wishnhoping
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Steph, try not to focus on the weight gain thing too much hun. I know its hard but try just to eat and exercise as you normally would within reason. I was full of good intention with my ds but i ended up so sick i could only eat crap and ended up putting on over 5 stone which i have since lost. Just try and focus on that little bean inside you. You have no idea how you are gonna feel and pregnancy does crazy things to you. X x
Oh and Steph, re the stretch marks i only got them AFTER the birth as i had emergancy section and they rummaged inside me a bit ti get him out. Just invest in a good quality body butter or bio oil x
Hello Ladies,
So I am terrified of the weight gain silly, I know...
I have set a goal to not gain any weight in the first trimester (maybe one lb is ok but i'm actually hoping that I lose 1-5lbs, so I have some to gain for the following months). Does that sound realistic? For those of you that have done this before, whats the best way to deal with it?
My BMI is on the high end of normal and I know i am expected to gain between 25-35 total. But with more/quicker weight gain, you are increasing your chances for stretch marks right?
Geez, I guess this should be my last worry but I read that if you can control weight gain in the first trimester, then it will be easier for the total pregnancy and after.
Hello Ladies,
So I am terrified of the weight gain silly, I know...
I have set a goal to not gain any weight in the first trimester (maybe one lb is ok but i'm actually hoping that I lose 1-5lbs, so I have some to gain for the following months). Does that sound realistic? For those of you that have done this before, whats the best way to deal with it?
My BMI is on the high end of normal and I know i am expected to gain between 25-35 total. But with more/quicker weight gain, you are increasing your chances for stretch marks right?
Geez, I guess this should be my last worry but I read that if you can control weight gain in the first trimester, then it will be easier for the total pregnancy and after.
I was the healthiest I've ever been right before getting pregnant with dd. I had just lost 80 pounds! With ms, I just ate whatever I thought was going to stay down and that was a lot of carbs. Then I freaked out 2nd tri because contractions started (at 23 weeks) every time I even lightly exercised. I gained 40 pounds. But not one single stretch mark (don't hate me!).
I had a goal going into it of gaining 15 pounds or less. It just... I don't know. I couldn't make that happen. I have the same goal again, but since I'm starting out 35 pounds heavier this time (yeah... I didn't lose the weight from dd), I think it's more realistic.
Steph - on the stretchmark front I hate to say but you will never know if you will get them or not, even if you don't gain a lot! I had reaaaallly bad MS (had home IV's and a reglan pump after which constantly dispensed meds through a needle in my belly) from about 5 weeks preg until I gave birth! I ended up a little over 40 lbs lighter than when I first got pregnant after DS was born - and I STILL got stretch marks. Not a ton, but about 5 long ones on each side of my belly. I used bio oil which I think may have helped a little but they still popped up - and I had DS at 35 weeks so who knows what they would have looked like had I made it full term. My prepregnancy pants actually got too big for me during my pregnancy and after he was born - I guess even if you lose weight, don't gain a pound, or gain a normal amount - your bump is still going to be expanding and growing the most out of your body parts and there's no stopping it!
Steph - on the stretchmark front I hate to say but you will never know if you will get them or not, even if you don't gain a lot! I had reaaaallly bad MS (had home IV's and a reglan pump after which constantly dispensed meds through a needle in my belly) from about 5 weeks preg until I gave birth! I ended up a little over 40 lbs lighter than when I first got pregnant after DS was born - and I STILL got stretch marks. Not a ton, but about 5 long ones on each side of my belly. I used bio oil which I think may have helped a little but they still popped up - and I had DS at 35 weeks so who knows what they would have looked like had I made it full term. My prepregnancy pants actually got too big for me during my pregnancy and after he was born - I guess even if you lose weight, don't gain a pound, or gain a normal amount - your bump is still going to be expanding and growing the most out of your body parts and there's no stopping it!
Oh Boy! I'm sorry to hear that you had such a difficult time with your first pregnancy. FXd that this one is easier for you!
I guess in the end, its all worth it