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Hugs. I know it hurts. Trust me, you are in the right place. A lot of us share that hurt and frustration. We are all here for you, even if right now it seems like your close ties are disappearing. You are not alone. Hugs.
Now, I could be wrong. I don't have special psychic powers to see into your uterus and give you answers as awesome as that would be. Please, try to relax. Do something nice for yourself tonight, distract yourself and get a good night's rest. You'll get your bloodwork done in the am and have an answer by evening. I know how much the wait will suck, but you can come here and vent about it.
Even if this isn't your time, you don't need him to have a baby. We live in the 21st century. The conventional family stereotype has been broken down. And as much as you want a baby, wouldn't it be so much more enjoyable if you weren't sharing custody with someone who will most likely transfer his abuse to his child or to have a kid with somebody who wants it with you and treats you like a goddess during the nine months of hell? Heck, wouldn't it just be better to have a kid on you own? I have plenty of friends who are single moms by choice. He does not decide your life. You do. If having a baby is what you want, you will find a way and it will happen and we will all be thrilled to share in that journey with you whether it is this cycle or not.
Now, I could be wrong. I don't have special psychic powers to see into your uterus and give you answers as awesome as that would be. Please, try to relax. Do something nice for yourself tonight, distract yourself and get a good night's rest. You'll get your bloodwork done in the am and have an answer by evening. I know how much the wait will suck, but you can come here and vent about it.
Even if this isn't your time, you don't need him to have a baby. We live in the 21st century. The conventional family stereotype has been broken down. And as much as you want a baby, wouldn't it be so much more enjoyable if you weren't sharing custody with someone who will most likely transfer his abuse to his child or to have a kid with somebody who wants it with you and treats you like a goddess during the nine months of hell? Heck, wouldn't it just be better to have a kid on you own? I have plenty of friends who are single moms by choice. He does not decide your life. You do. If having a baby is what you want, you will find a way and it will happen and we will all be thrilled to share in that journey with you whether it is this cycle or not.