AF due July 23/24? Looking for a buddy?

[Ganton]

Aww, I loved the last couple of weeks leading up to my wedding- I was so busy but it was all really exciting.

I decided to test this morning and BFN On the plus side, if I'm not pregnant, I clearly now just have bigger boobs, which hubby seems to like!

 

[IssyBea]

Sorry about your bfn ganton did you test early or is af late?
I think I o next weekend but started to bd early just in case it happens before I expect it.
The run up to my big day I was a bundle of nerves and excitement the next few weeks will fly by. Have you decided when to test Mari?

 

[Mariposa21]

Plans coming along fine Tuesday we are seeing photographer, Wednesday it's going to visit the cake haha and Thursday is hubby's shoes and he says he wants new pants haha
I've got pains and wanted to log on and see what you guys thought. I'm ovulating or just finished and it's stabbing pains in my upper stomach and period pains basically. And it hurt and I felt swollen when we BD. Could it be due to ovulation? Does any one get ovulation pains?? Let me know your thoughts xx

Keeping everything crossed for you ganton, great to hear you are keeping positive. I really hope it's a BFP for u!!

I get ovulation pains and I only noticed them aIfter having my son! I had them all day while travelling What cycle day are you on hun?I

18th day of cycle huni
It's good to know other people get them- I was getting a little worried x

 

[Mariposa21]

I'm not sure issy, I think I might see how I feel during 2ww, if I have an idea that I might be I might do an early response one the day before x

 

[Tia Maria]

Heaaay Girls
Sorry ive been AWOL lol
Ganton i'm sorry about the bfn...but if af isnt here youre still in with a shot Fingers crossed hun.

Mariposa less than two weeks!!!! Oh my, i dont know which i'd be more excited about....the wedding or visiting the cake! lol what kind is it? my god im so fat could eat cake alllllllllllll day long.

Cooley how many dpo are you?

Issy when does the tww start for you?

Wilsey how are you feeling? i hope youre resting lots and taking it easy

I hope youre all well

xXx

 

[IssyBea]

On Sunday because I have a 34 day cycle seems like forever but bding a lot this week. Looking forward to tww.
You getting any symptoms Tia? Does your little girl know mummy has a baby in her tummy?

 

[Wilsey]

Yup, lots of sleeping and relaxing. I get really tired at work. Heard it gets better after the first tri though.

How is everyone else?!

 

[Mariposa21]

Hehe Tia you make me laugh dude it's a four tier chocolate marble white cigarello fresh fruit cake thing. Hubby out on stag do so had a Chinese with all the trimmings and lovely can of coca cola mmm just had my fortune cookie...nothing about my two week wait in there though :'( lol

Officially on tww now :s no symptoms as yet but only like two days after ovulation. I can't see my having a BFP this month, maybe just trying to shield myself from disappointment but time will tell

Symptoms anyone?? X

 

[Ganton]

Haha, Tia, I love the fact that you're excited about the idea of visiting the cake. It does sound amazing though Mari, so you should have some very happy guests.

So, AF arrived for me today. I was hopeful before testing yesterday, but it's better that AF's arrived rather than knowing that I'm not pregnant and just waiting ages for the witches arrival. Onto the next month I suppose.

I think I was very naive in thinking that I'd get pregnant 1st cycle without any trouble. So it's a bit disheartening to have gone through 3 cycles, thinking I've done everything right, but with no positive result. It's good to know that there are other people on here who once felt like this, but now have their BFPs. I've been feeling a bit down today, so I'm going to cheer myself up with some chocolate cheesecake before bed

I hope everyone else is well this evening.

 

[Ganton]

I hope you don't mind Mariposa, but I've added you to my TTC buddies

 

[Wilsey]

I know what you mean Ganton. This was my fifth cycle (first two wasn't really worrying about when I o'd). It just happens when it happens. Sucks that it can take up to a year for a normal healthy couple to get pg - but thems the breaks! You will get there

In the meantime - I think cheesecake is a fab idea!

 

[Wilsey]

Tia - do you find all the miscarriage threads in first tri unnerving? I think I might have to take a break from the first tri section for a few weeks. I'll still check all the threads I'm subscribed to - just don't think I can see more losses. Makes me so worried that it's not going to work out for me!

