I go to a church toddler group every Thursday. All the other little ones sit on the mat for stories etc but Freya is racing around the church! I keep bringing her back but she runs off again. I've tried restraining her but she kicks up and screams. I can't entice her with food or toys as the other little ones will want them too. Is this normal behaviour or am i meant to be disciplining her? and how? All the other little ones are so calm and well behaved! Also LO refuses to hold my hand when she's walking outside, even if it's by a road so i end up putting her in her buggy which she then screams. When we're walking to nursery if i hold her hand she'll throw herself on the floor and have a tantrum At home if something isn't going her way, like she can't get a toy out of the box or something she'll whine, screw her face up and get stroppy. I end up getting what it is she's after but is that wrong? If she whines for no reason i ignore it but if she wants something and it's stuck do i help? I don't want her turning into a spoilt bratt :S Also at home if Freya touches something she's not supposed to, like pulls on cables or tries to pull the cats tails and i say 'no' sternly, she'll look at me and do it anyway, while continuing to look at me! This is all normal though right? Or am i on a slippery slope to a toddler that rules the roost?