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I've always told him ahead of time when the important dates are - last time he didn't want to do it anyways. He's also aware that this upcoming weekend is "go" time again. So, we'll see what happens. If he has problems again this time then maybe next time I won't tell him at all when the time is, just give him a few hours notice the night that we should do it?
Futurephotos, I straight up asked my DH what would be easier on him. He gets what he calls "performance anxiety" if I'm too business-like about BDing lol. If we just get in a romantic mood and it happens, it doesn't bother him one bit. But that's impossible when ttc, I have a schedule!!
I said, "Do you want me to tell you ahead of time, or just let you know when it's time to
?" He said he was a little nervous when I told him ahead of time, but it would be
much worse to spring it on him, "drop your pants, let's go"
We've been BDing every other day recently, and around the 11th (CD 12 for me) we're going to start BDing every day until I feel like stopping I guess....I wanted to BD 11th-19th but that's kind of a lot, so I might skip a day here and there.
It's awesome having all of you here! I really wish I was temping or using OpKs, but I decided to just see how my first cycle ttc goes so I'm really guessing at my O day based on my cycle length and EWCM, etc. I've been tracking my cycle for months, hoping I don't O early or late without realizing it.
The problem with guessing is that I'm paying TOO much attention...I had a little EWCM yesterday and I thought, "What if I'm ovulating early!?!" If we don't have success this cycle, I'll buy ovulation kits and start tracking my BBT....sigh....
Sorry, ladies! Didn't meant to write a novel