AF was due Mon it's almost friday!

[babyvaughan]

My AF was due Monday

Last month I was 28 day cycle I'm normally
28-30! I do ovulate, last month it was confirmed by blood test.

I had an awesome full period that allowed clots even black one's to come out which I feel is good considering the last 3 years they have been really light and painful. So I feel it was clearing out all the yucky's.

Had HSG done in Nov my tubes are open
I had a polyp removed in Dec by surgery, also had dnc.

Doc said she thinks i'd conceive around the 3-6 month mark
as long as DH has healthy sperm (we are getting SA done soon)

Well I'm late 2 days isn't huge but today is 3 and I'm pretty sure its not starting in the next few hours so it will be 4 days!

I'm planning to test tomorrow morning with FMU
because I had BFN with night pee the other day.
But idk, I just don't feel like its even possible for me to just
get pregnant so easily after 3 years of not. So its hard to even
consider that I could be!

I have had my pms boobs for 8 days now.

 

[dovkav123]

My AF was due Monday

Last month I was 28 day cycle I'm normally
28-30! I do ovulate, last month it was confirmed by blood test.

I had an awesome full period that allowed clots even black one's to come out which I feel is good considering the last 3 years they have been really light and painful. So I feel it was clearing out all the yucky's.

Had HSG done in Nov my tubes are open
I had a polyp removed in Dec by surgery, also had dnc.

Doc said she thinks i'd conceive around the 3-6 month mark
as long as DH has healthy sperm (we are getting SA done soon)

Well I'm late 2 days isn't huge but today is 3 and I'm pretty sure its not starting in the next few hours so it will be 4 days!

I'm planning to test tomorrow morning with FMU
because I had BFN with night pee the other day.
But idk, I just don't feel like its even possible for me to just
get pregnant so easily after 3 years of not. So its hard to even
consider that I could be!

I have had my pms boobs for 8 days now.

I can't wait for the news! I hope and pray your AF won't come at all!
How long is your luteal faze? Do you know when you O'ed?
I was 1 day late, I went crzy too. However, I got AF, very painful one.
I also had my HsG done last month, tubes are open.
We did IUI. NO luck.

 

[babyvaughan]

I stopped opking because my doctor said they do show a raise in lh because my stress levels are too high and it will only make me more stressed out.

She did suggest I start temping to get an idea but I haven't yet.
I sometimes can feel when I ovulate I get a little cramp, and when id opk it would match up.

I normally ovulate on either day 14 or 16
to the best of my knowledge.

The blood test done last month confirmed ovulated and my period was
on time at 28 day so I'm assuming that was 14 luteal.

I didn't track all this month. Besides we did it ever 2 days during and after my fertile period, I BD the evening before I was due to ovulate.

and two days later so we would have nailed it either way for timing.

I just don't understand.. I got my period boobs so I was like its going to be on time, but no its not and they are still sore.

I'm MOODY lol, poor hubby ;/ I'm emotional, first mad then lovely then want to cry for no reason. (always like this around af)

No I dont ever cramp until the blood comes.

But lastnight I was startd to cramp I swore af was coming but it didn't,
then this morning I was oh it will probly come but didnt at all now its night
time and i'm crampy again but NO af!!

When I check i'm just a little wet and its thin watery.

My profile pic shows my evap from the other night (I'm assuming its an evap)
it happened after time zone.

I haven't tested since. I plan to when I wake up but I'm nervous to be let down.

Maybe I'm developing a cyst and that's why I'm so late. Maybe I should wait til monday to test then I'd been 7 days late!

 

[dovkav123]

I would test as soon as possible.
If you get BFP, you should go to your dr. and do the blood tests, hcg and progesterone. It is always good to know your numbers. You'll feel more at ease.
If I O late, I have a longer period.

 

[babyvaughan]

Yeah I will for sure, I'm automatically considered high risk.
I have Ulcerative Colitis, I lost my entire colon so I have this
pouch inside and that along with damage pelvic floor muscles
from my operations puts me at risk. I already had a c-section as
well. So I will be very watched.

My boobs being sore always lets me know af is coming in just a few days
but this has been way long for them to be sore and they are starting to get
less sore as the days progress. So something is up!

But I will test and let you know my result in a few hours

 

[dovkav123]

You did have a pelvic surgery and you did get natural BFP! You give me hope!
I had my ruptured appendix removed. I had a Very bad experience, almost died.
My tubes are open, however, we don't know if there is a scar tissue around the tubes( i am not doing lap to find out)

 

[babyvaughan]

My c-section was from my colon removal, I have yet to have a baby.
One early MC a year ago that ended for days later, doc called it mc but
it pretty much was a chemical. Other than no bfp for me

But I have really bad scar tissue, when going to do my second surgery they ended up spending 12 hours removing it. My tube's were check for the scarring also but I haven't had the lap done for endo either. But they do know I
have scar tissue that pulls my uterus to the right because I go the pelvic floor therapy and they do these massage's on my scar tissue area and could feel it stuck its been getting looser but still there.

If DH come's back good on his SA I know that its for sure that being the cause because inside my uterus after the polyp removal doc said it look excellent!

I nearly died to the scar tissue was cutting off my blood supply, thankfully having my surgery saved my life. A 5 hour surgery became 16 hours!

 

[babyvaughan]

I have cervical stenios, tightening of my cervix (hsg showed that)
I also think that's from the scarring of my surgery.

Before surgery af was normal after it's been SO SO painful for the last 3 years!

That polyp was sent out for testing of cancer and such and they said it wasn't even a polyp so my guess it was scar tissue!

I'm going to try IUI this summer. I'm really young. I'm 21 I expected to be super fertile but all those surgery's seemed to have messed a lot up!

 

[Hammy58]

Hi babyvaughan!

I just wanted to say hello. I also have ulcerative colitis and wonder if somehow it plays into all this ttc stuff. I find that when my hormones start going crazy so goes my UC.

Anyway, just wanted to root for your BFP!!! You will get it whether it's this cycle or in the future..........don't give up!! I'm cheering for you!

 

[dovkav123]

I am rooting for you to!
You so deserve it!

 

[pandi77]

Any updates babyvaughn?

 

[babyvaughan]

Yes sorry, I had made other pages.
I had BFP at night but wasn't sure if it was an evap or not.
Waited 2 days and it was for sure a BFP. That next day in
evening I began cramping really bad, hurt like heck.

I started getting brown discharge, then blood.. I bled for 2.5 days
and then it stopped and was brown discharge again but very little.

Really confused me so i've assumed i'm not pregnant and it must have
been a chemical.

 

[dovkav123]

You should get your beta and progesterone done as soon as possible.
If you have mc, you should know that. It is important...
I hope and pray it will stick. Many women have bleeding in early pregnancy.

 

[Kallie3000]

Not exactly related, but I have microscopic colitis and I'm on here too - I know for me, my condition is autoimmune related (I also have autoimmune thyroid issue) so I feel VERY strongly that the TTC delay is related.

However, its also aggravated by stress, which also plays into fertility.

My goodness, why can't our biology be simple!?