April Mummies 2011

aww hope alex gets better very soon! Hugs Gertrude - we are always here for a chat if you need us x

Gem - I am unsure but eating lots of full fat stuff should surely work?! I have the opposite problem..it ISN'T coming off!

Took Amelia to the park today and had her on the swings - she loved it LOL!!
 
caro glad alex is ok
crazy my george loves massage too and i think it is good for their eczema
gertrude hugs

I took george back to the GP again yesterday, she says the spots are as a result of a virus and not foliculitis at all, he has a bit of a temp and she says his body is fighting it very effectively thats why he has shown no other signs of it.

have a great day everybody
xxxxx
 
Jakes - Ive tried eating fatty stuff. It really isnt working! :S Im being a fat slob lately and Im losing weight haha I just dont get it at all. Not going back to the docs though. I am DONE with them!
Id happily switch situations with you if I could haha! I keep getting asked if I have an eating disorder :S

Jen - Aww I hope the virus clears up soon, big hugs to him x

Finally got a free house to spend some time with my new(ish) bf and AF decides to show haha D: Gahh.
I didnt tell you guys about him incase it didnt work out but yeah things seem to be going nicely (FXd I dont jynx it by saying this! ahh)
Hes been a really good friend to me since like nursery, so around 16 years! An now were like dating haha :) Hes good with Ollie too. Its all so nice!
Not mentioning it on fb yet though untill were absolutely 100% sure that we want to be "official" because it could cause problems with FOB if he hears or whatever :/
He still has nothing to do with Ollie like (not seen him since he was 3 weeks old) but hes a bitter little shit so yeah.
 
Great news on the new relationship Gem. Fingers crossed it works out xx
 
Gertrude :hugs:

gem, i'll trade places! though have you had your thyroid checked? not sure whether its underactive or overactive but one way can make you lose weight.

Tasha hows the new pushchair going?

choco, glad george is fighting his virus!

well i've got one very poorly boy on my hands today :(, and i'm feeling pretty terrible too :(. He's sooo unsettled and just keeps giving a horrible pained cry. He can't settle without a dummy but he can't breath and have a dummy, poor little guy. If he feels even slightly like I do it must be so horrible as he won't understand why he feels unwell.

Fx'ed we both get better soon with a bit of rest!
 
Good morning! I hit the end of my rope yesterday. Good or bad, I bought Ferber's book on recommendation from a friend and read it with an open mind. I decided to try to space out Isis' night feeds a little so I could regain some sanity. She woke at nearly midnight so I fed her, put her down drowsy and then woke up with the alarm at 6am!! I'm hoping that she doesn't need more food during the day because of this but I'm thinking that she wasn't really taking much food in at night anyway because the feeds were very short. I'm hoping this continues.

Tonight I'm going to take some fall pictures with Isis in just a bright orange diaper. I've been trying to get this done since Friday. I'm going to harvest some gourds and pumpkins from the garden and maybe pick a few red leaves from our maple since none are on the ground yet.

Gem, I agree with Caro, have they checked your thyroid? frequently women have changes in their thyroid due to pregnancy. I hope your new relationship keeps going well!

Caro, I hope your LO starts feeling better! I hate it when Isis is congested!

Jen, glad he's fighting the virus so well. I hope he gets better though so he doesn't have spots anymore!

Jakes, I enjoyed the pictures of your kids at the playground. Looks like Amelia enjoyed the swings!

Crazy, I'll have to look up baby massage. I've seen people talk about it on here but I've never heard of it IRL.

Gertrude, :hugs: I hope you feel better soon!

Stacey, I'm having a hard time staying strong and waiting for BG's new prints to come out! I've already bought 3 new diapers this weekend because they were 60% off...:blush: I gotta quit or DH going to get upset when I buy Albert and Lovelace!
 
Why don't you try the "No cry sleep resolution" method.
It'll will take a little longer, but your baby won't be left to CIO!
On amazon it has 950 (or so) 5 star reviews!
 
