Anyone doing FET/IVF in Jan 2013 till everyone's BFP (Everyone Welcome)

Ali, very exciting that things seem to be ok. I know it can be so nerve racking, but if the FS isn't overly concerned I think you can relax a bit. Seems like the doc is on top of things if he is moving up your IVIg. Good luck!!!!

Sandy, I'm sorry things didnt work out. Do they have any advice for you or will you have to wait 6weeks to get any inkling of what the doc thinks? Hugs to you!
 
Sandy - I'm so sorry. Sending you huge :hugs: I hope you can get in earlier to see your doctor.

Ali - I'm with the other ladies, I think it's a great sign your FS isn't concerned and good that he is adjusting your IVIG too. Fx you see a lot more on the next u/s.

Mo - good news that they removed the polyp.

ttc - I go to NYU
 
Sandy so so sorry. Was really hoping the BFN stops with me. Hoping you can get in on time to see your doctor.

Ali just try to keep calm I know it's hard not to worry at this stage

Sweet congrats on the twin. That's a blessing

Em congrats on one strong little bean

Edamame so glad your mum is so much better.

Mo so happy nothing major was found. Hoping things get better from here and those embies stick with your next trial
 
AFM today was OTD and I get to have my WTF too( if I can call it that). Well nothing really could explain why those embies didn't stick except that they are not very good qualities. From 12 fertilized only 5 divided and 3 was transferred.

So the plan is same long protocol but some changes to my medication. They want me to start with July cycle.

I don't intend to try IVF again for now but they made me a tempting offer of doing the whole procedure (meds inclusive) for something close to $5000. So do I take the offer or not?

If I am trying again I will like to take some vitamins to increase my egg quality. Any suggestion is welcomed.
 
Good luck today Ali!

Sandy hoping you get a happy surprise phone call today.

Anxiously it's ok to have moments of frustration and feeling despair, but know you have support here and that we all are going to keep rooting you on to your bfp!

Turkey, sounds like you have a good plan for your next cycle and Em gave an awesome explanation of the genetic testing.

Thanks L4...Em really laid it out perfectly! Aren't we gals lucky to have each other?!?! Glad you are doing well, and FYI, DH and I didn't find out baby's gender w/ our first and I don't regret it one bit!! It was so exciting, especially since I was CONVINCED it was a boy and when DH said "it's a girl" I was absolutely stupefied! Any guesses or inclinations yet as to what your wiggly one may be???
 
So my "WTF?" appt. didn't tell me all that much, but it was still good. I already knew that I had passed the sac prior to my D&E so there wasn't any fetal tissue to test. After a lot of thought, I think I'm ok with that. Might have made things tougher. Basically the doc dissected my last cycle and then gave us his recommendations. Pretty much what I mentioned the other night...we'd do the estrogen priming protocol. Still not 100% sure why he is changing things up, but I'm ok with it. Apparently the "EPP" is usually for poor responders, which he said didn't apply to me as I did have 12 eggs at retrieval. But, he did say that my responding wasn't off the charts either. So I'm thinking that he's hoping to get more eggs with this New protocol. He did say my bloodwork at trigger time showed only low to average estrogen for the number of follies I had, so I'm thinking maybe that also has something to do with choosing this route. The only new info he presented was the idea of doing CCS testing. Any of you guys familiar with this? Basically he said my AMH was great...my FSH level was great too. The only "kicker" as he called it, was my age. Womp-Womp. So the idea of producing a big batch of follies, then giving each of them this complete chromosomal biopsy (at what looks to cost an average of 5K, but he is going to go to bat for us with Aetna) is what he thinks is best for us. I am definitely a fan of this plan, but there are two scary factors (well probably more, but two for now) 1. None of my follies make it to blast which is where they need to be for CCS, and 2. Whatever # make it to blast get tested and come back "abnormal". Sigh. Just thinking about that possibility is a tad overwhelming. I'm gonna try to keep my PMA and move forward. Gonna call tomorrow to get price specifics, then I just need AF to show up. (Of course i was hoping doc would immediately insist that I take a pregnancy test right that instant, but alas he hardly even batted an eyelash). This EPP business takes a lot longer than the microdose Lupron protocol, so she better arrive STAT! Any CCS experts in our group?? Or even non-experts?? The googling I've been doing makes it out to be the wave of the future for IVF...

