AF due July 23/24? Looking for a buddy?

[Mariposa21]

Hey, just tested. As I started to wee Af arrived. Devastated to be honest. With all the symptoms I was so sure.

 

[Wilsey]

Oh Mari I'm so sorry I had such high hopes. It really sounded like this was it! Did you actually do the test?

 

[Coleey]

Aww Wilsey how lovely! What a cute scan pic, you must be over the moon!

I'm so sorry Mari It sounded so positive, its just not fair! xx

 

[Mariposa21]

Yes took the test. I checked before I took it but as I took test Af arrived which was just harsh. I'd have preferred it if Af arrived earlier rather than whilst I was taking a test. I'm never five days late, it's unheard of for me and I had signs, the only thing I can think is that I ovulated late. I'm not doing too bad, I just feel so silly as me and hubby were so sure and got excited. Hubby v upset to be honest which is hard to see.

 

[Wilsey]

It would have been hard not to get excited hun. Especially if you are never 5 days late. One would assume it was due to pregnancy!

 

[Coleey]

Sending massive hugs to you both hun I'm so sorry, its only natural to be excited when you are never late.

I'm in so much pain and I noticed last night that my supply had gone back to normal.. xx

 

[Mariposa21]

Supply had gone back to normal? What does that mean huni?? Hope you are well

Hubby at work but still a bit gutted. He wants to know if anyone has any ideas of vitamins he should take, is there pregna care for men?? I think he's blaming himself bless him xx

 

[Coleey]

Well since I've suspected pregnancy I've had very little milk when Alex nursed, thats my biggest sign as I've always had a good supply. However, last night I had lots again and even he wasn't expecting it. I just have a bad feeling..

Ohh bless him! I'm not sure hunny, normal vitamins should be fine I think? xx

 

[Mariposa21]

Thank you colleey. I hope that you get your bfp soon or at least know what's what, its horrible not knowing

Feeling a bit better now but just still feel right sluffed about it, especially as I was sure and you just start making plans in your head and then just feel daft then

But got to get over it I suppose. Really hope is all well with you Colleey x

 

[t-bell]

Aww I'm sorry mari hunny I had high hopes for you aswell
Don't forget we are all here for you to talk to, I actually think there is pregnancy vitamins for men lol I'm sure I heard it somewhere

Xx

 

[Wilsey]

We have something in NZ called Menevit (the male equvilant of Elevit for women). Not sure what it does but obviously designed to help male fertility.

https://www.menevit.co.nz/planning-for-pregnancy/what-is-menevit

Not sure if you have something similar!

 

[Tia Maria]

Oh god, Mari i'm so sorry darlin thats awful news. Onwards and upwards though hun, how are you going to treat yourself? Your husband should treat himself too. And i think theres some vitamins for men called 'wellbeing' or 'well health' or something which is for men for optimal health.
I'm really sorry though Mariposa And theres nothing wrong for making plans in your head and getting excited. Nothing at all.

Coleey i hope you find out whats going on soon, fingers crossed its because of a BFP

How is everyone this evening? I have my scan tomorrow which i'm, excited about. And Wilsey its not like i have a major incling its twins or anything but, i've showed this time really early - i was like 8 weeks and clearly pregnant looking. And also because theres quite a lol of twins on both sides of the family i've freaked myself out about it lol I'm 80% sure its just the one though.

I hope everyones ok

xXx

 

[Wilsey]

Best of luck for your scan darl!! xx

I've heard that you show earlier with your second baby than with your first - so could just be that. Twins would be amazing though

 

[Mariposa21]

Have a lovely time at your scan Tia x

 

[Tia Maria]

Thanks girls. The scan was great and the baby is fine (just the one lol). They said i'm measuring 13 weeks and 1 day so my new due date is the 26th April. I had to have some b,lood tests done but as usual cos of my deep veins they had to try 5 times :S lol Which wasnt pleasant but the good news is everythings fine
My second scan is on 13th December
She said i'm probably showing so much cos its my second and because i'm a little further than i thought.

I hope everyone is ok

xXx

 

[Tia Maria]

How are you feeling today Mari? Are you ok?

xXx

 

[Mariposa21]

Great news Tia luv. I was getting excited about the first set of twins in the group. You got pictures hunibunch?

I'm okay, woke up this morning excited because I have woke up every morning for past week excited but then dawned on me that that period of time which was full of anticipation and excitement was gone and there was never anything there and i've nothing to look forward to. I'm ok in myself and know that there are people who would dream to be in my position of just been trying for four months rather than four years or something but it's just all consuming if you get what I mean.

But anyway...lol so Tia, are you having a boy or girl or don't we know?? Speaking of twins..well earlier we were lol I have found out that on both my grandma's and grandads side there are many sets of twins and triplets some of which to the same parents! They didn't have any, they just had two girls although apparently it took ages to conceive both of them and then there's no twins in my generation so possibly in the next generation there could be?? If we are subscribing to the generation skipping theory lol

So wilsley how are you? Do you keep looking at your first baby purchase? So exciting, have you got a plan of what order you need to buy stuff? Can't wait to hear all about your future purchases hehe x

Colleey how are you luv? Any BFP yet? Hope you are well xxx

 

[Wilsey]

Wow Tia they put you ahead by a week! I only got put ahead by two days but just leaving my tickers as my LMP. The lady said it changes every time you get a scan and best to just use your original dates - so I am So think I'm 13w2d now but I'll stick with 13w. Now are due dates are the same!!

Sorry Mari - that must have been hard this morning. I know your time will come soon. How long have you two been trying again? Ohhhh wouldn't it be amazing to have twins - get two lots of labour for the price of one (well an extended one).

I do and we are getting the cot/crib delivered today - eeeep!

 

[Tia Maria]

Oh Mari that must have been horrible. And the fact is you have every right to feel that way and to dwell on this...other people and what they want etc shouldnt be entering your head right now, cos without sounding like a mega bitch to those.....they arent your concern and they dont effect you. Keep your head up chickypoo. And c'mon......whats your treat????

Wilsey i think they woman has it wrong personally....i mean....really, it's not possible for me to be 13w and 1day. So to be honest.....i might just go by my old dates.
Infact yeah.....i'm going to.

And oooooo Mari if you concieved and had twins that would be like gods way of making the wait up to you hehe kind of like a " sorry you had to wait so long...have two instead of one" hehe = i think thats the first time i ever impersonated god lol

I hope everyones ok this evening....anyone heard from Coleey? I hope its good news on her part.

xXx

 

[Mariposa21]

No news from colleey as yet, hope she's well cx

Aww Tia you make me chuckle especially the god impersonation hehe we have been trying properly for five months so it isn't as though it's a lifetime but I think with the stress of the reversal it feels like ages xx