Candy I'm a little surprised your hv was so against co-sleeping, but I think a lot of people still have a really negative association with it, including professionals. We plan to have LO in our room, but not bed share as it doesn't feel right for us, but I think it's actually (as you said) more natural than having them apart. I am putting our crib right beside me though so I can reach out and touch LO at any point, so hopefully a compromise . Boooo for your hooves!!
I found out on Sunday our church has a mums and tots which is great as its only a 2 minute walk from the house. I definitely plan to get out as much as possible. Luckily, my dad is off with my nephew one day a week, and my SIL two days a week, so I will have plenty of company to choose from, even if its just popping up to the house (my mum and dads) for a few hours, so I'm very lucky. I don't want to get stuck in a rut like you mentioned.
Melissa:
now I'm thinking we are lucky that we haven't been dtd in months, the bed could have collapsed and put us through the ceiling!! Good luck tomorrow morning, fingers crossed that LO will be joining us next week! Our first team yellow baby (of 2!) so I am extra excited to find out what gender you are baking!
Kealz: definitely not broken the bed due to an over active sex life that's for sure
we bought it from Argos, and although it wasn't cheap, we obviously overestimated the quality of Argos stuff! It was a metal frame, so I think we will go wooden this time for a bit more...support?!
this makes it sound like Simon and I get up to acrobatics in our bed- nothing could be further from the truth! The most athletic thing ever done in it is me sticking my legs up int the air after we dtd when we were ttc! It's probably the weight of the damn dog jumping on it!
for Harrison being out of his incubator! What a little trooper he is! Melissa pass on our continued love to nimbec.
I have, perhaps stupidly, decided to make my way through this series of obem on 4od as I think I need a reality check on what labour is like. Luckily, the one I'm currently watching one of the girls looks like she isn't in any pain at all. She is my role model!