wishandwant
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I need your help ladies, and please tell me if im being stupid. If you'd read my previous posts you'd know ive recently had an ectopic pregnancy. It was just over a wk ago and was quite serious, i had to stay in hospital 4 days as i lost between 1 and 1.5 litres of blood as well as my baby
well my OH who usually is quite good was with me most of the time, but on my last day I had to make a few tough decisions i.e what to do with the remains and if I wanted councelling. My OH was there and he knew how upset I got.
Well early evening he said he was going to nip home and grab a few things then come back. just before he left he said he was also going out for dinner with a mutual friend of ours (male). i didnt mind this because the food wasnt great but i was a little annoyed he'd been arranging it all day without telling me.
It takes about 50 mins to get from the hospital i was at to home and after about 2hrs he said he'd be back in another 4hrs!! At that point I was a little annoyed and asked what was going to take that long and he said he was going to go to the cinema.
Am i being silly getting annoyed at that? he was feeling ok to go have fun while i was stuck in hospital alone? he got to go out have a nice dinner and have fun by going to the cinema whilst i had to sit on my own?
its really getting to me! sorry fot the essay!
well my OH who usually is quite good was with me most of the time, but on my last day I had to make a few tough decisions i.e what to do with the remains and if I wanted councelling. My OH was there and he knew how upset I got.
Well early evening he said he was going to nip home and grab a few things then come back. just before he left he said he was also going out for dinner with a mutual friend of ours (male). i didnt mind this because the food wasnt great but i was a little annoyed he'd been arranging it all day without telling me.
It takes about 50 mins to get from the hospital i was at to home and after about 2hrs he said he'd be back in another 4hrs!! At that point I was a little annoyed and asked what was going to take that long and he said he was going to go to the cinema.
Am i being silly getting annoyed at that? he was feeling ok to go have fun while i was stuck in hospital alone? he got to go out have a nice dinner and have fun by going to the cinema whilst i had to sit on my own?
its really getting to me! sorry fot the essay!