AF due July 23/24? Looking for a buddy?

[Tia Maria]

Heaaay
Yeah i do sometimes...like if i stretch or something i can feel it. How are you darlin? Not long now til the scans

xXx

 

[Tia Maria]

Double Post Sorry

 

[Wilsey]

I'm good. Getting a bit sore around the middle but good. Going to use my doppler tonight and then lend it to my mate who is 7 weeks. She's a bit worried because a friend of hers found out at her 12 week scan that her baby's heart hadn't formed properly and it didn't make it

 

[Coleey]

Thanks lovelies, I'm very proud

Ahh thats so sad Wilsey! It's really nice of you lending her your doppler. xx

 

[Mariposa21]

What are you proud about huni, I can't look back at past posts cos Internet super slow and using 3G rather than wifi- wrote such a long message the other day and couldn't post it just a quick heads up, I feel a bit crampy, just a bit heavy around the middle really and got pink spotting, should be coming on on the 20th-this is the 28th day of my cycle so two days early for me really xxx what you think Af just cOming slowly rather than implantation bleeding? xxxxxx

 

[Wilsey]

Yeah, she's really worried. This is her second child and I don't think she was as worried with her first one. Think this recent news (and another friend is having so much trouble getting pregnant after a miscarriage) is making her nervous.

Baby's heartbeat is SO loud now. Guess baby is way bigger. Also heard them banging around in there as they moved. Very cool.

Mari - so hard to know! I had brown spotting in the lead up to AF. Best of luck and I hope AF never shows!! xx (Cole is proud of her boy - she posted a very cute pic of him on the previous page and we were just gushing over him!!)

 

[Coleey]

I'm proud of my lil' man hunny! Ohh I'm not sure hun.. Do you normally spot/have you spotted this early before? I really really really hope the witch doesn't show! I have my fingers and toes crossed for you!

Oh bless her Hopefully the doppler will make her feel better about everything. It's really hard not to worry when you hear about other people's experiences. When I fell pregnant with Alex, a friend of mine who I've known since I was about 8 fell pregnant at the same time. She sadly miscarried and we don't speak as much any more, it was hard as we used to speak every day back then. Her LO would have been a week or so older than Alex.

Aww it's such an amazing sound isn't it! When is your next scan? xx

 

[Wilsey]

Oh that's so sad to hear Cole. Pregnancy, loss of or lack of pregnancy can do crazy things to friendships.

I kept seeing threads about people saying friends were distancing themselves and I thought 'what kind of friends do you have' but now two of my mates are doing it. Sure it is not on purpose but they barely ask how I am. We have a big girls dinner tonight and they will gush over me then - but on a weekly basis I will hear nothing. Sigh. Guess it's just how life changes.

 

[Coleey]

Yeah, it really puts a strain on friendships. I think we tend to pick up on things a lot more when we're pregnant too.
My SIL acts like that and it drives me nuts! She doesn't bother to make contact with me, my OH or his brother. She never ever calls up to ask how Alex is or even txt/facebook (she lives 3 hours away so we very rarely see her).. but she will gush all over him when she's around her mother and call him "Auntie's boy".. gaaaah!

Have a lovely time tonight hun!

xx

 

[Mariposa21]

Aww that's lovely I think Af here now as although it's lighter than usual it is more red now. Just sat and had a little cry but onwards and upwards. Thinking about applying for a new jobxx

 

[Coleey]

Ohh sweetheart Has it got heavier? What sort of job would you be looking for? xx

 

[Tia Maria]

Oh Mariposa darling i'm sorry. Mother nature is a mofo sometimes. Good positive thinking though. Are you sure its AF? and uve not like...sat on a nail or something lol But oooo what kind of job? What do you do now?

Ohhh Wilsey i hope the doppler helps calm your friends nerves. I dont like the hospital i'm at now...i havent heard my babys heartbeat yet....my other hospital with my daughter were excellent (they no longer do labour deliveries etc). I hope you have a good night tonight though

Coleey it might be too hard for your friend to see/hear about your little man seeing as the two were so close...kind of like seeing what she should have. Poor girl. It's a shame how some things turn out.

How is everyone? I hope everyones ok

xXx

 

[Coleey]

Sorry you don't like your hospital hun, can you change it or are there no other options?
Yeah I know hun.. I totally get it, it's just really sad. When are your next scans booked for again?

How are you all doing today? Hope you all have lovely weekends xx

 

[Tia Maria]

Wilseys is on the 12th December and mine is on the 13th i'm so excited hehe

I'm FINALLY going to paint our bedroom tomorrow....all the preparation has been done so it can finally be painted....and then i can put my furniture up. For about a year our clothes have been in boxes on the floor it looks terribly scruffy.....but once the room is done i can put the furniture up and it can actually look like a bedroom!

What are you upto this weekend hunnypot?

xXx

 

[Coleey]

That's come around sooooo fast! Soo exciting!
Aw I bet you can't wait and I bet it'll be super cosy when you're finished! Happy 16 weeks too! I'm on the PC so I can finally see signatures haha!

Ummm.. no idea actually! Will probably take a drive somewhere tomorrow just to get out of the house. It's awfully cold here at the moment so there's not much motivation going around lol! I'm absolutely exhausted as well, but as it's my free time I don't want to be boring and sleep... xx

 

[Mariposa21]

Hey everyone
I still think its so cool Tia and wilsleys scans are still so close together hehe

Great news about the decorating Tia after the chaos lol it's so nice when your decorating is all done because for weeks after you open the door and it's like ahh that's better lol

Still feel a bit sad its just so disappointing, it should be easier than this in your early twenties Af light but definitely af not pink spotting. Really getting a bit despairing with it now, I know it's just six months of trying but can't see it happening x sorry for moan girls.

Going to do some Christmas shopping for ideas tonight with hubby how's everyone? Hope ya nice and toasty warm coolley over there in the freezing cold! X

 

[SWIPER]

sorry to hear af got u mari. do u do temping or sticks. i got sticks for this month but havent used. im day 11 after af but still getting spu rts of blood now and again. i had bit of tissue remaining so maybe thats why?. will i use them when cm arrives.
my wend is minding sisters two kids and my own. they are having a ball playing. shes having a 2 night break. we will tire them out wit a walk as the rain has stopped. hope everyone has a nice wend. hope u enjoyed meal wilsey. happy painting tia and cooley r u n 2 ww.

 

[Coleey]

I'm so sorry Mari! It gets a bit too much I think, maybe you could do what I did this cycle? Try to have a relaxing month, don't track anything and just enjoy bd? It really made me feel so much better!

I think so Swiper, have you had a check up? Aww how sweet, sounds like you have your house full! Yeah I'm at the end of it. It's been feeling like shes been coming for a few days. I had cramps most of yesterday evening and this morning, but I keep getting lots of cm instead! I think the witch is messing with me!

Hope you're having lovely weekends girls xx

 

[Mariposa21]

You know what coolley I really might give this month a rest you know. Like you said, I won't stress on when bd should be done etc

Hey swiper, used to use ov sticks but found it expensive especially as I think I can tell with cm...well I hope I can tell lol x

 

[Coleey]

If the witch shows up I'll probably do the same next cycle as well. I've actually enjoyed a stress free month without wondering if I'm o'in or if we've BD enough. Not too much rest though hunny, you have to make sure you jump on your hubby!

xx