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since the last 2 AFs have been roughly 2 months apart, DH has it in his head that I should have yet more test, to reconfirm whats already been established and rule out what has already been ruled out. FFS!
Why does he always look for the magic cure when there is none? He knows that there's nothing wrong persay, he knows that there's no cysts, that at least one tube works fine (otherwise I wouldn't have been able to get pregnant), that I do ovulate, but not reguarly and the only damn reason for that is because of the RSD - stopping the brain from releasing hormones at the right time, thus making ovulation sparatic soley because of the RSD, the worse the RSD is and the more meds I take, the more out of whack AFs are.
It's the same with the RSD "why not try x, y and z" and "if that happened and that was done maybe that could shock the RSD into fucking off" etc etc My body is messed up and can't be fixed, wtf can't he accept that?! I know he wants me to be how I used to be but FFS! It's not my fault and no amount of test and wacky treatments will fix it and the fertility clinic aren't interested coz I'm a fat heffa and I have RSD and if they touch me (treat me, test me etc) they risk making the RSD worse. (last spread was caused by blood test, knacked my arm completely)
like it's not hard enough without him inventing magic cures and wacky theories
Why does he always look for the magic cure when there is none? He knows that there's nothing wrong persay, he knows that there's no cysts, that at least one tube works fine (otherwise I wouldn't have been able to get pregnant), that I do ovulate, but not reguarly and the only damn reason for that is because of the RSD - stopping the brain from releasing hormones at the right time, thus making ovulation sparatic soley because of the RSD, the worse the RSD is and the more meds I take, the more out of whack AFs are.
It's the same with the RSD "why not try x, y and z" and "if that happened and that was done maybe that could shock the RSD into fucking off" etc etc My body is messed up and can't be fixed, wtf can't he accept that?! I know he wants me to be how I used to be but FFS! It's not my fault and no amount of test and wacky treatments will fix it and the fertility clinic aren't interested coz I'm a fat heffa and I have RSD and if they touch me (treat me, test me etc) they risk making the RSD worse. (last spread was caused by blood test, knacked my arm completely)
like it's not hard enough without him inventing magic cures and wacky theories
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I don't know what to say hun, I can't imagine how hard this must be for you, not being able to be given anything to regulate AF with RSD and all. I for one think you're very strong and amazing. And don't ever call yourself a fat heiffer - you're beautiful
Oh sweetheart -
when I get all upset my OH also tries to offer practical advice when all i really need is emotional support - i think its just their way - they try to fix things and look for solutions (men are from mars and all that!!). instead of just giving us a hug and telling us they love us no matter what (which is all we need to hear) .
Thinking of you.
Bx x x x x
when I get all upset my OH also tries to offer practical advice when all i really need is emotional support - i think its just their way - they try to fix things and look for solutions (men are from mars and all that!!). instead of just giving us a hug and telling us they love us no matter what (which is all we need to hear) .
Thinking of you.
Bx x x x x
yeh they're pain's in the arses for it n all lol
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