redlemonade
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I don't agree with advice that you should leave him. It's a bit of a knee jerk reaction. That MIGHT be the best option at the end of the day, but that's for YOU to decide. Despite all your posts, I sense there's a lot more to this story and I think you both have a lot of work to do in your relationship. It sounds like your OH is missing the life you used to lead before you were pregnant, when you used to drink together?
They say a woman becomes a mother the day she realises she's pregnant but a man becomes a father the day the baby is born. Scans and so forth can help with dads bonding though.
I don't necessarily like to stick up for him because I don't like how he's treating you. But I'm also aware we don't know his side of the story.
Would you consider couple's counseling?
They say a woman becomes a mother the day she realises she's pregnant but a man becomes a father the day the baby is born. Scans and so forth can help with dads bonding though.
I don't necessarily like to stick up for him because I don't like how he's treating you. But I'm also aware we don't know his side of the story.
Would you consider couple's counseling?