Anyone else with late AF and BFN? Come and join me!

[samola84]

I just had another BFN on a FRER... should I quit and just sit and wait for the evil to show her disgusting face?

 

[RedRose19]

well ladies seems im back

im cd 29 today... and i think 15 dpo and got a big fat negative thought FF says im only 13dpo.. i still think im 15dpo...

anyway i hate being in this limbo situation... i used an asda test.. are they any good??

maybe i sud get a first response..

my last cycle was 100 days i hope that doesnt happen again

 

[RedRose19]

Hi girls.

Im still here but after taking the withdrawl med she is finally on here way . I have raging cramp in my left side and im actually excited . I'll keep an eye you's all and i'll warn the that she's not welcome round any of you's. Hope u all get your really soon.

xx

yayyyy af is finally showing her face lol to a new cycle with a + result hun

 

[mossip]

well ladies seems im back

im cd 29 today... and i think 15 dpo and got a big fat negative thought FF says im only 13dpo.. i still think im 15dpo...

anyway i hate being in this limbo situation... i used an asda test.. are they any good??

maybe i sud get a first response..

my last cycle was 100 days i hope that doesnt happen again

Aww luv i can't believe your back just as im leaving lol. Yes the witch has finally showed up afta an extra long cycle (cd130). im in agony now like but its all worth it

xx

 

[RedRose19]

Aww luv i can't believe your back just as im leaving lol. Yes the witch has finally showed up afta an extra long cycle (cd130). im in agony now like but its all worth it

xx

awwww hun i was the same when i finally got my af... it hurt so badly.. i was in bed with a hot water bottle hehe my df was great though... ii dont have any symptoms of af coming.... and a bfn.. so it looks like a long cycle for me again...

 

[mossip]

Aww luv i can't believe your back just as im leaving lol. Yes the witch has finally showed up afta an extra long cycle (cd130). im in agony now like but its all worth it

xx

awwww hun i was the same when i finally got my af... it hurt so badly.. i was in bed with a hot water bottle hehe my df was great though... ii dont have any symptoms of af coming.... and a bfn.. so it looks like a long cycle for me again...

Aww hun have u been to the docs? if u have another 1 long cycle i think u shud go and c wot they say. Its prolly nothing but just to b sure.

Big love to u xxx

 

[RedRose19]

i think i will.. just say why am i not bleeding lmao i hope its cuz im preggers this time lol... i really thought this was it... but i guess i was wrong... so dis heartening to see bfn

thanks hun this is gonna be your cycle x

 

[cheerios]

Hey babyhopes10
I think you´re the only person I know who shares the same predicament about not having AF for the longest time. I´m entering my 4th month of no AF. Been to the gynaecologist and she said I´m perfectly normal. We even had an ultrascan to check my ovaries and everything´s fine...which I guess I should be happy about, since that means I don´t have any cysts or anything like that. BUT my AF is still not here!
She took a blood test, but I will only know my result one month later, since there are no other earlier appointments. And she suggested that I go back to taking the pill for 1 month so that my AF is induced to come once the one month is over. I´m reluctant to do so, because its playing with the hormones again - which is the problem of me not having any AF. Its like a never-ending circle.... So hard, but I struggle with the thoughts of not being to ever get pregnant since I feel like I´m entering early menopause at 26! - how stupid is that... but yeah.... gets me depressed sometimes.

 

[samola84]

Cheerios, I would suggest finding another doctor. Thats exactly what happened with me before. Finally, almost 3 years later I decided to change docs and they gave me provera to set off a period. My doc actually told me that not having a regular shedding of the walls of your uterus increase the chances of cancer. God forbid.

But please take care of yourself and find another doctor, and dont go back on the pill it'll just make things worse..blv me I was there.

 

[RedRose19]

Hey babyhopes10
I think you´re the only person I know who shares the same predicament about not having AF for the longest time. I´m entering my 4th month of no AF. Been to the gynaecologist and she said I´m perfectly normal. We even had an ultrascan to check my ovaries and everything´s fine...which I guess I should be happy about, since that means I don´t have any cysts or anything like that. BUT my AF is still not here!
She took a blood test, but I will only know my result one month later, since there are no other earlier appointments. And she suggested that I go back to taking the pill for 1 month so that my AF is induced to come once the one month is over. I´m reluctant to do so, because its playing with the hormones again - which is the problem of me not having any AF. Its like a never-ending circle.... So hard, but I struggle with the thoughts of not being to ever get pregnant since I feel like I´m entering early menopause at 26! - how stupid is that... but yeah.... gets me depressed sometimes.

