Gingerspice
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I know for those that aren't christian will find my ramblings nonsense, so feel free to move on and not respond.
Basically, I'm just struggling at the moment with knowing at what point maybe we should accept we are only meant to have 1. I have got 'my plans' and can see how another one will fit in with us and our patterns/the next few years of house works and career etc. Once I get past that though I know that things will end up being very different to 'my plans' that I've set out. As such I have a cut off in my head at which point if we're not pregnant I'm going to walk away. But is that my own selfishness? I then fear maybe I've already missed my chance of a second because maybe it was already meant to have happened and as I was actively preventing it then that's my chance gone? I know my ramblings don't really go anywhere, so just wondering if those that are also Christian know at what point its your decision to keep going, or accept that maybe its God's plan not to have any more or vice versa??
Basically, I'm just struggling at the moment with knowing at what point maybe we should accept we are only meant to have 1. I have got 'my plans' and can see how another one will fit in with us and our patterns/the next few years of house works and career etc. Once I get past that though I know that things will end up being very different to 'my plans' that I've set out. As such I have a cut off in my head at which point if we're not pregnant I'm going to walk away. But is that my own selfishness? I then fear maybe I've already missed my chance of a second because maybe it was already meant to have happened and as I was actively preventing it then that's my chance gone? I know my ramblings don't really go anywhere, so just wondering if those that are also Christian know at what point its your decision to keep going, or accept that maybe its God's plan not to have any more or vice versa??