Lithodora, my hubby was like that my first pregnancy as well. I was off the pill for about 16 months with nothing happening, and was about to go back on it until I finished school, so he was in total shock when I got pregnant instead! But after his initial days of shock wore off he became the kindest, most gentle and loving man, taking care of me at every turn. It was the best! Sadly, that behavior has NOT resurfaced this time around!! I think he's like, meh, you lived through the last one!
Northern, your meal sounds amazing! I would totally eat that right now.
Maggz, I know how you feel, wishing your DH would take the initiative to take care of you. With mine I finally accepted that he will never read me and understand my needs, and he needs very specific requests. Not, Can you please help me with dinner? Rather, Can you please wash and chop these three vegetables and grill the chicken?
Eidson, your marriage was sounding so good--women have empathy and most men can't seem to muster it!--until you got to having her hormones throw off yours. I don't need any help in that department!
I guess I should appreciate that only one of us is an emotional wreck!
Now I whine for a sec: I'm so freaking *tired*!! I don't wanna exercise! I don't wanna keep avoiding sweets when they sound SO. GOOD. I wanna lie down on the couch while someone makes me some food!!
Okay, I'm done. Going to my treadmill now.
It may be fixable but I'm sure it will be several hundred dollars and I've had it nearly 10 years so it's time for a new one, however we really don't have the money to spend because what we have in savings was designated for our medical bills from my surgery in January and DH's ER visit...sigh...oh well, can't be without a washer! DH is going to go look for one tomorrow.
such cute little babies you guys have! So jealous you've had scans! 
my poor DH....I can't help it...I feel miserable. I need to try and be nicer but I swear if he wakes that sleeping baby I can't promise I will 
