I came home last night to see that my partner had bought a litre of spirit and fizzy juice (spending a total of £20.00!) I asked him why, considering he has at least 12 cans of beer in the fridge (more than enough to last the entire weekend!...his response "well they were given to me".
He buys alcohol every weekend, and as I'm pregnant I'm not drinking at all anymore (before I got pregnant we both used to drink at the weekends) But I feel so angry that he bought alcohol to last him over the weekend when he already has a fridge full of alcohol. He has just bought the spirits that way he can drink it over the weekend and then he still has all the cans to drink through the week. This is really annoying as they will last til next weekend where he will buy even more alcohol.
I had an arguement with him about his alcohol drinking around 18 weeks ago, as I want him to cut down - this is when he said he would only drink at the weekends - which doesn't happen as he buys the alcohol at the weekend (so I don't get mad) but buys enough that he had a drink during the week after work!
I really want him to cut down - and by cut down I really do mean only a few cans at the weekend. Maybe 4 cans on friday, saturday and sunday and no more! But he buys a 20! During our last big argument about it his mum got involved and told me to "grow up". So basically since then I've tried to keep quiet about it as I know he will tell her and she will get involved. But I'm just getting so angry now. It's alot of money as it all adds up, yet I don't go out spending £20.00 a week on anything for myself.
He buys alcohol every weekend, and as I'm pregnant I'm not drinking at all anymore (before I got pregnant we both used to drink at the weekends) But I feel so angry that he bought alcohol to last him over the weekend when he already has a fridge full of alcohol. He has just bought the spirits that way he can drink it over the weekend and then he still has all the cans to drink through the week. This is really annoying as they will last til next weekend where he will buy even more alcohol.
I had an arguement with him about his alcohol drinking around 18 weeks ago, as I want him to cut down - this is when he said he would only drink at the weekends - which doesn't happen as he buys the alcohol at the weekend (so I don't get mad) but buys enough that he had a drink during the week after work!
I really want him to cut down - and by cut down I really do mean only a few cans at the weekend. Maybe 4 cans on friday, saturday and sunday and no more! But he buys a 20! During our last big argument about it his mum got involved and told me to "grow up". So basically since then I've tried to keep quiet about it as I know he will tell her and she will get involved. But I'm just getting so angry now. It's alot of money as it all adds up, yet I don't go out spending £20.00 a week on anything for myself.