Hey Turkey. CCS is the type of PGD that we did. It's called PGS or preimplantation genetic screening at my clinic. Every clinic calls it something different but essentially it tests to make sure all the chromosomes are normal vs regular PGD which tests for specific genetic disorders. My RE is a huge proponent of this and he said it will be standard for all IVF cycles at some point in the future because it ups the success rates so dramatically. We were quoted a 65% success rate for cycles with PGD tested embryos.

Also, even younger women can have a lot of abnormal embryos. In my age group 30-35 my RE said the rate is of abnormals is approximately 50% which is exactly what we had. We tested 8 embryos and only 4 were normal. In my case I chose to do the testing because I can only transfer one embryo at a time. I'm too high risk to carry twins due to my blood clotting disorder. If you can transfer two embryos, chances are you'll transfer at least one normal. That being said, knowing what I know now, if I were ever to cycle again I would 100% do the testing.

At my clinic they biopsy day 5 embryos because by that time the embryo is 100 cells and it's less damaging to take a few cells from something that is 100 cells vs an 8-10 cell day 3 embryo. By day 5 they can tell which cells become the fetus and which ones become the placenta and they take cells that would become the placenta. On day 3 they use a laser to drill a small hole in the outer shell of the embryo and by day 5 a couple of cells have started to pouch out of that hole and those are the ones sent off for testing.

My clinic freezes the embryos and then does a FET the next cycle. I asked about the day 6 transfer but my RE believes that it's better to wait and do a FET because the high estrogen levels from a stim cycle can negatively affect implantation in some women. Most likely you'll have to meet with a genetic counselor from the company that your clinic uses and they will give you so much more info and detail on the process.

So excited that you're getting started again soon!! Come on AF!!

WOW!!! Thank you soooooo much for this Em. I really can't thank you enough!! I'm studying it right now as I get ready for a GNO with my friends to fill them in on yesterday's appt. So much easier to explain now. You rock!!! xoxo
 
Turkey, absolutely! Having our bnb friends is such a tremendous support! I didn't realize you had a a child. How old is she? It amazes me how some women can have a child and then struggle to conceive again. I guess we never know what our bodies are going to do. I'm hoping for a reset after this lo so we can have another one naturally. As for this little mover and shaker I'm kinda thinking boy but haven't really felt like I know for sure. Time will tell!
 
AFM today was OTD and I get to have my WTF too( if I can call it that). Well nothing really could explain why those embies didn't stick except that they are not very good qualities. From 12 fertilized only 5 divided and 3 was transferred.

So the plan is same long protocol but some changes to my medication. They want me to start with July cycle.

I don't intend to try IVF again for now but they made me a tempting offer of doing the whole procedure (meds inclusive) for something close to $5000. So do I take the offer or not?

If I am trying again I will like to take some vitamins to increase my egg quality. Any suggestion is welcomed.

Sekky $5k is a sweet deal IMO. But I'm in Singapore so not sure if medical costs here are generally higher than where you are. My first IVF was about $8k, and that was in a government hospital. My next one is estimated to be about $15k, this time it's a private clinic.

As for vitamins and stuff, I've been taking my regular women multi-vit, a proprietary combo vit that the new RE gave to improve egg quality (think it has CoQ10, B12, folate and vit D), omega-3, iron (extra boost to help with lining), bee pollen with propolis and ginseng, raspberry leaf tea (only up to 5 days after ovulation), EPO (only before ovulation), baby aspirin. I just ordered FertileCM too.
 
amxiously dont you have frozen embryos left? will you transfer those before a whole IVF cycle?
 
