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Hi everyone
My LG is 6 months old so the gap between her and our little pumpkin will be 15 months. I'm perfect fine with this, I think it's fab and happy to have a small age gap, even though this baby was a surprise a couple of months earlier than we intended on ttc!
But I am dreading telling our families, mainly df's. I don't want to be there, I just want df to tell them alone coz I just know they will upset me with their response. I know exactly what MIL will say "don't you think it's too soon?" Which is neither helpful nor nice, as this pregnancy is happening now how does asking if it's too soon help?!
I am hoping that my mum will be ok and I'm sure she will, maybe not 100% that it's the right time either though.
I know I shouldn't care what others think but I'd prefer support than useless negative comments.
It's probably not helping that I seem to have had a sudden bout of emotions today as it seems hormones may be kicking in, I just feel blue!
My LG is 6 months old so the gap between her and our little pumpkin will be 15 months. I'm perfect fine with this, I think it's fab and happy to have a small age gap, even though this baby was a surprise a couple of months earlier than we intended on ttc!
But I am dreading telling our families, mainly df's. I don't want to be there, I just want df to tell them alone coz I just know they will upset me with their response. I know exactly what MIL will say "don't you think it's too soon?" Which is neither helpful nor nice, as this pregnancy is happening now how does asking if it's too soon help?!
I am hoping that my mum will be ok and I'm sure she will, maybe not 100% that it's the right time either though.
I know I shouldn't care what others think but I'd prefer support than useless negative comments.
It's probably not helping that I seem to have had a sudden bout of emotions today as it seems hormones may be kicking in, I just feel blue!