Anyone starting to set up the process of EGG SHARING? If so come join me 8 BFP's

[bettybee1]

The nurses were rubbish today couldn't really tell me much !!! Atall

I hate all this malarkey I just wanna b pregnant with a sticky baby !!! I wish I didn't have too pay too do something that is natural grrrr and grrrr the lady from Darlington sent me more info through in total it's 850 not 350 still cheaper than care tho !! We will just see lol !!!

When I go next Thursday I'll ask how quick the process is etc. then I will weigh up the odds of am
Better with care Sheffield which is 1 hour closer and easier tol get too or darlignton

I wonder if I phone care Sheffield up next week if they will have my amh result so I don't have tol wait till the 20th am so impatient !!

And hopefully the cyst will go with next af !!! I have had them before and they normally go by themself they joys !!!! !! Can I even ovulate this cycle with a cyst ??? Xx

 

[scerena]

betty how come its £850 and not £350??? It's horrible we have to pay for some thing so natural Hun I totally get them feelings too but we will get our babies and they will know just how much they're wanted Hun

How far is Sheffield from where you are??? Have you looked at who has the better success rate???

It's worth calling up for the AMH Hun, I would
I'm not sure if you can ovulate with a cyst or not sorry

AFM-
Well I called the clinic AGAIN today as they didn't bother calling back yesterday, then they still didn't call me back today!!! I am sick of them now they can stuff their egg sharing up their backside now!!!
I need my blood results printed out so I can book my appointment at the lister, as they said if I take all my bloods they can get me started ASAP and matched quickly after the appointment...
Plus I need my egg sharing reference number from my clinic to pass on to that place that finds me a recipient at other clinics also...

 

[4magpies]

Hey girls.

Sorry about your cyst Betty.

Scerena sorry that your clinic is messing you about.

6 days till my appointment. Starting to get nervous!

We have an appointment with our chosen wedding photographer the same day too. So it'll be overload I think. Haha.

Just popping in quickly on my phone.

xxx

 

[scerena]

4magpies not long now so exciting isn't it

When is your wedding???

Hopefully loads of food news for you that day

 

[kazzab25]

Betty, sorry bout the cyst what's flaming nightmare!

Scerena ,at my last clinic I coud wait up to a week for a call bk at lister they are amazing all round so far!

4 magpies when are you getting married, we have booked ours recently, it's a good distraction from all the ivf!

Plex how's you Hun!

Sorry about my weird spelling, I go to fast and my sausage fingers miss the right keys on the iPad and it changes my spelling !

Afm, I had my hcosy today! All Fine and Normal. I'm happy but in away I hoped they'd find a reason ivf hasn't works so far! Still maybe lister will make it work for me ths time!

Back to lister Friday to get schedule of treatment and hope to start d regging then too!

 

[4magpies]

We are getting married the 15th December. I can't wait.

Just want it all organised and sorted now. Haha. So much to do.

Hoping my IVF books arrive today.

I've come down with a cold over night and my throat is killing me. I was meant to be doing hot yoga tonight! Grr.

xxx

 

[scerena]

kazza I think I will be calling lister today to book an appointment my clinic are so annoying- I will get all my bloods from them and take them with me...

That's great nothing was wrong Hun my Hycosy was so painful but that was probably because I had a blocked tube at the time.

I have read lister has quite high success rates so I have everything crossed that they can give you your brp

Hopefully Friday your IVF journey starts

How many appointments roughly have they said you will need during your treatment? (Just wondering so I know a little more so I can kind of start planning how many times roughly I will need to get there)

4magpies aw a winter wedding how lovely I can only imagine how much you have to sort out and the egg sharing you're a very busy woman

Ahhhh sorry you've got a cold Hunni I hope you start to feel better soon

 

[scerena]

I've had a very productive day

I now have my consultation at the lister clinic on the 26th feb
She said we will do the consultation, the counselling, ohs SA and anything that need to be set up that day

Then, on the 26th just take all my blood tests there that have been done and then she can get right on with matching me without waiting for the blood results
Plus I made sure I asked if they have mixed race recipients waiting AGAIN but to a different lady and she also said yes
About my normal clinic well they just annoy me!!! Still had no call this afternoon- so I called them and no answer so sent them an email and they finally call me right before they're closing!

