Any Scottish April 2013 babies out there??

[lj2245]

I wouldn't know where to hide them! Plus he would literally moan all night until I gave him it back.

 

[Cherrybump]

Need to be strong. But i would hate to think it would back fire. Ryan is there same lol Love how both, wel your man is called Ryan and my ex is called Ryan lol but he lives with me lol. He's hooked on his games aswell. He now falls alseep in the living room. He has been having trouble sleeping and game back from doctor who have told him he is mildly depressed lol i said wonder if i can go up and see what they say about me then as im sure im worse than him. Apart from the fact i can sleep but i toss and turn because of the baby.

If he's on his game i just go on my laptop. But i know im the one who has to evenually get up and clean stuff. like dishes washing and the living room as he always dumps his things on the floor. He cant keep doing that with the little on coming. Its hard for me to keep picking his crap up even if i ask for help he doesnt bother his ass.

Men are super usless when it comes to family or helping out. I was just talking to another girl and i feel her pain so much we're sort of in the same situation. I cant wait to get another flat so i know i wont have to reply on anyone else but me.

He to show him who's boss i think. Take the laptop away and leave it at someone elses house for a week or so.. xxx

 

[bbymc]

Aww that's a shame Ryan's being less than helpful Cherrybump. Have you tried talking to him? If there is no chance of you getting back together, can't he move out? Surely it'd be easier for him to do that than you?

 

[bbymc]

Btw, did you all know that the whooping cough vaccine is actually a preschool booster containing Polio, Diptheria, tetanus and the whooping cough? None of it live though. I didn't realise that, found out today when I got it.

 

[lj2245]

I've got mine a week tomorrow.

I think I have managed to get my hands on some wage slips!! Hurrah! After harassing my old employer every day they told me to get in touch with the accountant, which I did. They said they will get me copies! Yaaaaaayyy!!!

 

[bbymc]

Aw thats fab Laura. What a relief eh? Hopefully it won't take long to sort out now x

 

[lj2245]

I know!! I almost cried. I'm waiting until I get them in my hand before I get too excited!

Oh, I can't believe I forgot to say...we have decided on baby's name

Alexander Thomas Japp. He'll be called Alex. Alexander when he's in trouble hehe

 

[bbymc]

Aww. I thought you might go with Alexander. Alexander Thomas japp is lovely. Shaun and Alex sounds good together too

We're pretty much decided too. Eilidh Dorina for a girl. Dorina after my mum and Nana. And then either Caelan Christopher or Lewis Christopher for a boy. Christopher after my cousin who died, provided his brother lets us use it. I wouldn't use it if he planned to use it for any future son he might have. All I'm not sure about is whether baby should just be McCafferty after Ryan or Lamb McCafferty after both of us.

 

[lj2245]

They are lovely What one is the boys name Ryan loves?

 

[bbymc]

Lewis. I like it too but i hate 'Louie', which it could be shortened too. So I'd prefer to use Caelan. I'm glad he's given up on having a Ryan though lol

 

[lj2245]

Haha yeah 1 Ryan is enough! I know 2 Lewis's and neither has been shortened! Actually, one Lewis is Lewis James and gets called LJ, but that was his parents choice.

I'm worried about Al, Ali, Alec, Lex, Sandy and Xander lol! We like Alex though so will choose that as a nickname for him and hopefully he won't get called any of the other ones haha.

 

[bbymc]

i reckon if you choose Alex then there's not much chance he'll get anything else. Especially since Alex is so short.

 

[lj2245]

My sister is a rangers supporter and I know she'll try to call him Ally lol

 

[Kaybee]

Aww lovely names. I especially like Lewis but then it is Kaiden's middle name

We are still no further forward on names, in fact not even discussed them recently.

That's great news that you should get the payslips you need Laura.

 

[Cherrybump]

Yeah i would be easier for him to move out i guess. But it doesnt bother me that he's living here. I would prefer to move out instead lol ive always wanted a 2 bedroom house so this is my chance and that way Paige will have her own little room. lol xx

 

[bbymc]

So have you been looking for a place to move to? Or are you waiting on a council house? It'll definitely be easier for you if you had 2 bedrooms!

Laura, how did your SPD start? I just got some really sharp and achey pains right at the front of my pubic bone. Hurt like hell till I sat down. Seems to be gone for now. Fingers crossed its not the start of anything and doesn't come back!

 

[lj2245]

Umm....pain in my pubic bone. It's bad when I'm lying down and have to move my legs (because you use that area to do the lifting) and painful when I'm walking. I barely notice it when I'm sitting. I also get crunching and popping when the 2 bones grind and separate.

I feel like my pelvis is on fire I really hope you don't have it, it's horrible. It also made my last labour so much longer because I couldn't be too active.

Did any of you watch OBEM? The Latvian woman had me in tears. Even Stephen was almost crying for her.

 

[bbymc]

Ock, i thought that. I hope it was a one off pain! I do not want to get that!

I'm watching OBEM the now. Feeling soooo sorry for that woman. Seeing her waddle to the taxi with all her stuff broke my heart!

 

[lj2245]

Yeah. When she started crying in her living room, that set me off. Then the wee car seat with the snowsuit in it all ready.....

 

[bbymc]

I know. I was bubbling away to myself! She's sooo strong to be able to do that! I'd fall apart if I had to give birth alone!

I've not had anymore pelvic pain today yet.