Anyone else counting down to April 1st?

[Mom2sam]

Have u got a full length mirror maybe tey taking pic that way? Or get someone to take it. The agnis castus did help bring ov forward but i tested today 8dpo & bfn not even a squinter & its the 10mlu sensitive test i feel out now, i know i said wouldn't be too bothered as need to get the surgery done so would be taking a break if i'm out but it just worries me is something wrong with me? I said to dh dunno if i can try long term & if i have to get fertilty tests etc because it's too emotionally draining after going through with it for ds but knowing me i prob will keep going anyway because i know if i stopped & gave up ds wouldn't be here today. Only thing is dont know in uk would i have to pay for fertilty testing this time & go privately? Need to find out as i know after age 35 if you been trying for 6 months you should get tested but i wander how much it'd cost ect i think i will give the agnus castis couple more months & keep taking whilst im on the break & temp in meanwhile too

Sorry for long rant

 

[Mom2sam]

9dpo tested & bfn it's ok though as means i can go ahead with surgery now next month & will be on a couple month break till it's all healed i will still be checking in on b&b & i'l be back to ttc soon as i'm healed & everything is ok.
Love this thread more than any other you ladies are so supportive & make things easier on this journey. Your a bunch of great ladies & i sincerely wish all the best for each & every one of you.

 

[MolGold]

Aw, mom! Its still early! Hope you get a BFP this time around and if not, it seems you have a good plan in place.
Hows everyone else?

XX

 

[mummy_smurf2b]

So sorry for bfn mom2sam not long now til ur treatment n fx for a quick recovery so you can get back ttc.

I'm tired but ok

 

[Mom2sam]

Thanks ladies i think it'l do me good not stressing over ttc for couple months too. Was going to prevent by using condoms but dh said no he hates them & just to avoid fertile window but it'l be a headache as dont want to be taking opks as my ovulation isn't consistent every month so decided to just take mini pill for couple month. We're both happy with that. Only thing is i read not to vitex with contraceptive pills & dunno if taking temps will work, it's the mini pill i was on before but not sure if it stops you ovulating or just thickens cervical mucus from what i read just said it thickens cm, thins lining so it cant implant & in some cases stops ovulation whilst your on it.

 

[mummy_smurf2b]

Thanks ladies i think it'l do me good not stressing over ttc for couple months too. Was going to prevent by using condoms but dh said no he hates them & just to avoid fertile window but it'l be a headache as dont want to be taking opks as my ovulation isn't consistent every month so decided to just take mini pill for couple month. We're both happy with that. Only thing is i read not to vitex with contraceptive pills & dunno if taking temps will work, it's the mini pill i was on before but not sure if it stops you ovulating or just thickens cervical mucus from what i read just said it thickens cm, thins lining so it cant implant & in some cases stops ovulation whilst your on it.

Hmm not sure as iv seen so many say they fell preg on the mini pill.

So I took my mirror off the wall to try get a pic and its not a very good one so not sure you can tell or not, prehaps I should try during day or somethin but only prob I cnt open my curtains during day very easy without tugging at the curtains lol anyway I attachd pic but dnt think it shows very well on it.

 

[mzhwd]

Mom hopefully you're still in its still early. This has been 1 of my least stressful months ttc. I haven't timed any bd and just temped on the mornings that I remembered. I guess we'll see.

Mummy I believe I can see a little something. I'm sure you'll have a bump this time around.

Mom I hope that you have a speedy recovery.

 

[MolGold]

Mummy glad to see that lil bump, hopefully in time you have a proper big one

Sorry to hear of your stress Mzhwd. hope you feel well soon.

My FILs illness has stressed us out too much as well - the day n night visit, bills, his health Hope September is luckier for us all.. Mom hope you get back to TTCing soon

 

[mummy_smurf2b]

