Anybody else on 7DPO?

[alynn6758]

Ok so I need some advice just checked af again and it's still softish closed wet with ewcm but it's tinged with pink when I wiped I can rule out implantation can't I????? 16dpo now meant to have o'd on the 31st may I think I'm out ladies af will show full force in the morning if not later on tonight xxxxx

It could be tinged with pink because AF is coming, OR it could be because you're pg and your cervix gets blood vessells engorged and are sensitive to being touched, and can cause spotting...that happened to me when I was pg with the first...if you irritate your cervix from BD or checking it when pg, it can cause spotting...so you could still be pg...or your AF is coming...so once again...our AF and PG symptoms are so close together...not fair...

 

[poppymist]

I feel certain af is gonna be here by the morning I will keep you updated huni xxxx

 

[schnoodle]

and me hun! hugs hun x

 

[jollypop7]

Well, now I remember why I hate my doctor. They did a urine test, negative. I asked what the sensitivity was, she said 50. Ok can I have a blood test? No. You'll have to wait until Friday. GREAT. So I guess I'll just have to wait it out. I'll keep you posted if anything amazing happens in the meantime (but don't hold your breath. lol)

 

[schnoodle]

that is mad!

x

 

[jollypop7]

I know, huh? I could have smacked her! I can't wait until I switch insurance and can get a real doctor!

 

[schnoodle]

are you going back on fri??

 

[alynn6758]

Well, now I remember why I hate my doctor. They did a urine test, negative. I asked what the sensitivity was, she said 50. Ok can I have a blood test? No. You'll have to wait until Friday. GREAT. So I guess I'll just have to wait it out. I'll keep you posted if anything amazing happens in the meantime (but don't hold your breath. lol)

man, DeJevu or how ever you spell it... that's exactly what happened to me with my first! the test at the doctors is not that sensitive..can't believe they're making you wait till Friday for the blood test but by then the urine test will prob come up positive...

 

[schnoodle]

that was my thinking?? takes the piss! mind, my dr said he wouldnt do anything till i was 2 weeks late??? wtf??

 

[jollypop7]

If I get a really distinct positive test I'll probaby just switch insurance and wait to find a new doctor before I go back. Whatever happened to doctors actually giving a crap?!

 

[fallenangel78]

That's crazy Jollypop - arghhhh, so frustrating! Makes you wonder what's the point... I really thought you might have got closer to an answer. Sort of makes it worse that it was a female too, you would have thought she might have been a bit more sympathetic.

Schnoodle, that's crazy for you too (hi btw )

Still keeping absolutely everything crossed for you Poppymist

 

[poppymist]

Girls help me please af cramps lil tinge of pink ewcm and just wiped tmi to find lil spe ks of brown like stuff in clear ewcm what on earth is going on is this normal before af as never had before ????? X

 

[jollypop7]

poppy, I've never heard of such a thing! The color sounds normal for AF, but the ewcm is very odd! Keep us posted!

 

[poppymist]

I know i am so confused about this month and this is now adding to it i am getting like o /af pain in one side it switches from left to right not both at the same time! i am sure af is coming but i am just confused about the ewcm i have had it almost every day since o. Picture it ewcm but just clear like water with teeny tiny specks of brown in it completely confused right now! i have looked on teh internet for soe kind of asnswer but can't find ny thing at all x

 

[jollypop7]

so this is totally off topic but I am so depressed. My mom just told me that she hasn't gotten one RSVP for my bridal shower on Saturday. I have thrown so many bridal showers and baby showers and I am in tears because I don't give a crap about the gifts, I just thought there would be more people that would want to share my special day with me.

 

[fallenangel78]

No idea Poppymist, Alynn might know if she's around?

That's awful Jollypop, how many people were sent invites? The only thing I can say is that if it's anything like actual wedding invites over here then people always seem to think that they don't have to reply and that you should just know they're coming so maybe that's it?

What happens with bridal showers, who's responsible as such for organising them, is it normally your mum? Had anybody mentioned anything to you about it in passing or anything?

From what you've said about the care and support you've given others I honestly can't see your friends and family letting you down when you need them. I really do think it's just the 'formality' of having to be bothered to reply.

Even from here you can tell you care so much about people and I know they won't let you down.

Try not to let it get you down, I know it's easier said than done but come Saturday, you'll be sat with a big group of your lovely girlies, all smiling, giggling and happy and everything will be fantastic x

 

[jollypop7]

Thank you so much. I am just absolutely bawling. My mom and mother in law sent out 27 invitations, and so far only 3 have RSVP'd and all 3 said no. I just wanted it to be a fun day with my friends. Granted, I have only a few friends and mostly family. No one I know has mentioned it to me, or has said anything in passing at all. I guess I just have to be optimistic and say that it's the quality of the bees in the hive, and not the quantity that make good honey! Thanks for cheering me up! I wish you girls lived here, we'd have a bangin party then!

 

[poppymist]

Oh I wish I could be there with you huni xxx

 

[jollypop7]

Thank you poppy! I don't know what is going on with me, I'm a blithering mess! I'm sobbing and sobbing. I just don't know why bad things come all at once in life! That news, I lost my job a week ago (the lady I took care of passed away), and now no AF, no BFP! At this point I'd just like my period to start so I can get that over with and have one less thing to worry about.

Poppy, what's going on with you now, hon?

 

[alynn6758]

Girls help me please af cramps lil tinge of pink ewcm and just wiped tmi to find lil spe ks of brown like stuff in clear ewcm what on earth is going on is this normal before af as never had before ????? X

Like I said earlier, if you're pg, your cervix is sensitive right now, and if you keep checking it, it will cause spotting...or its your AF starting slowly. Or you are off on O time, and are now implanting later than you thought you would...which means in a about 3 days if you don't get AF you should take another test and it will prob be bfp! so you've got 3 possibilities...I'm hoping its late implantation...or a pregnant cervix.

oh tmi, but when i was pg, my partner at the time hit my poor cervix during and caused it to bleed, so much that I thought I was having a mc...but it was just from cervix being hit to hard...that said you might want to lay off the checkin of the cervix for a few days... just to stop you from spotting and worrying...if its AF then there's nothing really you can do hun i really think its implantation or pg cervix...you just sound so pg to me...