Big hugs Danielle and Dana. Really hope the surgeon is right, but I know what you mean about them thinking everything is routine and easy. Dana, I give your DH so much credit for doing what he feels is best for his son. There is definitely no easy choice in that situation, both options have their pros and cons, but sounds like he weighed things and out kept his son's happiness as the main focus.
Danielle, how is the milk donation going, have you started yet? Oh and you had asked what part of the pack n play Lizzie sleeps in, when she does sleep in there it's still the top bassinet part. My pediatrician told us to put her in the bottom at her 4 month check up but at that time she couldn't even sit up. Now she can sit up but can't pull herself up but I'm sure that will be coming soon.
We may go with a queen mattress on the floor for her or just start using the king mattress in the spare bedroom so at least DH and I have some room. Little miss loves to sleep on her back with both arms spread fully out, it's hilarious to look at, but not so funny when you're at the edge of the mattress with one butt cheek hanging off!!
Good to hear from you Emmy's!!
We're off on our long weekend trip without Lizzie. I'm so sad just thinking about it, but I know she'll be fine with Grandma and Papa.