Sandy- I'm so so sorry. :cry: :hugs: I wish I could say something to make it better, but it is just crappy and then we move on. Sending ❤❤❤

AFM- DH was supposed to arrive tomorrow morning, but has been delayed by effing paperwork. I am so bummed. I was mentally prepared to see him tomorrow, but it will probably be another day now and we have to buy another airline ticket for 2x the cost of the first one. :growlmad:
 
Sandy- I'm so so sorry. :cry: :hugs: I wish I could say something to make it better, but it is just crappy and then we move on. Sending ❤❤❤

AFM- DH was supposed to arrive tomorrow morning, but has been delayed by effing paperwork. I am so bummed. I was mentally prepared to see him tomorrow, but it will probably be another day now and we have to buy another airline ticket for 2x the cost of the first one. :growlmad:

Oh Lotus, bummer! Got to love the military...I don't know if your DH uses the saying "hurry up and wait." :haha:
 
Turkey, absolutely! Having our bnb friends is such a tremendous support! I didn't realize you had a a child. How old is she? It amazes me how some women can have a child and then struggle to conceive again. I guess we never know what our bodies are going to do. I'm hoping for a reset after this lo so we can have another one naturally. As for this little mover and shaker I'm kinda thinking boy but haven't really felt like I know for sure. Time will tell!

My daughter Maggie is 3 and a half, and she wasn't so easy to come by!!! We "tried" naturally for 2 years after getting married w/ kind of a "whatever will be, will be" attitude, but by the time I was 35 we were getting a little impatient. I was sent to an RE almost immediately (2 yrs trying + 35 years old = RE!) and we proceeded to endure 5 IUIs, all BFN. My RE was stumped as everything always looked "perfect" so he did a laproscopy/hysteroscopy and found that I had some endometriosis that may have been causing the problem...had the surgery to remove it on Dec. 26th and a 6th IUI on Jan. 7th and wooo-hoo! Here's Magaroo! Once she was two we started trying again thinking we'd be preg in no time, and well....not so much! 3 more IUIs (added gonal-f by the second one) last summer (I was 39 by this time) all BFN. Took a six month break and when we returned to the RE, he recommended iVF...and here we are. One cycle in, one m/c and no frosties. BUT, I know darn well how lucky I am to have my daughter, and I don't EVER take that for granted. I'm staying positive and hoping that this new protocol is successful...now, if only AF would show!!! UGH!
 
Sandy- I'm so so sorry. :cry: :hugs: I wish I could say something to make it better, but it is just crappy and then we move on. Sending ❤❤❤

AFM- DH was supposed to arrive tomorrow morning, but has been delayed by effing paperwork. I am so bummed. I was mentally prepared to see him tomorrow, but it will probably be another day now and we have to buy another airline ticket for 2x the cost of the first one. :growlmad:

Boo!!! Sorry to hear this Lotus!!
 
Sandy- I'm so so sorry. :cry: :hugs: I wish I could say something to make it better, but it is just crappy and then we move on. Sending ❤❤❤

AFM- DH was supposed to arrive tomorrow morning, but has been delayed by effing paperwork. I am so bummed. I was mentally prepared to see him tomorrow, but it will probably be another day now and we have to buy another airline ticket for 2x the cost of the first one. :growlmad:

Oh Lotus, bummer! Got to love the military...I don't know if your DH uses the saying "hurry up and wait." :haha:

All the time! Haha!
 
amxiously dont you have frozen embryos left? will you transfer those before a whole IVF cycle?

I do have 5 frosties left and my original plan was to use them up before going through a fresh cycle. The new RE advised me to have a fresh cycle earlier due to my low AMH. I'm seeking a 3rd opinion next weekend, considering the recent episode about DHEA with this RE. I don't want to end up with a doctor who's more interested in money than in me!
 
Morning Ladies

Thanks for all your kind posts. Had a cry last night but it just wasn't meant to be for us this time. As for my next appt the clinic give you time to have a natural period before having the WTF appt due to the fact that they arrange starting time etc for the next cycle and get you going that day if they can. It is a long wait but it means my body will be hopefully back to normal and can move straight on.

I don't think i will be going for a 2nd opinion as under the NHS if i moved clinics i wouldn't be cover for the 3 full cycles plus i am recieving a 4th funded cycle from the clinic due to donating half my eggs this cycle to research which i wouldn't get anywhere else. I am really happy with my clinic and the response i have to the protocol they put me on as i have never had any problems with producing quality eggs and always get a good fertilisation rate and have always made it to 5 day blastocyst stage. The only issue I seem to be having is with implantation so will be asking what we can do to improve that.

Think I'm going to relax and enjoy some quality time with DH and also got a newphew due in 2 weeks so plenty to keep my mind occupied.

I will still be here routing for all you ladies and joining you ladies who are in the next episode of the IVF saga. xx
 

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