A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[BeachChica]

NSN - so are you just hanging at the hospital waiting...? Your little one is just not ready to arrive yet I guess!!

Soop - glad your test came back OK. It sounds like they are starting the recurring MC testing with you? Can you still start trying again?

Bumble - just hoping your dates are off or your little bean is hiding. Do you know what your HCG values are now?

KMP - no more betas, just my first scan on Thursday. Hoping that everything will be OK. I think that news from the psychic is great, you just never know....

Thurl - sorry you are not feeling well

 

[thurl30]

Beach good luck for your scan on Thursday, I have everything crossed for you

My temp took a massive hike this morning, I reckon it's because I'm ill, but FF has put me at 4dpo now, so I'm gonna go with it regardless of whether I believe it and call myself 4dpo for the first time ever

 

[wookie130]

Thurl, yes, just go with that temp! LOL!

Never- Hope that baby arrives today, and the waiting game is over soon.

Beach- Good luck at your scan!

 

[monro84]

Thanks everyone again.

Niki--I am so sorry I just went through the exact same thing. I even implanted late and and a feeling that it was not going to stick.

Jcliff--so sorry this has happened, it will happen soon. I am 27 and got preg dec 2010 w/ b/o and d&c in feb and officially started ttc in Feb 2011. Since then had 2 m/c and 2 chem. You were really lucky to be able to get to see a specialist after 2 mc. They told me I had to wait till 3 and when I had the 4th I had to argue that the 2 chem was still considered a mc's. But finally got refered to re and dx w/ partial septate that had removed in dec. I hope none of that is the case for you but, hopfully just a bout of bad luck.

Tulip--sorry you are having problems hopfully you will get your rainbow baby soon

Beach--congrats on your betas those are great I was worried about mine being high and a molar also when I was 5 wks went to the er (slight cramping and spotting) and they came back at 15000!!! They saw 3 sacs but only saw one yolk (i thought I saw another yolk) but all measured very close to each other but they never confirmed twins or triplets (but I just know it was).

Bumble--Do youknow if you have a tilted uterus, I have heard that it can take up to 10 wks or more even to see if that is the case. However the other might be (which I hope not) a blighted ovum. I had one that was my very first bfp I but numbers were high so they did not really suspect that until I was 7 wks I even went to get a second opinion and u/s and that confirmed it was one so had a d&c at 10 wks but was measuring 12wks (I knew my o date by a few days off and no way I was 2 wks off. FX baby is just hidding.

AFM--I went to get the shg fri and all clear no septate, scarring or anything but they had to use 3 cathaters and it hurt like hell!!! The first the saline was not staying in, the second not sure what was wrong, and the third he got in but it hurt 10 times worse than it did back in dec not sure why. He looked at overies and I asked if there were any follicles and how many he said the left had 5 and the right had 7!! Not sure what that means for cd 9 hopfully twins again. It was almost a year ago that we got pregnant with triplets or twins and under the same cirucmstances of having a chem the cycle before. I do believe in m/c making you more fertile but I think it is because of hyper ovulation. So he said the plan is to do progestorne 4 days after o to insert it in mornings for 2 wks and if i get pregnant keep taking it.

good luck everyone.
and H & H pregnancy to the pregnant ones

 

[kmp]

Monro, fabulous news!! Good luck with all those follicles!!!

 

[Emmediva]

Thurl, sore throat & huge temp hike, all sounding good chick! I had a 'cold' in my first mc and with this pregnancy, so hopefully the sore throat is a good sign!!!

Monro, that's great that you got all clear! You know the HSG is also therapeutic, you have very good chances of getting pregnant within 3 months of the procedure.

Beach, good luck with your scan, almost Thursday

AFM, I am having some dull lower abdomen pain. Baby is growing and the round ligaments are stretching. And how about I felt baby move!!! I was listening to the heartbeat on the Doppler and then he/she moved and while I heard the movement, I also felt it! I have to really pay attention to feel the movements but they are definitely there. So happy

Sending lots of baby and positive thoughts to all of you

 

[thurl30]

Thanks Emme, the sore throat has gone now but I have a heavy cold and it's now landed on my chest, I got in with the doc this morning because I have Asthma and I can't breathe very well My temp took another massive hike this morning, but to be honest I'm so ill I expected it, and I don't think it's a genuine temp still it's early days and I'm not out this cycle yet so I'm not going to complain

Great news to hear you heard and felt the baby move, it must all be feeling so real now

Monro I echo what everyone else has said, wishing you lots of luck

 

[thurl30]

Been to the docs, I have Bronchitis

 

[BeachChica]

Monro - glad everything was OK with your HSG but gosh it sounds like it was a bit rough! I did not enjoy my HSG at all, I can't even imagine what yours must have been like!!!

Thurl - sorry you are not feeling well I hope you chart still is O!

Emme - yeah for feeling the baby move!!! I bet it will start to get exciting for you now!

kmp - any more testing?

NSN - did your rainbow arrive?

Bumble - any more updates from the doc?

Hope - any updates?

 

[thurl30]

Thanks Beach, fingers crossed How are you doing?

 

[wookie130]

Oh, I hope you feel better soon, Thurl!

Monro- congrats on the clear hsg!!! Yay!

