doggylover, I was a size 8(Uk) when I was pregnant with my first and had to take my tummy piercing out around 3-4 months then even though it was flat my button didnt actually pop out properly until the end of the pregnancy lol. I'm expecting it sooner this time, I'm now a size 10 but I have had 2 kids already so I'm presenting a lot sooner than I did before, the fundus is already halfway to the bellybutton and my bump is sticking out lol..
maybesoon, I'm court currently with my ex and it is tough! You get knocked aorund and judged by all sorts of people. So if you are sure this is what you want and what is best for you and baby, which I personally think it is, then you need to write down everything he does and have evidence to back it up. Do not be alone with him, do not give him any opperatunity to put you down. He wanted you to feel bad when he told you he would shoot himself, he wants you to get sucked into the drama of it all. The best thing you can do is ignore him and not give him any pay off. He doesn't seem to want the baby you are having together so I'm hoping for your sake that it doesn't even get close to a court battle. But without sounding mean you have to realise that if he does want to see his baby he has as much right as you do, as long as he sees the baby in a safe controlled way. My feeling is though that he wont bother. Or he will for a few visits then he'll give up, while he is drinking and threatening you though you have every right to refuse him contact, I know the baby isn't even born yet but you have to always think ahead and be careful that you don't use the baby as weapon to hurt him with ( I know you wouldnt but some women do because they dont have any other way to hurt their exes back). But yeh the thing that I found most useful in court is evidence and diaries, and the people who deal daily with that stuff arent stupid they can tell when someone isnt being a good parent or not. I was abused by my ex in Norway, now we are going through courts in England, I was afraid they wouldnt understand me or see my side or he would be able to trick them into believing him, but they told me straight out that they know what he is about even though he is being nice in court. So dont worry. Just relax and let his bullshit wash over you. Do not even rise to anything he says xxx You will be fine hun you can tell you are strong so just keep going you're doing really well
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