Any one have to wait until after AF is late for a BFP?

[KLa826]

I was thinking the same thing- hopefully today we are BOTH in slightly better spirits...Though, I'm a little bummed because I was spotting today and have been crampy and had lower back pain. PMS at it's best. Crazy because last month my cycle was about 32 days and today is only CD25- 27 but I suppose that's a consequence of having been on BCP for so long. Oh well!!! Looking like we won't be out of our house as soon as we thought- probably don't have to leave until the week of June 3rd which (if towards the end of the week) could be the beginning of my next fertile window. Maybe a little BDing before we are at mom and dad's?

What an interesting situation that must have been for you the other night with your friend...Is he someone you can see raising a child with? 65 is definitely not ideal- but if you think he would be a good father and someone you can have some kind of relationship with (even just a friendship) for the next 20 or so years, then who knows. I don't think you should do it out of desperation- though I know any child you have will be loved and cared far- if something were to happen down the line where you meet someone else and have to explain the situation or if (God forbid) it doesn't work and now you've lost a good friend because of the awkwardness that is sure to follow... There's a lot involved and much to think about. I am here to advise or listen in anyway you need

Anyways- I may be distant or slow to respond the next few days as we are going camping and I won't be near a computer and can't be sure how good my cell service will work. I will check and reply asap- Monday would be the latest, I should think.
Hang in there and I hope you have a good weekend!!!

 

[pieceofpie]

Miss Kla, how are you my dear. Please enjoy camping and have fun for the both of us. I wish I was there as I love nature as well.

Seems like the both of us are having AF symptoms because I am having some mild aches that is similar to what I would get when AF is due to arrive so all I am doing is expecting her to come. I always thought that anovulatory cycles last long, guess I was wrong on that accord.

Have be having some hot flashes during the day and cant understand why I am gaining weight light crazy but then again that is also one of the secrets of life. Same symptoms your are having I am having except for the spotting therefore I am looking to see AF around Saturday - Monday. She is expected on Tuesday so right on schedule, last month I had 36 day cycle so I guess its evening itself out. smile

In regards to older friend to be honest I am not attracted to him at all but I feel like for all the things he has done for me thus far I have to sleep with him because that is what he wants. I thought I would just get a bit tipsy, close my eyes and let him ride me and then take a shower serious one after that. I am so at my wits end even when I told him not to continue to do things for me he still insists on doing it. What hurt is the fact that the so called BF have not even took the time to call me to see how everything is since last week...some men if they are interested in a woman they would want to know why I did what I did but not him so that just makes my mind up for me.

The funny thing is older friend has about 19 - 24 children, who are my age, older, younger and in between, he also has grand children, a mild heart condition, gout, high blood pressure, smelling breath and all his children are very ugly even the ones he has outside. He is currently living with a woman and their child and she has no idea he is doing all these things for me. Hence for reason for not going there with him but feels like I HAVE to because I know that is what he wants as I said earlier. This man has so many women its not funny and I am always teasing him about it.

There is a friend of mine that we used to pretend to be lovers at work at a particular bank, this guy is smart, funny, articulate a writer, sensitive and oh so cute and handsome he had everyone at the bank going crazy for him and persons could not understand what was going on between us. He has no kids and I mention my problem with, we chat a lot and is suppose to meet up. He is now a professional photographer and travel the world taking pictures of models. Look him up on the net his name is Barry Williams form the Bahamas. Black guy and tell me what you think? and I will tell you a secret. Make sure you find the right one, when you do tell me something you notice about him and we will have a nice girlie chat like teenager. I love to be with him because it makes women jealous as heck and they would be passing just looking at us and he is sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo sweet and humble, he is not full of pride at all.

 

[KLa826]

Hi piece! How are you doing? Apologies for the time between posts- we were quite busy this weekend... Cold weather but we had a good time! It was just nice to be away!

So i am quite sure my cycles are just thoroughly messed up. Started spotting Thursday (brownish/blackish... Sorry if that's TMI) had a little red Friday am and have continues with the other since. No full blown AF, no more real AF symptoms. Not sure what to make of it. I a have a regular check up scheduled with my dr July 1- so I'm going to see what happens and possibly move the appt up sooner.

I can't believe that older man you told me about has that many kids! Sounds to me like he wouldn't be so much a father as a sperm donor! A sperm bank might be a less... Personal and upsetting option for you than havin to BD with him!
I tried to look up the other man you mentioned- found his photography website and he is definitely talented. I couldn't find any pictures of him though- just pics he's taken. I still LOVe a good girlie chat, though! And i can tell from your post that there are more feelings there than with ex or old man!!!

Sorry for the short post- we are still in the car and it's a little bumpy and tough to type. Enjoy your day and we will chat soon!

 

[amanda111308]

Saw this thread and am clinging to hope still. AF was due Friday and no sign of her. I am however experiencing all of the same pregnancy symptoms I had with my son... Waiting at the doctors now to figure it all out... All bfns so far but I didn't know I was pregnant with my son until I was 8 weeks along and it wasn't a very strong positive but nonetheless I was definitely preggo!!

This morning when I got out of the shower I noticed that I have started lactating again... Wtf?? I haven't breast fed since February ( ds weaned by himself at 9 mths)

Fingers crossed for us all!!!