I didn't need to use Ferber's methods (not a fan of CIO at all!) but used his insights on sleep patterns to help me change my ways of putting her to sleep and handling her waking times with no crying (except to tell me she's awake)! Even when frustrated I can't handle letting Isis cry. I was a little appalled that one of his tips discussed how to handle when your child vomits from crying so much! Any method where that could be an issue is not for me! If this slight adjustment I made doesn't help I'll buy the No cry sleep solution. Thanks!
 
I didn't need to use Ferber's methods (not a fan of CIO at all!) but used his insights on sleep patterns to help me change my ways of putting her to sleep and handling her waking times with no crying (except to tell me she's awake)! Even when frustrated I can't handle letting Isis cry. I was a little appalled that one of his tips discussed how to handle when your child vomits from crying so much! Any method where that could be an issue is not for me! If this slight adjustment I made doesn't help I'll buy the No cry sleep solution. Thanks!

WOW! Vomitting from crying, that is aweful.
I also do not leave Aleena to cry, when she cries she needs me, so I'm there for her.
Even when I'm exhausted/frustrated etc. :thumbup:

Maybe Isis just needs a little comfort sucking during the night? If so, let her for a few mins, then as her suck starts to become weaker, press down with your thumb on her chin, gentle but firm. And pull your nipple out very slowly.
This helps for Aleena, she won't even wake up when I do that!
 
what have you changed then cheese? thinking we need to try and work through the no sleeping thing a bit now! not while he's so ill but once he's better again i'd like to work on it a bit now, getting up 5-6times a night when he's not far off 6 months is becoming a bit silly now!
 
Caro, that's how I was feeling. Normally I nurse her to sleep (because it's so easy!) but last night I only nursed her till she was drowsy and then put her to bed with white noise (will try without that tonight). I also turned down the volume on the monitor so she would have to cry in order for me to hear her. It kinda sounds mean but I think I was getting up when she wasn't really awake. I knew it would only take a few minutes to get her settled and I was already awake so I would go feed her and she got used to it. I also was prepared to do whatever it took to space out her night feeds. Last night we were aiming for no less than 2.5 hours between feeds. Tonight it'll be 3 hours. We'll see what tonight brings but she went from waking 4-5 times a night to once and was asleep when I got up with the alarm this morning. I'm hoping between making her self-settle and lowering the monitor we've at least somewhat fixed it.

Naima, I've tried that with Isis, unless she's totally asleep when I unlatch her she will continue to root and grunt until she finds my nipple or I put her down. My little girl loves her boobie! :haha:
 
Caro, that's how I was feeling. Normally I nurse her to sleep (because it's so easy!) but last night I only nursed her till she was drowsy and then put her to bed with white noise (will try without that tonight). I also turned down the volume on the monitor so she would have to cry in order for me to hear her. It kinda sounds mean but I think I was getting up when she wasn't really awake. I knew it would only take a few minutes to get her settled and I was already awake so I would go feed her and she got used to it. I also was prepared to do whatever it took to space out her night feeds. Last night we were aiming for no less than 2.5 hours between feeds. Tonight it'll be 3 hours. We'll see what tonight brings but she went from waking 4-5 times a night to once and was asleep when I got up with the alarm this morning. I'm hoping between making her self-settle and lowering the monitor we've at least somewhat fixed it.

Naima, I've tried that with Isis, unless she's totally asleep when I unlatch her she will continue to root and grunt until she finds my nipple or I put her down. My little girl loves her boobie! :haha:

Read this, Caro, you too!!
https://www.pregnancy.org/article/when-your-baby-wakes-frequently-feed-pantley-pull

(Elizabeth Pantley is the lady who wrote the book "no cry sleep resolution)
 
I agree that Isis doesn't have the problem, I do. I liked the article. I like that method better than Ferber's since it works with biology better. He talks about increasing the time between feedings but the infant wakes during certain periods and that's basic circadian rhythm. Pantley's method reduces the association gently. I was a little skeptical of Ferber's lengthening method. I'll give it a try. She seems to self-settle pretty well if I unlatch her early but I do have to be careful about timing the unlatching. I'm also going to be removing her pacifier from her life except in extreme situations. I think I'm more dependent on it than her.
 