awwwww hun i really know the frustration hun... i waited from june till sept for my af.. it sent me crazy and drove me to tears some nights

i got af eventually after taking angus castus i believe it worked for me, though some swear it doesnt work but i know it helped me. anyway im confused to what day i ov and well its so bloody annoying lol i tested twice on asda cheapies both bfn... ill test today week if af hasnt shown.. if its still neg then im going to the doc

i hope af shows soon hun

 

[MummyCat]

MummyCat I am 14 DPO now still no AF.... going insane.. I am sooo sleepy and tired and I dont know if its another symptom or if its still my body recovering from a cold last week.

Thanks hun... do you mind me asking what that makes you in cycle days? and how long your cycles are? cos I'm a bit useless with DPO.. only that my luteal phase is normally about 14 days... so if you were me... which clearly you're not... you'd be due on right about now So signs like your getting are great, and BFP may only work a few days after period due (that's what happened with my Lottie pops!)

Hang in there!!

 

[MummyCat]

I just had another BFN on a FRER... should I quit and just sit and wait for the evil to show her disgusting face?

Don't get disheartened hun... it may still be BFP in a few days! When is due?

 

[NG09]

Hy girls,

I almost qualify for this thread!! AF is due today but got a this morning!! Anyone been in the same situatution and got a a few days later???

 

[MummyCat]

well ladies seems im back

im cd 29 today... and i think 15 dpo and got a big fat negative thought FF says im only 13dpo.. i still think im 15dpo...

anyway i hate being in this limbo situation... i used an asda test.. are they any good??

maybe i sud get a first response..

my last cycle was 100 days i hope that doesnt happen again

Fingers crossed you have a normal cycle this time, and here's really hoping that you're pregnant!!

I think the ASDA one's are fine hun, don't be discouraged, I only got my BFP with DD a week after I was due! I tested 3 days after period was due and got BFN, so thought I might have had an infection as CM was weird... had to test the day of getting 'possible infection' results from docs, as no antibiotics allowed if I was pregnant... and I got my BFP.. to my surprise!

So keeping all things crossed for you hun!

 

[MummyCat]

Hey babyhopes10
I think you´re the only person I know who shares the same predicament about not having AF for the longest time. I´m entering my 4th month of no AF. Been to the gynaecologist and she said I´m perfectly normal. We even had an ultrascan to check my ovaries and everything´s fine...which I guess I should be happy about, since that means I don´t have any cysts or anything like that. BUT my AF is still not here!
She took a blood test, but I will only know my result one month later, since there are no other earlier appointments. And she suggested that I go back to taking the pill for 1 month so that my AF is induced to come once the one month is over. I´m reluctant to do so, because its playing with the hormones again - which is the problem of me not having any AF. Its like a never-ending circle.... So hard, but I struggle with the thoughts of not being to ever get pregnant since I feel like I´m entering early menopause at 26! - how stupid is that... but yeah.... gets me depressed sometimes.

I would seek a second opinion. I can't imagine that having no AF for months is as a result of 'nothing wrong' clearly there has to be something.... perhaps a hormone imbalance? something that needs to be looked at in my opinion!

Hope that this is sorted soon for you sweets... it must be soul destroying to go 4 months with no AF (i'm fed up with the one cycle I've missed so far!)

xxxxxxxxxx

 

[MummyCat]

Hy girls,

I almost qualify for this thread!! AF is due today but got a this morning!! Anyone been in the same situatution and got a a few days later???

Me!! Got BFN three days after AF was due... and then got BFP (about 4 days after the BFN)... so have faith hun!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[NG09]

Thanks for letting me know!! Am so down after my this morning!! Every litle cramp I get I'm up and off to the loo just incase!! It's stupid!!

 

[MummyCat]

Have you had any other pregnancy type symptoms to make you feel this could be your month? I know how hard it is hun, you spend your whole day just wishing the AF to stay away and the test to show bfp!!

 

[NG09]

Yeah, I've had cramps for the last fornight, some light spotting a couple of weeks ago, sicky, tired, dizzy,bloated and a REALLY cranky mood, ooh not forgetting the wind and constipation and acid indigestion!!!! I keep thinking maybe it's just coincidence. ttc#1, also 1st cycle so am just thinking no way we could be that lucky!!!

 

[MummyCat]

hun, those are fab signs and you can be that lucky! My cousin fell pregnant at first attempt for her son and with one on the way! Fingers crossed this is it for you!! x