 

[monro84]

Kmp--Thank you, I was suppose to O today but the opk's look like it will be tomorrow. I usually get a positive then o the next day at least that is the way it has been since the septate suregery in Dec. We have the last 3 days. He was so sore from last night we might be able to get another in by tomorrow I will be estatic if it can be tonight and tomorrow morning, but not so sure. The reason he is sore is cause when we are ttc he has a problem finishing. I think cause he is trying to hard or thinking about it to much.

Emme--Thank you too. It was actually an SHG (saline ultrasound/water ultrasound) I hope you are more fertile after that also.

Thurl- Thank you too. I hope you will feel better soon. Are you prone to get sick? If not then maybe your immune system is down for some reason Good luck.

Beach--Thanks. I am not sure why it was that bad. The last time they only had to use 1 cathater and it hurt and cramped a good bit but nothing like it was this time Can't wait for your u/s to see how many beans you have in there.

Wookie- Thank you. Hope every thing is going good so far for you.

 

[kmp]

Thurl, Im sorry you're ill, but hope its low immune due to your body working hard for a baby implanting!!!

Emme, that is sooo exciting to be able to feel the baby move!! I am sure it probably makes it feel even more real now!

Beach, tested this morning at 12 dpo and a bfn. Starting to really doubt it now. Good luck on your scan tomorrow! That will be a relief I am sure!!

HOW MANY DPO were all of you when you got your BFPs or even barely there positives? i have only really gotten mine at 14 dpo in the past, but those were mcs so I think if i were pg for good it would show by now.

 

[Bumblebee2408]

Hey girls,

Sorry I've not been on few a day or 2 needed to get my head around everything. Unfortunately after all the findings were passed into the main Dr on the ward they found that I still have some tissue left over from miscarrying baby & its still trying to make something of itself hence the levels going up slightly but not enough I have 2 go back on Friday to have bloods to double check the theory & then can have an injection which will cause my body to reject the remaining tissue to stop me having symptoms & such & try and get my body back on track so we can be referred for fertility tests I never thought this would be an issue at 21 years old but we've been preparing for this.

They did however find a cyst on one ovary during the scan & follicles on th other which they're going to put on the report they send with our referral to see if that helps with anything so back to the beggining again for us. Thank you all four your advice & support throughout this

I will keep in touch with you all sorry my tickets havent been taken off ie only nipped online on my mobile and cant do it on here x x x

 

[BeachChica]

Thurl - I am doing good. No more spotting thankfully, and getting nervous/excited about my appointment tomorrow. I hope its good news.

Monro - maybe tomorrow you should wear a REALLY smally nightie so that he "finishes" faster and won't get too sore

kmp - I always seem to get my BFP's AFTER AF is due, never before. Are you temping at all?

Bumble - so sorry I am glad you are getting referred for testing now.

 

[thurl30]

Bumble I'm so sorry to hear that, I guess the only thing to think is atleast you know now and you're not left in limbo, sending you lots of

Beach sending you lots of luck for tomorrow

 

[monro84]

Bumble--so sorry to hear that bet next time you will have your sticky baby.

Kmp--BFP times 1st 9dpo pm $tree problably would have gotten it at 8 if I had tested blighted ovum, 2nd 10 dpo pink IC Am very light chemical, 3rd 11dpo but it was a squinter the whole time pink hcg IC chemical, 4th 8dpo (twins/ triplets) m/c at 8 wks due to septate had a h/b at 6+2 wk(i think this one would have stayed), 5th 15dpo would had gotten one at 14dpo but at 16 dpo hcg was 24 pink hcg IC chemical.

Beach--Lol. I might try that tonight however I tried it last night sans the nightie and it still did not work. Even had a good bit of foreplay which usually works but nada. But sometimes it is more sexier to leave more to the imagination.

 

[BeachChica]

Beach--Lol. I might try that tonight however I tried it last night sans the nightie and it still did not work. Even had a good bit of foreplay which usually works but nada. But sometimes it is more sexier to leave more to the imagination.

LOL Yes I think so! Its so hard when they know they are being used and you make them do it so many days in a row. I know my DH gets upset about it sometimes because it feels so routine but its hard not to when you are trying to stick to a small window of time and you have to do it whether you are tired or not.

 

[Sooperhans]

Good luck Beach!!! Hope to hear v good things from you later x

Monroe that's good about the hsg and I hope you can do something suggestive enough to ahem help things along and not make him feel used.

Thurl, sorry to hear you aren't well....rest up and hope it all clears for you soon.

Wookie hey how are you?

Bumble so sorry hun

Lexi how are you hun?

Never, I hope the induction is kicking in! X

Plus anyone I have missed

Well dh is going to do his sample next week, do the results take a long time on the nhs?! Doc says keeps TTC, I've got the 21day prog blood test in 8 weeks....for a bit of head space I said let's not TTC this month....well until last night! One thing led to another, I'm trying to not calculate my dates even this month but I think I'm around cd14/15 or so, so let's see what happens. We've scaled everything right back in terms of bding, so it prob won't be our month. But I'm v hopeful about Sep, fxd xxx

 

[Sooperhans]

Nicki how are you as well? Hope the hen was ok xx