I am so angry right now that I don't know if I'm maybe a bit unfair. Please give your opinions? Friends of ours are getting married this weekend and we've long since confirmed that we will attend. That same evening, they phoned back to ask why we didn't confirm for DS because he is "such a well-behaved boy" that he is more than welcome to come. Well, long story short I confirmed for DS as well seeing as he wanted to go and even though we attended 7 weddings last year he was never invited - this would have been his first. He got all excited and we went out and bought him a smart outfit, even though I knew he would only wear it once, which is now hanging ready in his room, waiting for Saturday. This morning the groom phoned my OH, saying that DS won't be allowed to come because there are people who wasn't invited who are now upset and they needed to make space for them. Now my question: Isn't this terrible etiquette? If they didn't want kids there they could have let us known sooner, not 3 days beforehand! My son would be so dissapointed. I'm so mad I don't want to go to the wedding anymore but seeing as the groom is one of OH's BFFs, I won't get out of this. What's your opinion?