Anyone struggling to get baby number 2??

[babyjan]

The bleeding I'm experiencing is basically bloody ewcm, sorry for tmi but it's exactly like what you would get around ovulation but just bloody

I will be going hospital when my son wakes up and has eaten, I'm away from home so can't go gp so have to go a&e instead, hopefully they can give me some answers x

 

[Mrs W 11]

Hi jan,

I'd be surprised if you'd still be getting a pos of it was your period after a chemical, if your af wasn't late? Maybe it's implantation? Hope you got on ok at hospital, let us know how you got on.

Munchkin this is my chart https://FertilityFriend.com/home/37175f

 

[Mrs W 11]

Ps brunette your post made me smile, how are you feeling today?!! Hope it was a post ov temp and not just hangover! X

 

[jodilee6]

Ladies can I join you, we are on cycle 6 of TTC #2 and it's not really going to plan! I've had 1 MC and my cycles just seem to be all over the place

To top it off I now know 8, yes 8 friends who've all started TTC after us and are all pg, as much as I'm happy for them I'm so jealous and I'm also struggling to be positive when another friend tells me their pg, only 1 knows that we are TTC and also how hard it's been... Sigh!

 

[Button#]

Hi Jodilee, sorry for your loss. This will be my 6th cycle TTC as well and like you I've had a mc. Also lots of people around me pregnant or with newborns.

Where are you in your cycle?

Oh and I've always loved your sig!

 

[babyjan]

Been A&E and the dr just said that there's a possiblity I've miscarried, I've got a scan for tomorrow so will find out for sure.

I've stopped bleeding and I am now just experiencing ewcm, not sure if that's good or a bad thing? Still crampy though :/

 

[brunettebimbo]

Keeping my fingers crossed for you!


OMG I should not read google! So since having my coil removed my cycles have been all over the place. I've always said it was the coil. After my miscarriages I read a few things from other women blaming the coil, well tonight I found these. Pretty scary reading

https://www.lawyersandsettlements.c...ntrol-side-effects-14-19585.html#.U1lo-om9LCQ

https://www.lawyersandsettlements.c...ntrol-side-effects-13-19486.html#.U1lpXYm9LCQ

 

[jodilee6]

Hi button

CD14 and no obvious sign of ov at the moment, I've tried being laid back but am going to start temping again from next month

The pgs I can deal with at the moment but think I'll really struggle when the newborns come along as I see 5/8 ladies a lot of time with our toddlers.

On a happier note my little boy is 2 Saturday and I cannot wait!! I should change my sig to a more recent pic but I love it too much

 

[Mrs W 11]

Just lost a long post I'd typed grrrr.

Welcome jodi, most of my friends are pregnant too so I know how you feel. It's hard xx

Brunette, that does make scary reading but I couldn't gather on what basis they are blaming the mirena. Couldn't it be a coincidence? X

Jan, good luck at the scan tomorrow. The bleeding stopping must be a good sign x

 

[brunettebimbo]

Ps brunette your post made me smile, how are you feeling today?!! Hope it was a post ov temp and not just hangover! X

Sorry missed this earlier!
I hugged the toilet bowl Feeling fine after a McDonalds, KFC and retail therapy!

I'm not sure what they are basing it on. Would be interesting to know. I'm going to question the gynaecologist next time I'm there.

 

[Mrs W 11]

I had originally put munchkin not brunette and just edited - blonde moment so that's why you maybe didn't see it.

Ys do ask the gynae when you see him. I think you can find anything you want on google. I've spent months since my mmc googling about my mmc, my cycles since, getting preg again and I find so much for and against anything I look for, it's so hard. I know you want to look for answers but you can really go down a path worrying about one thing for no reason so I would try not to focus on it too much

I can't stop eating today!! I'm still hungry! X

 

[Bevziibubble]

Been A&E and the dr just said that there's a possiblity I've miscarried, I've got a scan for tomorrow so will find out for sure.

I've stopped bleeding and I am now just experiencing ewcm, not sure if that's good or a bad thing? Still crampy though :/

Keeping my fingers crossed for you

 

[Button#]

BabyJan - how did the scan go?

 

[babyjan]

Well I'm back and even more confused, I got a scan and the lady said she couldn't see a pregnancy, the only thing she could see was a cyst on my right ovary and fluids pooled around it, I explained I've been getting positive pregnancy tests which have been progressing so she asked me to do a urine sample and then to see the nurse.

So I saw the nurse and she said I got a faint positive and it's possible that I either had a early miscarriage or there's an early pregnancy beginning, she took my blood and said I would need to go back Sunday for 2nd bloods.

I asked what the pain and bleeding is about and she said its either caused by the cyst or early loss, my results are inconclusive and they have no idea what's going on themselves

I guess the bloods will say for sure what's happening, right now I just have to be patient and wait for this pain to pass

 

[babyjan]

Oh forgot to updated u guys but this morning I woke up to extreme pains, like labour pains so I took paracetamol which helped a lot but I still had the awful pain on my right side which I now know might be due to the cyst, I'm feeling loads better now and have to wait to Sunday to find out my levels x

Here's my progression pic, from left (it came out sideways) Wednesday night first test, Thursday fmu test and this mornings fmu x

 

[Munchkin30]

Oh baby jan its so so confusing I'm so sorry you're going through all this and in pain too I know we'd all go through so much pain for a healthy baby but when it's so confusing as well it's not fair. The hpts are definitely progressing, the blood test should make things clearer for you.

Mrs W thanks for ASSUMING a status about wine and puking was obviously mine

Tonight I threw a sicky for a night out with my NCT girls. They're all lovely but one is due a few days after Rowan and I can't face it. I feel so guilty not going but I just can't do it also I 'think' AF is slowing down at last. My opks are still bright white though so not getting anywhere fast. CD14 today, looks like I'm in for an epic cycle! My royal jelly arrived today and I also had some apimist+pollen delivered https://www.apitherapywellbeing.co....-and-apimist-plus/product/apimist-plus-pollen it says 'as seen on fertility forums' so it might help. I will literally try anything!!

 

[Mrs W 11]

I think it's early pregnancy baby jan. if it had been an early loss you wouldn't be seeing progression on the tests like that I don't think? Ill keep my fingers and toes crossed that it was just too early for them to see anything xx

 

[Button#]

Hope it turns out well for you BabyJan.

Don't blame you Munchkin, that would have been hard. I've started my OPKs today. Got a faint line but not expecting a positive until Tuesday.

 

[Mrs W 11]

Haha munchkin!! Sorry no I knew it was brunette I was just having a blonde moment or something and put the wrong name.

I'm sorry you couldn't face your nct girls night out. I don't blame you though and I think it's very understandable that you feel that way. If you currently prefer to curl up at home with your family, that's your prerogative. You will feel better and more up for socialising in time.

What's everyone up to for the weekend? X

 

[babyjan]

Thanks girls, I hope so, I'm gonna hold off on testing and maybe test Sunday to see if there's a progression.

How are you all doing ladies?