 

[pieceofpie]

Kla how was the camping and I am so sorry about the damn spotting that appears, I just hope it did not spoil your trip. Brownish/black blood isn't that a sign that something may be there? Is it still on? I think you should head to the doctor's office or call and ask if this in normal. Sorry bout Barry, you would see him on facebook if you have an account and bring his name up you would see him. We had a unique friendship that was great and one that is hard to understand. The only problem with him is he was gay and now bi-sexual, I think or maybe still gay. I cant see myself sleeping with a gay guy no matter how good looking but I could surely use his semen. We will be seeing each other next week. Please keep me posted about AF and how she is holding up. MY temperature have been climbing and FF has indicated that I ovulate on Friday. I am due for AF tomorrow and so far I have no AF symptoms or anything so maybe I am having a long cycle this time because today make me at CD30.

Amanda, you are welcome to be a part of us. There is only two of us but so far we have develop a friendship that cannot be found on any other thread, we try to support each other and have a girlie chat to go with it.

I am keeping my fingers cross that you get that BFP sometimes only a blood work can confirm pregnancy. Please keep us posted cause I surely would like to know the outcome? Also find out from the doctor if your progesterone is low and that is why you got a faint line with your son?

May I ask with symptoms you were experiencing during and after the tww?
Good luck to you.

 

[amanda111308]

Headaches, heartburn (to the extreme) frequent urination, dizziness, and extreme fatigue. AF was due Friday and still nothing, no pms or anything... If it isn't pregnancy this time I hope the doc figured it out. They are testing my blood for different hormone abnormalities to see if they can figure it out if its not pregnancy.

 

[amanda111308]

Results will be in tomorrow morning - afternoon fingers are crossed so tightly!! Would live to give my son a little brother or sister!!

 

[pieceofpie]

Please keep us posted with the results. Fingers cross for you as well.

 

[RunningMomOf3]

I have never been able to get a BFP until after AF was missed. With my second child, I was 8wks before i got a BFP... With my kiddo's, AF came and went, or so I thought.. but Dr says I was most likely pg at that time due to the size of baby by ultrasound. Now I'm going for #4. AF was 2 days late in May, but light for me. So now, I'm wondering if I am but know I have to wait until June 9th to even think about testing... ugggg...

 

[kitcat42]

Im in the same boat! 18 DPO and possibly a faint faint line...but Im not believing it! 4 days late for AF and have really hihg temps....triphasic chart! Going in for bloods today! Good luck everyone!

 

[pieceofpie]

Runningmomof3 and Kitcat42, how are you both doing? Welcome to our sisterly chit chat site. Runningmomof3..wishing you all the best and I hope you don't have to wait so long for a BFP. Have you ever investigate to find out why that happen and do you have symptoms prior to the positive?

Kitcat42 finger cross that you get your positive, I would certainly do what you are doing I think. cause I am a chicken haha.

Amanda how are you feeling today. Excited about tomorrow.

My dear Kla how is it going? I know there is a lot to get sorted with the move and everything. How is the egos going inside the house? I can just imagine you in the middle of things. Remember to take as much time off as you want because with summer going and all your little darlings it must be taking a toll on you. You are always in my mind and prayers for you, I hope you are getting what you wanted.

 

[amanda111308]

Hey! Just thought I would check in. I was supposed to hear back from the docs today but for whatever reason didn't get a call back. I am going to call and bug them tomorrow. I called in this morning and asked if my results came back from the lab and the receptionist just said the results were in but a doc was supposed to evaluate them before I could be told anything. So frustrating!! In the lighter side I booked a little bacau for mid June so if I am not pregnant I will have something to look forward to

 

[amanda111308]

** vacay

 

[pieceofpie]

That is the spirit Amanda. Hope you get your BFP and that would even be a better treat. Finger Crossed

 

[kitcat42]

Thank you Pieceofpie! I had my appt with my Dr yesterday, she did a pelvic exam and I started spotting a little yesterday (barely any) and this morning it is brighter red but not a flow. Im a little worried about the spotting (i know many women spot durring pregnancy) and I hope she just irritated my cervix when she did the exam.

 

[amanda111308]

Blood work came back at negative for pregnancy and all my other hormone levels were normal... So I don't understand all of these symptoms and being 5 days late... So frustrating!

 

[kitcat42]

Amanda Im in the same boat. Had bloods drawn this morning. Im 6 days late also. Hoping we get our BFP's! Keeping my fingers crossed for you.

 

[pieceofpie]

Ladies how are you all doing? aside from all the negative we have been getting.

Kitcat and Amanda, Once in a while we end up with a long cycle that sometimes can be the cause of stress, illness, diet change or hormones. My last cycle I was 24 days past ovulation and one week late. I surely thought I was pregnant because of the symptoms I was having only to find out in the end there was nothing there.

I am not saying this is what going to happen to you because I have also known of incidents where blood works comes back negative and two weeks later there was a baby. In the cause of Kitcat I am trying to understand if you are having late implantation bleeding. If the bleeding continue and gets any brighter speak to the doctor about it and let her know that you think it might be implantation bleeding and you would like to get something to stop the contractions. If she says its not then just maybe its your period. I wish you all the best with that.

Amanda I am so sorry that your test comes back negative and hopefully next month is your time. I am keeping my fingers cross that everyone on this site get their positive.

FM: CD 32 with high temperature, got the highest temperature ever, since I have been charting today and when I say loo every hour during the night I really mean it. My stomach is extremely bloated including my breast. I will not be reading anything into it because last month I have severe pregnancy symptoms and nothing happen so this time I am taking it easy and just waiting to see what happen.

 

[kitcat42]

Pieceofpie: I had one tiny red spot on 13 DPO when I checked CP. Nothing after that until yesterday when I had the pelvic exam. I am set up for AF...expecting it so I wont get too upset if she comes. A BFP would be a PLUS!

 

[pieceofpie]

Kitcat are you on progesterone meds. If so that could be a contribution to your long cycle. Yes a positive would be nice