:hugs: gertrude. Hope that you start to feel happier soon. We're always here for you even if all you want to do is vent.

Gem, the others are right, I know you're sick of doctors but a simple blood test can let you know if you have an overactive thyroid. It's a simple fix if that's the case. Also, try to eat lots of protein, yogurt, fish, meat, chicken, etc. The fatty food should help but the protein will help you build and maintain muscle. Good luck with the new guy, really hope this works out for you!!

Danielle, I've been holding strong so far on the diaper front, we have 18 and that seems to be enough to wash every 2nd or 3rd day. She's still in sposies 3 days a week so that helps to stretch our diapers further.

We're going away for 3 nights/4 days next weekend and leaving Lizzie with my parents. I know she'll be fine but just worry about her needing comforting and me not being there to let her breast feed which usually calms her down right away. I know my parents have adapted to find other ways of comforting her and she responds to them just fine, just being a silly mommy who is going to miss her baby a lot! I know it's good for all of us though to have some time apart, just wish it was 2 nights instead of 3 nights. Also trying to plan my pumping schedule so I have enough fresh milk to send a long with her for the long weekend. I have 32 bottles worth frozen so that shoudl be plenty, just want to make sure she gets a good amount of fresh as well since the frozen may be lacking some nutrients. And of course my Mom has a tub of formula if for some reason she decides to feast while I'm away!

We tried out the baby oatmeal mixed with breast milk again last night and she loved it! I made it a little thinner than last time and I think that was the key. She fed herself mostly and managed to get every other spoonful somewhere near her mouth. We gave her a nice warm bath after to wash it out of her hair and ears and toes! I sent some with my Mom to give to her today at lunch, hoping we can get her to take a bit more food to hopefully fill her up a bit more, especially in the evening. She slept pretty well last night, only woke once I think, so it might have helped.

I really need to try putting Lizzie down to sleep when she's sleepy but still awake, I normally nurse her until she's sound asleep then put her in the pack n play. Lately she's been waking up 30 min later, she cries until picked up and settled for about 2 min, then goes right back down. She did that twice last night within an hour of going to sleep. I bet it has to do with the fact that she falls asleep on my lap and wakes up all alone. For those that have sucessfully put their baby to sleep while still slightly awake, any tips? Do you stay in the room while they fuss for a bit or do you keep a hand on their back or what?

Sorry to those who are feeling poorly or have sick babies, hope you all feel better soon. Cold season is starting up here, definitely not looking forward to that.

Off to drink my nursing tea, need to make sure I have a good supply going into my (pumping) vacation!
 
Stacey, Does Lizzie suck on her fingers or a pacifier? Isis usually finds her fingers within about 30 seconds of me putting her down when she's drowsy. I stay for about minute or less depending on her reaction to being put down. Sometimes I rub her back but not all the time.
 
Alex always goes down awake these days, in fact he won't sleep on me :(. But when I was teaching him to go down like that I'd initially stay until he was completely asleep and would gently stroke down his nose and cheeks, prompting the shutting his eyes reflex and eventually they get more heavy. If he's crying, depending on the level of cry I'll either pick him up or sooth him with him laying in his cot by bending over to give him a cuddle without actually lifting him.

He tends to go down like a dream now, its just getting him to stay asleep thats the problem, especially as the night goes on! lol
 
Naima just read that link...thanks! that sums Alex up exactly! with the dummy! once he's well again I'm so trying that! not going to do it while he's sick cos he just needs to get better right now. He was practically choking again tonight when flat to change his nappy :(, not nice.
 
Pram is fab Caro still have a photo on my phone to upload might get round to doing it tomorrow lol xx
 
Caro, try putting a pillow or rolled up towel under his head when changing. Lizzie used to hate diaper changes but as soon as we propped her up she stopped fussing. Should help his breathing too while he gets over his cold.
 

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