Anyone struggling to get baby number 2??

[brunettebimbo]

I think it's early pregnancy. With all 3 of my losses my tests got lighter and went negative pretty much as soon as I started bleeding. FX!

 

[slg76]

I'm so sorry for all the worry babyjan. I hope it turns out all right

Munchkin, don't feel guilty for staying home. If these are good friends then they will want you to do what makes you feel best.

I'm having a rough day. Emily is acting up because she is upset daddy is gone so long. Husband and I argue about parenting/discipline a lot and this situation makes it so much worse. He has a hard time understanding that what works for him doesn't work for me. He thinks I'm a lazy parent and that's why emily acts out for me. I think she's bored of me and knows that I don't disappear no matter what. Ug. Just a really hard couple of weeks.

Plus, I'm absolutely exhausted lately. That makes me wonder if I'm pregnant. That makes me feel delusional because I know full well that I'm not pregnant. This mama needs a vacation!

 

[Munchkin30]

Boo sig it must be so hard having oh away so much. It's hard enough with 2 parents most of the time! And they def play parents off against each other. When jm at home with dd all I get is 'wheres daddy gone?' And vice versa! I thunk consistency is good but you'll have different relationships with her so it's bound to be inconsistent sometimes. And I'm all for 'lazy' parenting! I think there's a lot to be said for the path of least resistance. Do what works for you xx

I was up late sorting stuff for my gran, she'd run out of important medical supplies so I ended up in a and e! I finally got to sleep when dd came running in after having a bad dream. She went back to sleep quickly but it's now after 5 and I'm still awake! And I've got a 4 hour drive today to pick up my gran. Joy!!

 

[celine]

Babyjan i agree with the darkness of the test progression it ,ust be early preg. Any new tests to look at today?

 

[Button#]

BabyJan- thinking of you today. Let us know what the blood results are.

 

[babyjan]

I've been testing daily and the tests have been looking ok, this morning fmu isn't as dark as I expected, if anything it looks a lil lighter than yesterday smu.

Here's this mornings

Not sure what is going on really, it doesn't help that I have no symptoms whatsoever

Good thing is that I stopped bleeding completely yesterday and I'm no longer in pain x

 

[Button#]

I don't test as well with fmu. Tests always look better for me when I test at random points in the day. Hopefully the blood test will give you some answers.

 

[slg76]

That still looks like a nice strong line! I think it's a good sign that you have a positive test after you stopped bleeding. Hang in there

 

[babyjan]

Levels are low, only 100 but I have no idea when I ovulated , she will ring me this evening with today's results, I don't think it's looking good, especially with all that bleeding I had :/

 

[Mrs W 11]

Sorry you are going through this babyj, I'm sure the not knowing either way is really tough.

The fact that you don't know your ov date means your levels could be ok, I've never had mine done so I don't know much other than they should be doubling. Your tests still look dark to me. Stay positive, I hope your next results being good news. Thinking of you!

How was everyone's wkends? We've been away staying with family which has been lots of fun! 4dpo today and got cross hairs yesterday x

 

[babyjan]

Unfortunately it's gone down to 51, she's asked me to come back this Friday for more bloods but I really don't see the point.

Thanks ladies for listening to me and giving me such helpful advise as well as lovely words over the past few days

Part of me wishes I never even tested, that way I wouldn't have ever known about it, feel so silly for spending so much money on tests in the space of a few days

 

[Button#]

I'm sorry BabyJan.

 

[Bevziibubble]

I'm so sorry BabyJan

 

[brunettebimbo]

Sorry Hun

 

[Mrs W 11]

Nothing we can say can help but I'm honestly so sorry babyj xxx

 

[Munchkin30]

So sorry babyjan. Don't feel silly we'd have all done the same. Again I'm so so sorry xx

 

[babyjan]

Honestly I'm not feeling too bad, sad of course because I had hopes but at the same time I totally didn't expect that, I mean I moved on with my cycle when AF hit then this just came out of nowhere.

I'm also looking at the positives, that I finally managed to conceive after birth control so maybe next cycle will bring good news xx


How is everyone else doing?

Anyone know if this cyst will get in the way of conceiving again? Or can it cause miscarriages? I'm so scared its done something horrible to me

 

[slg76]

sorry babyjan I wish the answer had been different for you.

I get cysts on my ovaries. I would never know they were there except I'm constantly getting my ovaries scanned for fertility reasons. It should just disappear during your next cycle. I wouldn't worry about it at all.

Having an ok weekend with Emily. She is really struggling with having her daddy gone for so long. He finishes training on Thursday and it can't come soon enough!! She has been acting out like never before. We made a chart showing her how many more days till daddy comes home. I think it's helping and showing her that there is an end to his time away.

 

[brunettebimbo]

I have a cyst, I've had it since before having my son, it sometimes causes pain but it's ok.

AFM - I don't know what's going on, I've had no real temperature shift but I'm pretty sure I've ovulated. I had cramping, HSO cervix and EWCM. Now my CM has changed to creamy and my cervix is very much how it usually is after O. Also my boobs are agony, this has only ever happened after O. Any ideas why I wouldn't be getting a temperature shift if I have ovulated?

 

[Munchkin30]

It's hard brunette, it might shift in a few days and these temps were just anonomalies. Obviously the overall pattern is the most important thing. Have you changed your duvet? Sleeping different times? Have you got a cold do you're sleeping with your mouth open??

Sig I really sympathise. I used to teach violin to a little girl who's dad was in the raf (military) and used to go away for months at a time and for weeks I'd go round and she'd just be crying the whole lesson. I think your chart is a fab idea!!

AFM the AF is still here on CD17! It is lighter but certainly not just spotting yet. Do u think I should go to the dr? What could it be? If my body is just taking it's time then that's fine but what if there's something else like scar tissues causing the bleeding??