I have another 1 1/2 - 2 year wait ahead of me and I've already been waiting for 2 years, so my wait will total over three years at minimum. It hasn't always been easy. It goes through cycles. Sometime I'm so broody that I can't even stand it and there's other times I'm okay with waiting the couple years and feel like I could handle it even longer if needed. This is one of those points in time where I don't want to wait, though.
It's definitely helped to try to stay busy and settle on little goals. One of the conditions for me and OH to start trying is for me to be most of the way finished with my 2 year degree. I start in college in 10 days, so I'm moving forward on that. It helps to be working towards my goal and I know that college will keep me pretty busy.
I also feel like my OH is going to keep pushing the date back too. As it stands now, April 2016 is a
possible date, as long as our goals are met. I'm scared he's going to change it after and come up with more reasons to wait. But I'm trying to let that feeling go and just hope that he will be ready then.