Me and hubby first got together (as it usually goes) our sex life was fab! Even all through my pregnancy with ds! I was always expecting it to go down a bit - with having a new baby but it didn't much and was still amazing! Then we got married and it got better! ...not planned but with all the sex I got pregnant again! We were both really happy but over the last few months it's gone down hill fast It got less and less - so I made more of an effort! It got to the point where we never have a kiss or cuddle or fooled around! ......or anything! In the end I got really upset about it and obviously thought it's because of me and the fact that I'm a lot bigger this pregnancy! Dh found me crying one evening so I explained how I felt and he did make more of an effort - for a bit! We now have sex once a week - if that! And for me it's just not enough! He snores like a rhino and I'm really restless latley so he spends most nights on the sofa and that upsets me to! I dont know if it's hormones or just me! I decided that I was going to get a single bed and move out of the bedroom so he didnt have to sleep on the sofa and I dont have to lie in bed feeling totally rejected but he doesnt like the idea at all! When I spoke to him about it again he said that it's not me - it's him and the fact that he's tired and all the rest! .....But I just think - yeah I'm tired to - I still make the effort! I run around all day 9 months preggers after our son and look after our home but I can still manage it!!! Sorry ladies - I just feel so rejected I wanted to rant! (and I'm hoping it'll help me NOT to cry myself to sleep tonight) ...but then I also feel a bit guilty for having ago at him for it!