Anyhow I told them that I'm moving to the lister clinic and that I want all the blood work I have had done, they're charging me £25 I told them that's absolutely fine as at least I can get started finally with the egg sharing
She said "let us know how you get on please" looooool somehow I don't think so they always mess around and I'm sick of them!!

Oh has said he is excited to go to the new clinic- he hates our clinic! And he's excited that we can actually move forward

 

[bettybee1]

So glad you have everything sorted seems you have had a v good day hun

An v good that you can get it all done in one day !!!! Woop !!!hope you get started v quick !!!!

I recieved all te paper work from darlington !! Luke will have his sperm test the same day aswell anyone know how long SA counts take too come back where both nervous about this as he has never had one !!!! Arghh !!

 

[scerena]

betty Hun how are you???
That's great you had the paper work already
They usually take a few days on a standard SA, but I heard at one clinic they went to an egg sharing consultation and they test it straight away and give you the results I think that's what happens at the lister clinic also
So fx'd you will get your SA results that day maybe ask them???

So what clinic are you swaying more too???

What dates have you got for each clinic again??? Sorry

 

[4magpies]

Our SA took a week for results but that was NHS.

I'm glad you told current clinic to stick it up their bum. So to speak. Haha.

I'm very busy I have a holiday in Spain to fit in and OH is a driver in a British Motorsport championship so we have a full season of that to fit in aswell as my best friends wedding. Busy year this year!

xxx

 

[bettybee1]

Hopefully on the letter it says the appointment will be around 2-3 hours hopefully they give them back the same day !!!

Mon4th feb= nhs clinic which will b bollocks lol

Thursday 7th = darlignton clinc initial consultation everything will b done that day bloods the lot SA count

20th feb = care Sheffield too see the docter and go over blood results and treatment plan


Am really not sure yet I'll go with the one that's quickest !! So once I have being too Darlington I'll ask them how long etc

Then I'll ring Sheffield up for a more detailed breakdown then probley make my mind up from there


So confusing there success rates are about the same so not really bothered about that plus I dont go off any success rates coz all % are just shit haha I have the same chance anywhere if an doing the same thing same drugs !! Lol xxx

 

[scerena]

4magpies god you have a lot to do this year a holiday to Spain sounds really nice

betty I know what you mean by the end of feb you will have your results hopefully and then you can go with whoever matches you the quickest right?

If it's the end of feb/ beginning of march for us both- then hopefully we will be matched around those same time and we could end up cycle buddies fx'd

Exactly, I don't read too much into success rates I think they count a little but despite where you get it done we are just the same statistic wherever you're right there

 

[bettybee1]

I reckon the rates are all gaga

Say 10 women goto London clinic 5have not good lining not good eggs and 5 are just unexplained

Then 10 women goto care manchester and all have unexplained they most Likely manchester will have the better rates I think it's just different problems etc some have more some have less of you get me haha!!


Yeah fx'd that's we will end up on the same cycle off things that would be ace! Xx

 

[scerena]

I totally get you if its gonna happen it doesn't matter what clinic you're at- like you say- if your eggs are going to fertilise they will, if your embryo is going to stick it will

That would be great to have a cycle buddy- you might start just before me though as my appointment isn't until the end of feb and they have to match me, but fx'd a few of us will be cycling together

 

[bettybee1]

It depends what clinic I goto suppose !! Am really nervous I all goes too plan I really don't wanna inject myself !:/ !!!! But the only people who know we're going through this process is me and my hubby and 1 friend !! Lol so can't even get my mum too do it grrr lol

 

[4magpies]

I'm ok about injecting myself and I hate needles (yet I have loads of tattoos. Haha).

Ill do anything to get my baby basically as I've waited so long.

I just can't wait to be a mum.

xxx

 

[scerena]

Injections aren't too bad Hun I done three cycle of menopur injections...

The 1st on I felt like I was going to faint it took me so long to actually put the needle in I really chickened out...
BUT I did do it, and after the 1st injection you will be okay, the more you do you will be a pro

Some ladies like their oh to do it, but I preferred to do it myself, you hardly feel it, the odd time it might feel like a little pinch... As you get the skin on your belly/thigh and hold it whilst injecting, honest it's fine

Sound weird but I actually miss doing it- it made me feel like I was trying more than I ever had before to have my baby by injecting, like right now I feel crap doing nothing

Honest you will be fine

 

[Plex]

Heya all hope ur all well, im just going to catch up on all the posts ive missed xx

 

[scerena]

plex how are you???? Any appointments coming up at all???