well it will get your dh prepared for crazyness when your lo is here lol yeah i used a nose spray when i was pg and found out later you shouldnt so you should be fine. i hate not being able to breathe its the one thing i cant cope with when im ill lol. well i understand why you would be worried about where you are going to live its pretty stressful moving as it is. are you going to move closer to your or his family or somewhere new? or still not sure. we will hopefully be moving in a few months im hoping before summer but if im pg i will be about 5 months or more which is a little crazy. last time i moved when my son was 4 months old.
as for me still late, i know i o'd a day or 2 early early but even if my temps were wrong im still 3 to 5 days late depending when i o'd. i have one last test and because of the spotting i think there is a good chance i might be i had a small bout of nausea 2 nights ago and this morning. And i keep having stabby pains and uncomfortable in groin/cervix area. hubby is very depressed and super stressed so im not sure about testing as i would tell him and im not sure if he would be happy or stress him out more. he does want it if i am but the timing isnt great. and i cant lie and keep it to myself as i would be too excited/stressed to keep it in. im also thinking i would like to get passed where i got to last time i was pg as id rather not know i was if i lost it. i know that sounds stupid but i would be able to dust myself off and try again next month but if i knew it took me a while to want to and even then i was so stressed in case i was, sometimes it was a relief that i wasnt. its not now id be happy if i was but i think its just about self preservation. so not sure when i would test. they dont do early scans here and you see a midwife at about 8 weeks and they book you in for a scan at 10-12 weeks. so really its not a rush. might leave it a week and a half hubbys meds might have kicked in when he gets some today. on top of that my bbt batteries have died lol so cant temp now im glad i hated that thing. i seriously feel awful i hate nausea. if im not pg i must be coming down with something
So you think youre pregnant?! I dont know how you make yourself wait to test! Fingers crossed!!
So far, the plan is to move to TX where DHs mom lives, rent out a trailor (yuk!) that his moms owns until we figure out job, and eventually buy a house. Im not looking forward to living in TX. Its super hot there and everyone Ive ever met from Texas has an attitude. I imagine people there are all gun toting jesus people lol. Ugh.
DH has taken DD to school the past two days. Ill have to take her tomorrow, though. His work is getting pissy about him being late. I feel a lot better though. Im like you, when Im sick I HAVE to have nose spray. If I cant breath then it makes it way worse. I took some Benadryl, lastnight and slept so good. Took some this morning and slept a bit too. Maybe I needed some good sleep.
I still dont feel pregnant. I feel really fat though. I LOOK really fat imo lol. I look like one of those girls who has really skinny legs but a big gut that hangs over her jeans lol. Not sure if you have those girls where you live. Here in America, theyre everywhere!
Im not sure if I look pregnant yet...just dumpy haha.
I think Im going to ask my DH if we can get another private scan. Its been a few weeks since the last one. It just helps me connect, I guess. My 20 week scan isnt for another month.
So, my bestfriend, from before I moved, found out shes pregnant a little bit after me. Shes had a real hard time with it. Her DH isnt the greatest and she was actually thinking of leaving him before she found out. Even then, she was thinking of terminating so she could get away. As things are now, she lives as a single mom. (hes never home...and hes a peice of shit) Anyway, she finally settled down with the idea that shes going to have a baby. She found out the sex yesterday. Its a boy! But...she wanted a girl soo bad. Now shes having a hard time with the idea of having a boy. Personally, I think if her husband wasnt such a shitty husband, shed be excited. Maybe in the back of her mind, she imagines itll end up like his dad. I dunno. But I feel so bad for her. Shes having such a hard time.
I think meds will help your DHs depression. Sometimes, you just need help getting out of it. Do you think that if your DH found out you were pregnant now, it would make it worse? Maybe it would lift his spirits?
