*** April 2012 Beans Here *** March Bean Out.

[emma_2011]

UPDATE:

Was due to see the doctors on Thursday, but an hour before I started to spot pink, then dark pink. By the time I got there, was red and crampy.Doc said retest in a week, but by that evening it was like a full blown AF with clots. I was devastated. Went to the ER (no effing help at all!) and their stick test was negative - I'd done a digi the night before saying pregnant - and they refused to believe that. They wouldnt do a blood test or a scan

The next three days was heavy bleeding (using tampons) so I'm going to go with that I've lost my bean. I'm not going to retest in a week. My boobs have gone back to normal (they had changed) and dont hurt, my cervix was still open this morning.

So OH and I are going to NTNP - no more temping opking (I binned them all) and no more charting. Luckily my last cycle was only 36 days, which is the shortest it has been in a while, so we're just going to let nature take its course and see what happens.

hope you are all well and well done all those who got their bfps. xxx

wouldnt they know if it was a mc or not though?? didnt they do any tests or anything?? xx

 

[griffinh]

Because the bleeding and cramping was at the time I should have come on my period, they've said I had a chemical. The stick test at the hospital was negative. I explained that my internet cheapies all said neg too but my digi said pregnant (I showed him the digi photo!) and he said no sorry I can only rely on my test here and it says your not pregnant. I asked for a scan to check and they said no. xxx

 

[emma_2011]

is that what happened last time too?? xxx

 

[griffinh]

Last time, I had a positive, then several negatives, then a period a week late. this time i had negatives til 11dpo, then positives on four different brands, then heavy bleeding. xxx

 

[emma_2011]

but are they both classed as chemicals?? your doctor should run some tests if its happened twice now hun xx

 

[griffinh]

I know hun but at this point I'm not going to bother with the docs. Both my GP and Kent and Sussex hosp were dreadful. I know that I've lost my bean, if I get pregnant again, I'm going to demand another doctor and I will want an early scan at 6 weeks too xxxx

 

[emma_2011]

fx hun. at least you know youve done it before so it can definitely happen again xx

 

[griffinh]

Its not the 'getting' pregnant that has me worried, it's the staying pregnant lol x

 

[emma_2011]

lol. well thats why i thought if you went to the docs they would investigate why it doesnt stick. maybe something to think about after a couple of months of relaxking xx

 

[griffinh]

That's what I'll do. I know that the docs here won't do invasive tests until three miscarriages have happened xx

 

[emma_2011]

3??? surely one is bloody enough never mind 2 or 3 xx

 

[griffinh]

you would think! xxx

 

[moonbeam38]

oh griffinh i am so sorry.... i wish you well in the future xx

 

[griffinh]

thanks hun x

 

[cupcakesarah]

Boo, took a test tonight and BFN. Due on Thursday so still not got the witch yet.

 

[griffinh]

I have today been fooling myself I am still pregnant. Keep reading stories about how some girls had heavy bleeding but were still pregnant

this is all based on the difference my mc's/

MARCH: positive test 9dpo then recurring negs, then bleeding a week later
JULY: positive test 11dpo, 12dpo and digi that evening. then at 13dpo bleeding and hosp test neg.

Thing is that the blood was really heavy to fill 3 tampons and just stopped spotting yesterday
SIGGGGGHHHH. wishful thinking hey!!! xxxx

 

[hoping4girl]

I have today been fooling myself I am still pregnant. Keep reading stories about how some girls had heavy bleeding but were still pregnant

this is all based on the difference my mc's/

MARCH: positive test 9dpo then recurring negs, then bleeding a week later
JULY: positive test 11dpo, 12dpo and digi that evening. then at 13dpo bleeding and hosp test neg.

Thing is that the blood was really heavy to fill 3 tampons and just stopped spotting yesterday
SIGGGGGHHHH. wishful thinking hey!!! xxxx

ah I'm super sorry griffin....

 

[hoping4girl]

I'm out too, had some spotting yesterday and bleeding last night, now more brown spotting this morning. Stupid short LP!!!

 

[guest2003]

hey girls, how are we all?????

well in about 3 hours il be officially a day late!!!! I have never been late before so i have my fingers crossed for an April baby

 

[moonbeam38]

FXD guest

im just relieved to finally have mine confirmed at the docs yesterday

hope you are ok griffinh,thinkin of you xx