Please dont think Im a terrible person.. My OH and I have always wanted to start out our family with a little girl. we have been trying conception methods to concieve a girl and I feel a little guilty! OF COURSE I would be over the moon with a baby boy, but our dream is a girl. whenever you ask anyone what they are hoping for they always say "dont care, as long as its healthy" and I obviously take my child's health over gender preference, but is it wrong to hope for a healthy baby girl (or boy) ??