AF due July 23/24? Looking for a buddy?

[Coleey]

It's great to hear from you sweetheart! Have everything crossed that he's okay

I'm so sorry Mari What mean/sneaky witch! They say after a year of trying they'll start helping you and doing tests, which I personally think is crap!!
If you're worried hun have a chat with your doctor xx

 

[Wilsey]

Sorry Mari

So this won't make you feel any better but I'm still totally shocked. Hubby's younger brother (24) and his girlfriend (20) are 8 weeks pregnant! Did not see that coming...

 

[Tia Maria]

Thanks ladies

Why, wasnt it expected wilsey?

Mari personally, I would go now and tell them you've hit the 1 year mark. Iv'e heard before that you need to be trying a year to get any help....which i think is daft, but i'd lay it on a bit thick and say you've been at it that long.

I hope everyones having a great night

xXx

 

[Wilsey]

Ummm no! Totally unexpected. They found out two weeks ago and it was completely unplanned. There were dreading telling my hubby's parents. She also said she wanted to say now in case it slipped out at my baby shower and she took the shine off.

She quit her apprenticeship for hairdressing and isn't working and waiting for a course to start (probably started now). She wants to continue with the course even though it ends after baby is born (so she probably won't pass). He luckily just got a better job but it's not that well paid (in a call centre).

They luckily live rent free because her parents own the apartment they live in. But still, living on one income so it's definitely less than ideal.

oh well, nothing to do but be super supportive! Our babies will be 5 months apart. Nice for our bubs to have a cousin so close in age.

 

[Tia Maria]

Ahhh i see. Well i guess you have the right approach i mean the only thing you can really do is to be supportive. They might even surprise you and sort themselves out to become in a better situation for it. Fingers crossed And it would be very cool for your little man to have a cousin so close together...that's great What does your OH think about it?

I have useless gossip! lol. My neighbours were just SCREAMING at eachother. Well mainly him at her and i mean....reallly screaming. Hes a pr*ck though. In the past he's shouted personal abuse at me through the walls if we've been making a bit of noise or something. He truly is a horrible horrible human being. But he's really been going at it with her (who consequently...is also a pr*ck). I kinda hope she's ok cos it doesnt sound like he was going easy on her.

Anyway...how is everyone?? I hope you ladies are having a great friday night

xXx

 

[Wilsey]

How is everyone?!?!

Just found out my cousin is 8 weeks pregnant too (due end of Sept) so now our bubs will have two kids to play with!!

 

[Wilsey]

Dang - double post!

 

[Coleey]

Awww bless, baby brain?
It'll be lovely for your lo having a cousin so close in age! There's 7 months between Alex and my niece.

What have you all been up to? Hope you've had lovely weekends xx

 

[Coleey]

Where iiiis everybody?! xx

 

[Wilsey]

I know - it's so quiet on here lately!!!

 

[Coleey]

I've been getting faint lines on my ics since yesterday morning, it looks more noticeable this morning. Going to retest on Friday and I'm praying it's darker and a sticky bean! xx

 

[Wilsey]

OMG Cole - that is so exciting!!!! What dpo are you?

 

[Coleey]

Not 100% sure. I thought I was maybe ovin on Monday evening as I was having ov like pains, but I was also getting pains in my back and had no fertile cm. Tues morning I tested and thats when I saw the first one, was scared it was an evap and tested later that day. It was still there!

Maybe what I felt was implantation?

These were my tests this morning. I was up so early needing to pee! lol xx

 

[Wilsey]

Eeep! Can't wait to see how the next lot of tests come out

 

[Coleey]

I'm so nervous, I'm praying it's sticky! I'll test again tomorrow morning.

How is everyone? I miss this thread xx

 

[Tia Maria]

I see faint lines!!!!!!!!! Coleey thats so exciting...let us know how the next set turn out!!!! Fingers crossed for you darlin!

How is everyone?

Well i had my re-scan yesterday. The fluid level is back to normal, however, his growing has tailed off. 2 weeks ago he was on the 50th percentil - so he was bang on what he should be, now however, is on just below the 10th...which the midwife said was a lot to not grow at this stage. The consultant said due to me being so healthy and the baby seeming to be healthy the only thing he can put it down to at this stage is a failing placenta. So i'm back in 2 weeks to have another re-scan to check his growth and check the placental blood flow. If it drops anymore they said they will have to take him out and feed him up themselves.
Bit crappy but fingers crossed in 2 weeks he will be back to his normal weight. Which is what they said could hopefully happen so cross your fingers

I hope everyones having a great night....i really need to get some studying done cos i havent done any in ages (woopsy daisy) lol

xXx

 

[Wilsey]

Tia - I really hope the next scan shows he is back to where he should be!! I have everything crossed for you. At least you are far enough enough that he can survive if born though.

Must be hard to study with all this going on?!

 

[Wilsey]

Cole - I have everything crossed for you too - I'm this one will be sticky xx

 

[Coleey]

Keeping everything crossed for you Tia! Like Wilsey said, if he has to come out he has a great chance

Thanks girls I'm having to force down breakfast this morning, really don't feel like it. I think my lines look darker this morning, I just wish I could stop worrying!

xx

 

[Wilsey]

Yup those lines are easy to see. Can't wait to see them get darker. I know it must be hard but there really is no point worrying - if it's meant to be it's meant to be! xx