Anyone over 45 TTc ?buddies needed <3

That is wonderful, happy for you :). Do you know what you are having?
 
Hi ladies ,my name is t and I'm 45 and 9 months ,I've been trying for over seven years now and suffered eleven losses ,I'm starting to feel like my time is up ,is there anyone else my age or older still TTc ?:hugs::hugs:

45 and 5 months here. Been trying for 3 years. Never been pregnant. Not feeling hopeful at this point

I just did a cycle of clomid and menopur last month and was hopeful when I had spotting but no period for 8 days late but then it came in full swing with pieces of flesh too (sry tmi but I had never experienced that so assumed it was from medication). Now I'm finishing up on cd5 (usually only last 4-5 days) and have been super emotional today and heavy AF type cramps from one end to other very low and bad low back ache. I've never had bad cramps at end of AF or these symptoms. Can anyone explain what might be causing this?
 
You may have had a MC? Did you go see a doctor? If they do bloods on you they should be able to tell if there was any HCG
 
You may have had a MC? Did you go see a doctor? If they do bloods on you they should be able to tell if there was any HCG

Thanks-I did a HPT and it was negative before AF came 8 days late so MD said I was never pregnant
 
Ok, no idea if clomid could do that to tell you the truth. Some times it's us being stressed? I have been late before like that at stressful times also when worried. Crazy how our bodies react.

Keep in trying. Have you thought or considered donor eggs? Lots of women have had great success that way. I know we want our own eggs but with epigenetics we do know how we influence the teeny tiny cell we get from a donor. If interested there is another thread here that has tons of info on that.

Keep the faith!
 
LLbean I have been looking for the thread you mentioned above about epigenetics and I cannot find it. Could you post a link? I would be very interested in this!
 
on the thread is on egg donation really but they do talk about epigenetics now and again.

Freedom Pharmacy published this great booklet about egg donation -- here an excerpt:

&#8220;Perhaps the greatest myth surrounds pregnancy. Many believe the uterus is simply an incubator. Nothing could be further from the truth. The most important aspect of all pregnancies- including egg donation pregnancies- is that as the fetus grows, every cell in the developing body is built out of the pregnant mother&#8217;s body. Tissue from her uterine lining will contribute to the formation of the placenta, which will link her and her child. The fetus will use her body&#8217;s protein, then she will replace it. The fetus uses her sugars, calcium, nitrates, and fluids, and she will replace them. So, if you think of your dream child as your dream house, the genes provide merely a basic blueprint, the biological mother takes care of all the materials and construction, from the foundation right on up to the light fixtures. So, although her husband&#8217;s aunt Sara or the donor&#8217;s grandfather may have genetically programmed the shape of the new baby&#8217;s earlobe, the earlobe itself is the pregnant woman&#8217;s &#8220;flesh and blood.&#8221; That means the earlobe, along with the baby herself, grew from the recipient&#8217;s body. That is why she is the child&#8217;s biological mother. That is why this child is her biological child.&#8221;

Here is a few articles though https://www.yourivfjourney.com/epigenetics-can-ivf-affect-your-babys-genes/

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/technology-science/science/mums-donor-egg-implants-babies-6518332


https://tpvedo.blogspot.com/2009/07/women-who-give-birth-to-donor-egg.html

https://forums.fertilitycommunity.com/donor-issues-egg-sperm/277949-article-about-donor-egg-dna.html

https://www.allaboutsurrogacy.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=42386

https://www.theage.com.au/news/worl...parents-created/2008/02/05/1202090418896.html
 
The thread here is this one https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/assisted-conception/2233749-inconceivable-beyond.html
 
you are welcome, added a few links on my message above as well if you want to read more
 

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