halo effect a bright ring around the sac) that was closing up right beside the baby with the hb. The weekend before my next ultasound I started loosing my symptoms. I knew it was not good.
I went in and had the ultrasound at 7 wks and 2 days and there was no hb, and the baby was measuring 6 wks and 5 days (when I started to loose my symptoms). I induced the m/c at 8 wks (10/11) using cyotetc (sp?).
After some fussin w/ my ob he sent me to RE. Got blood work eveything came back normal. Had an SHG done and found out I had a partial septate. Scheduled surgery and HSG the next week (the last week in 12/11). Went back to get balloon out and RE told me to wait till next normal cycle and I could start trying if I was not pregnant in 3 cycles to come back for more test. My husband wanted to wait 6 months to try again because of financial issues. I told my RE he said the if I can work out the financial issues we need to start back asap. After months using the "pull out" method I finally convinced him to start back. This month I had my third cycle and tested till 11dpo figured since I have not gotten my bfp it was not going to happen this month and scheduled for a SHG.
Well I was a day late took at IC test and it was a bfp, I had heard that implanting late usually ends bad. From the beginning I had a feeling this one was not going to stick even when my numbers doubled. I was right yesterday at 5 wks I had another loss.
I scheduled the SHG for this cycle before I had heard back from the nurse figured since it was so early it did not matter. She told me I had to wait till next cycle to do it and I should not get pregnant this cycle.
What!!!! It was an early loss and late implanter (13dpo or 14dpo) it was technically like if I had implanted at 10 dpo I would have been a day late. I did not receive a bfp till 15dpo but I stopped testing at 11dpo at 3pm. At 16dpo I had beta and it was 24 so I was definitely late implanter.
Sorry I am ranting a little to because if you read the whole thing, almost the same thing happend last year and I got pregnant with triplets or twins the next cycle. I do believe in the whole more fertile after m/c thing. I feel like this month is our month especially since I am fixed. If I had not had the septate I would have carried to term because when he resected the septum he took pics and said I had retained tissues from my last m/c and in those pics the tissue was right beside the septum.
I am not waiting!!
This is my month!!
FX for everyone for H&H pregnancy or bfp!!!
sorry so long
I was ready he was not. I got off BC 7/10 had my firt bfp 12/10 but it was a b/o and had a D&C 2/11. He was now
ready.
We officially started TTC 2/11. I had lost my job 5/11 and we decided to hold off on it but got a bfp 6/11 anyways but that was a chem (I was only a few days late). We decided to start again after that. Had another chem. the beginning of 8/11 and he decided he wanted to stop until I had a full time job, but had another bfp at the end of 8/11. I was not hopful at the rate I was going, but the test started to get darker and darker very quickly. I started getting my hopes up and so did he. I started spotting and cramping a little so called the ob at 4:30 they said they were closing soon (@5) and if I wanted to I shold go to the hospital. I want was 5 wks and 1 day.
The took my temp and drew my blood temp was low fever and blood was 15k!!! They sent me in for a ultrasound the tech (same one that was working at ob at time of my B/O) kept asking if I was on fertility drugs but would not tell me why. Went back to room and NP asked same question I told her I was only on vitamin E, baby asprin, prenatel, and b complex. I asked if there was more then one (I actually had a feeling that there was). She said we don't need to worry about that and just hope for a healty baby. The next day I went to hospital and requested the Ultasounds. In the radioligest report it said there was 3 fluid filled sacs and 1 had a yolk and they all measured about the same!!!
At 6 wks 1 day I had a stabing cramp on my right side a few inches across from my belly button. I went to the bathroom and pushed and something came out and I started bleeding really bad. I called the ob and got in and had an ultrasound. They detected 1 hb and 1 baby. They did not mention anything about a twin or anthing else. The dr said the hb was 100 and a little low and to come back in a week. On the ultasound pics I could see that there was another sac (the halo effect a bright ring around the sac) that was closing up right beside the baby with the hb. The weekend before my next ultasound I started loosing my symptoms. I knew it was not good.
I went in and had the ultrasound at 7 wks and 2 days and there was no hb, and the baby was measuring 6 wks and 5 days (when I started to loose my symptoms). I induced the m/c at 8 wks (10/11) using cyotetc (sp?).
After some fussin w/ my ob he sent me to RE. Got blood work eveything came back normal. Had an SHG done and found out I had a partial septate. Scheduled surgery and HSG the next week (the last week in 12/11). Went back to get balloon out and RE told me to wait till next normal cycle and I could start trying if I was not pregnant in 3 cycles to come back for more test. My husband wanted to wait 6 months to try again because of financial issues. I told my RE he said the if I can work out the financial issues we need to start back asap. After months using the "pull out" method I finally convinced him to start back. This month I had my third cycle and tested till 11dpo figured since I have not gotten my bfp it was not going to happen this month and scheduled for a SHG.
Well I was a day late took at IC test and it was a bfp, I had heard that implanting late usually ends bad. From the beginning I had a feeling this one was not going to stick even when my numbers doubled. I was right yesterday at 5 wks I had another loss.
I scheduled the SHG for this cycle before I had heard back from the nurse figured since it was so early it did not matter. She told me I had to wait till next cycle to do it and I should not get pregnant this cycle.
What!!!! It was an early loss and late implanter (13dpo or 14dpo) it was technically like if I had implanted at 10 dpo I would have been a day late. I did not receive a bfp till 15dpo but I stopped testing at 11dpo at 3pm. At 16dpo I had beta and it was 24 so I was definitely late implanter.
Sorry I am ranting a little to because if you read the whole thing, almost the same thing happend last year and I got pregnant with triplets or twins the next cycle. I do believe in the whole more fertile after m/c thing. I feel like this month is our month especially since I am fixed. If I had not had the septate I would have carried to term because when he resected the septum he took pics and said I had retained tissues from my last m/c and in those pics the tissue was right beside the septum.
I am not waiting!!
This is my month!!FX for everyone for H&H pregnancy or bfp!!!
sorry so long
I almost peed my pants reading your post with the "back door" comment. 
girlie and have a mega orgasm to help those little buggers 
to everyone
Good to hear all is going good for you 
Yeah starting a journal might be a good idea. Lol we won't think your crazy but might be good to write about how you feel. In saying that I have never started one myself but other ladies find it good. 
