xpecta- just noticed you are having a boy, congrats! its nice to have a date in sight and a valentines baby sounds nice. 1 month to go for you how exciting! we have recently agreed to being induced at 39 weeks since my last 2 labors were extremely quick. the very last was 45 mins and the hospital is 45 mins away. not sure i will make it since the last 2 were also 37 wks, but im gonna try as much as i can lol. nat- i don't blame you for wanting them to grow up with grandparents around. its a great plan!