Gosh everyone trying to annoy me today lol recieved two letters and both was problems lol. First was my healty start vouchers which when i rang them they couldnt see why there was problems so they added it to the system and its all sorted then the other being from the housing asking for things iv already given them plus other stuff i couldnt give (landlords details) iv never been on a tenancy so wasnt physically possible lol so had to ring them to get that sorted, so i just had to email them what my local connection to the area i want is and proof i live at current address lol so emailed two of mums utility bills so fingers crossed its sorted now. Then i needed to ring the doctors to see if my new local doctors will be more help than the old one. DD currently has encorpresis how ever its spelt, its been going on about a year now and docs wont help just keep prescribing lactulose which does nothing. She needs something that will totally clear her out etc, iv done research thou and some reason docs only think of this condition from the age of 4 when they are old enough to be toilette trained. I have read so much about it and it can continue to adulthood if its not treated, its so frustratin for me i cant be dealing with this when babys here. She can go toilette in her nickers and not even know it because when they get so bunged up it stretches their insides and they no longer feel it. Iv read once she gets treatment to be cleared out it can take a year before the colon etc will return normal in size and shape and become regular on the toilette. anyway enough rantin from me, hope everyone else is doing ok?

 

[mzhwd]

Mummy your day sounds super busy. I'm so tired and looking forward to a much needed nap. I'm expecting to ovulate today or tomorrow. I think it'll probably be tomorrow on CD14. If I don't conceive this month, I'm giving up all hope of conceiving naturally. Lol

 

[mummy_smurf2b]

Mummy your day sounds super busy. I'm so tired and looking forward to a much needed nap. I'm expecting to ovulate today or tomorrow. I think it'll probably be tomorrow on CD14. If I don't conceive this month, I'm giving up all hope of conceiving naturally. Lol

Fx for this cycle, If it doesn't happen what will u do next? It sure has been busy just glad I can relax a while now

 

[Mom2sam]

Mummy i see the start of a nice little bump!! I was right it does show quicker with second babies, all my sisters & freinds had neat little bumps after 12ish weeks. Sorry for the chaotic day but at least it's all sorted now. I would definitely keep at docs you know how it is here in uk docs need us to keep at them before they do anything! Demand you need it seeing to. I had to go back twice a week til they looked into my problem & only then did thy refer me for scan thy kept just sending me home with anti biotics until i burst into tears & said i'm not keaving till you look into it. Was thinking of changing docs & making a complaint until the lovely lady doc ended up doing surgery for one day a week & she listened & helped me straight away. Sad thing is she has left now so might still look into changing docs

Mzwid maybe this is what you needed a relaxed approach hipefully u get it narurally

Mummy i was on pill for 6 yrs & evn missed a couple days pills but never got caught yeah i knw once off thm properly it does mke u fertile but i'l b happy with that lol just want to relax & enjoy me & dh being togethr without worrying soon as surgery dine & i'm better i'l stop thr usually out of system in couple days

 

[sirouseman]

I want a little baby bump so bad.. I'm living vicariously through you mummy_surf!

 

[mzhwd]

Lol me too SM.

Mom I hope that the surgery goes well. I feel like sometimes you have to be pushy with doctors to get real results, which is sad. There's nothing worse than being sent home when there is truly a problem and worse case scenario they find out the issue later and then say it's too late to rectify. Smh

I move in less 4 days I'm super excited and counting down lol

 

[mummy_smurf2b]

Lol me too SM.

Mom I hope that the surgery goes well. I feel like sometimes you have to be pushy with doctors to get real results, which is sad. There's nothing worse than being sent home when there is truly a problem and worse case scenario they find out the issue later and then say it's too late to rectify. Smh

I move in less 4 days I'm super excited and counting down lol

Oooh u moving any where nice? Good luck maybe ul have the luck I had n get preg the month u move

 

[Mom2sam]

Lol baby bumps r the cutest things ever! Mzwid that's exciting u gonna hav a busy week & thanks

 

[MolGold]

How are things, ladies? I am 5DPO and nothing to report.. except occational dizziness which may be due to progesterone or low BP.

Silver lining today - I realized I O'ed on 23 Aug, the date I had my loss 4 years ago. Also, I will be late on 7th Sep (Dads 60th Bday) and my bday is on the 9th hoping for a bday BFP!

 

[Mom2sam]

Molgold that would be awesome! Good luck hope you get a birthday bfp!

 

[mzhwd]

Molgold that would be amazing. Fx'd for you hun. I'm actually still waiting to confirm ovulation. Uuuggghhhh crazy body and with packing for my move this weekend its hard to get enough sleep to make sure my temp is accurate.

 

[Mom2sam]

Cd1 for me today af came today. On break now for couple months but will check in with u ladies x