Hey all! New here. I belong to CountdowntoPregnancy.com. I am a military wife, and my husband and I have been TTC for about 3 years now. We had a lot of issues with my health insurance, just recently switched to his, so hopefully I can get a thorough check up, and an explanation as to what is going on. We started buying OPK's, but over time they just got too darn expensive. AF is irregular, and I'm a tad overweight. My husband is older than me by 11 years. We want to get pregnant something awful and sometimes, I feel like something is up, I get so excited, just to be let down. Thinking about giving it another go naturally for 6 or 7 more months then if no dice, I will be asking my doctor about Clomid. I've been trying to get my weight down, quit smoking, BD whenever we get the chance. I know when you're TTC you shouldn't really go to the bathroom, right after sex, but give it 20-30 min... but I can't help it, I don't like the way it feels. (Sorry tmi, I know). But even so, 3 years and still no luck? =( I hate when I get excited then wind up getting my hopes up. I can't tell yall how many times I've cried for days over this issue. Just looking to make some friends and talk to people with the same issue. Most of my friends are pregnant or have children so I feel as though I can no longer relate to them, and I guess I get a twinge of jealousy when they call me and tell me they're expecting another. Why is it so easy for them? (Sorry, feeling down again.)