Jenniflower
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OBEM last night made me really sad when all the ladies were handed their newborn babies.
I never got to experience this 'cause I was under general anaesthetic for my emergency section & it makes me sad that I wasn't there for my girl when she was first born and I missed out on that. I know its very soon but I could also never imagine having another baby 'cause the whole thing was just horrible
Silly probably!
Not silly at all beth. I feel exactly the same way as you. This weeks episode really had me crying and and re living through my birth again. It caused me to have to take sleeping pills again because I couldn't stop thinking about it. I'm the same as you, I had to have general and missed the most crucial first hours of her life There are pictures hubby took of her getting weighed and checked over and then cuddled by him, my MiL and sister all while I was still under. Then I missed her first nappy change, her first bath was more like a dream as I was still really drugged up. The first cuddle I had with her I have a picture of and I"m not even smiling because she didn't feel like my child. It's like they thrust her at me but I had no idea who she was.
Anyways, sorry got a bit ranty, the point is I don't think it's silly at all. I went from wanting at least 4-6 kids to most likely having only one now unless adoption becomes an option. Even though people tell me a planned section is easier than an emergency there's still no way I could conscientiously go through that again. As I watch the women go through their sections on the show I can still remember feeling every part of it. Last night when they showed the girl getting her Epi I actually started to panic because I can still remember the tickling, sick like feeling of the tube going up my spine.
I try to watch the show though because I think it's probably good healing to have to deal with all these emotions. It does really upset me though.