 

[IssyBea]

Wilsey that's terrible I would avoid it for a while honey you don't need any extra worry..
Good news opk had smiley face so will be dtd later.DH thinks best way to get me preggers is to stand me on my head. I can bearly stand on 2 feet let alone my head but give it few months I might change my mind and be willing to try anything.

 

[Mariposa21]

I hope you don't mind Mariposa, but I've added you to my TTC buddies

Do I heck mind luv, always lovely to make new friends!

 

[Mariposa21]

Wilsey that's terrible I would avoid it for a while honey you don't need any extra worry..
Good news opk had smiley face so will be dtd later.DH thinks best way to get me preggers is to stand me on my head. I can bearly stand on 2 feet let alone my head but give it few months I might change my mind and be willing to try anything.

Argh just wrote a really long message and accidently clicked reload and it wiped it all...anyway as I was saying lol

I agree with Issy, those threads are useful for some women and I have found ours such a comfort and source of support but you need positive thoughts right now Wils to enjoy your journey but also for your health. You've been waiting for this time in your life for ages and you want to enjoy every minute and a little bit of avoidance of things you could dwell on isnt a bad thing. Cross that bridge if you ever have to come to it, which im sure you wont, but for now you deserve to treat yourself to totally loving this time right now!

Im determined not to symptom spot! Gone are the days that I sneeze and think its something. Going to stick to lots of the BD-ing during ov and you can't help noticing the CM sometimes, sorry for over share lol but its true isnt it! Like I said earlier, really trying to sort of shield myself from getting too upset although at work the other day a delighted dad to be, who had come straight from their scan, joyfully popped the scan picture on my desk and actually felt as though id been slapped. I snapped out of it because the guy was over the moon and you gotta make a fuss havent you! Not long after got lots of "it will be you next!" from others which makes you wanna scream get lost or is that just me?? Maybe its just me lol xx

 

[Tia Maria]

Ganton im sorry the witch got you....and just for you = i'm also going to eat some chocolate cake....its the least i can do Hehe. I'm truly sorry though....onwards and upwards though to the coming month, get it all planned and get urself psyc'd up for it

Issy im still having no symptoms, and i dont think she understands what anything i tell her means to be honest lol Good luck in the TWW darlin!!

Wilsey i think Mariposa nailed it on the head there ^^^ go on Mariposa! She's absolutily right, it does make it very unnerving hearing other people at the same stage you are having such horrible experiences. But its when hearing things like that you need to selfishly think....while its horrible for them (which it absolutily is), thats their pregnancy not yours and to you, yours is whats more important and continuously worrying and fretting is 1. not going to help your pregnancy, 2. make you miss out on the early stages of yours, and 3. make you a nervous wreck. So i totally understand what you mean. Somtimes ignorance is bliss.

Aw mariposa that must have sucked....and i hated it when people would tell me 'ooo that'll be you soon' especially if i had a bfp previously....used to make me think oh have a day off love! Shut ure face kind of thing lol Obviously i'd never say that i'd two-facedly go 'awww i hope so thankss' lol Sometimes you need toi put a brave face on i guess. My fingeres are crossed for you though and i'll send lots of babyvibes your way

I hope everyone is well today

xXx

 

[Wilsey]

Thanks ladies. I am - I'm staying away from first tri. It's definitely making me more anxious so best not to look.

Issy - ahahaha imagine that - after a romp session having to do a handstand!

Tia - you need to get yourself a ticker girl, so we can see where you are at

 

[Tia Maria]

Heay wilsey
I dont know where to get them or how to do them! And i feel dumb as i used to consider myself a bit of a nerd lol How did u do/where did you get yours?

How are you feeling?? I hope you are feeling well.

I hope everyone else is well too

xXx

 

[Coleey]

Aw Mari! I've been trying my hardest to not pay attention to every little twinge too. Sometimes I feel like I'm on an episode of House!

Wilsey hun, try to avoid reading things like that In early pregnancy with my son I was forever googling everything and constantly scared something would happen. When I had my 20 week scan I calmed down A LOT! You'll be fine sweetheart

I'm so excited to see my man tomorrow, its been such a busy week! Its been great being super busy, no time to symptom spot

 

[Coleey]

Heay wilsey
I dont know where to get them or how to do them! And i feel dumb as i used to consider myself a bit of a nerd lol How did u do/where did you get yours?

How are you feeling?? I hope you are feeling well.

I hope everyone else is well too

xXx

How are you doing hun?