I was relieved to get my screening lab tests and ultrasound back with low risk for chromosomal or genetic problems. We met with a genetic counselor who explained that even though I am very low risk, these are only screening tests and not diagnostic tests, the amnio is diagnostic if we want to know for sure.
I'll be 37 at the baby's birth so I am considering the amnio. The chance of complications with the amnio are higher than the chance that they would find something wrong. I'm finding it hard though to be excited for the baby because I am so worried that something may be wrong and the amnio would help me feel more calm about the pregnancy. Also, we have friends who had a baby who died at 1 month old, the baby's condition was incompatible with life and we saw how much they suffered with a baby that certainly was going to die. They declined diagnostic testing during pregnancy but if they had it, they would have known before the baby's birth and had options.
Please no judging in the replies. Has anyone had an amnio despite being low risk?
I'll be 37 at the baby's birth so I am considering the amnio. The chance of complications with the amnio are higher than the chance that they would find something wrong. I'm finding it hard though to be excited for the baby because I am so worried that something may be wrong and the amnio would help me feel more calm about the pregnancy. Also, we have friends who had a baby who died at 1 month old, the baby's condition was incompatible with life and we saw how much they suffered with a baby that certainly was going to die. They declined diagnostic testing during pregnancy but if they had it, they would have known before the baby's birth and had options.
Please no judging in the replies. Has anyone had an amnio despite being low risk?