wishuwerehere
dh, me and 2dds
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I know my dd2 is not even 2 weeks old so it seems early to be back here! However i can't stop this constant internal dialogue about having a third baby and if it's a good idea. I know financially it would be better with 2, both my labour have been relatively easy and i'm obly 24 so if i had no more they'd be grown up by the time i hit my early 40s. We'd be looking for a 2-3 year age gap but that would probably push back when we'd be able to buy a house, realistically we'd want a bigger car etc. On paper it seems sensible to stop at 2...
But there's a little bit of my brain that just won't stop niggling that i want another! I think part of it is desire for a boy, which is a terrible reason on it's own, but i just don't feel 'complete' iykwim?
My oh feels the same as me so at least i know i'm not butting heads with someone who feels strongly one way or the other...
But does anyone feel the same?
But there's a little bit of my brain that just won't stop niggling that i want another! I think part of it is desire for a boy, which is a terrible reason on it's own, but i just don't feel 'complete' iykwim?
My oh feels the same as me so at least i know i'm not butting heads with someone who feels strongly one way or the other...
But does anyone feel the same?