Please don't feel the need to reply, ladies, but if I don't let this rant out somewhere I may explode.
Why are people such b**tards? I mean seriously, a newborn is a positive thing, yes? Your Son/Brother being happy is what you would wish for them?
So why is it ME who gets the shitty end of the stick time and time again. Why when they are called on over 5 years of appalling behaviour do I get the blame? Why isn't it their Son/Brother, or isn't he capable of saying a cross word to them? Despite the fact that every phone call has been him and every email has been signed from both of us.
I feel sick and angry, I am literally crying with frustration. I want nothing more to do with these people ever again. My children will not be subjected to their shit and they will not figure in our lives ever again. Even in the smallest measure. And despite how much I love him and my heart breaks to even suggest it, if OH wont deal with it, I will. Any respect I have for him will be gone and then I will have to seriously assess my future here.
I can't do this anymore. I WONT do this anymore.